I was the first to leave based on a mutual decision. In this time, we did every thing married couples do including the intimacy. He moved to a different city quite a distance from me, but we met every chance we got which was quite often. He asked me to move there. I said no because I was not sure of the surroundings. I did decide to go, but now he says that he's not sure if he loves me. He has admitted to sleeping with someone else, and says that he does not want me anymore. does anyone think that that is his true feelings or is he just fascinated with the idea of something new? We have a child together, and he has not made an attempt to visit in awhile. At first, he said he did not want a divorce, but now I don't know. He hasn't talked to me in about a week. He was kinda mean to me the last time we talked in a way he has never been. Is that the other woman talking for him or what? Is it guilt because he got caught or is it really over?
2006-11-10 13:07:04 · 9 answers · asked by sp376 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no one can be talking for him. so i don't think she is putting those words into his mouth. i have dated guys that were separated and i had nothing to do with their relationships with their wives. just because he slept with someone does not mean that he is moving on for her. it was probably just sex. my guess is that he really does want to move. regardless of the other woman.
2006-11-10 13:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has moved for a new job i would suppose found a new women to take care of his needs says he don't want you around and was mean the last time you talked.
And your asking if its really over.
Your kidding right?
2006-11-10 13:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your life back together and make yourself happy before trying to make someone else happy....this is basically the end of the marriage the 2 of u should file for divorce and u should move on with your own life....do what u feel is right in your heart it will work itself out in the long run.....if u stay with him it may get worse....good luck i wish u the best
2006-11-10 14:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by truckindad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about ur situation, but you are
the one who can answer ur question. If I were
in ur shoes I would dump him but I would make
sure he helps in taking care of the child mone-
tarily according to the law, then I would divorce
and go on with my life, quit wasting time with
him.
2006-11-10 13:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has moved on. you should too, he is being mean to you cuz thats the way some men act to make them feel less quilty. then they will blame it on you, if this woman rejects him he probably will come crawling back to you, but I dont know if you want him that way, only thing I could say is good luck, and keep your chin up
2006-11-10 13:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by walmartshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up and go back. Now's a fine time for him to tell you he's cheated and isn't sure what he wants. He should of told you all of this before you went to where he was at.
2006-11-10 13:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's over. He's indecisive, immature, and doesn't know what he wants, obviously. I think that you should make the decision to end it and move on.
2006-11-10 13:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, it sounds like he doesn;t care about you anymore, not like he used to. l would let him go, and find someone who will treat you with respect
2006-11-10 13:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know i got about half way and still haven't found a question in it . i come on here to read question why do so many of you come on here and write a book...................
2006-11-10 13:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋