I WANT MY RINGS. She left 5 1/2 months ago (we are currently separated) and left her rings in the house...and recently requested her rings. It seems odd that she would even bother asking them since she was the one that wanted to run away from our relationship.
2006-11-10 11:31:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have a 2 year old boy.
She makes more money than me, so it wouldn't be for money.
Remember, she left them in the first place and suddenly, she's changed her mind.
The retail price was $10,000
2006-11-10 11:40:30 · update #1
It means she's through with you and she's playing a power game. She's trying to take control of her life and take what she feels is hers so that nothing of herself remains in your possession. She is really angry with you and wants to make sure that you don't have "any" part of her. It's not a good thing, unless of course your were less than nice to her?
2006-11-10 11:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i would put them in a safety deposit box at a bank until i figured out what was going on
if she wanted them she should have thought of that before she left
the wedding ring is a symbol of the marriage
and if its over it shouldnt mean anything to either of you (especially her since she did the leaving)
or you can offer to sell them and split the money
im sure you bought them
but they were hers
and since you both have rights to them i would say either both have it by spliting the worth
or neither
by putting it in a bank
and maybe if she has a daughter she would like to give it to her some day
then that would be up to you both
good luck with that
2006-11-10 11:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me she seems like she is affraid to deal with her personal issues but miss's you and isn't ready to completely let go of the relationship. She may be haveing some regrets as to how it came to an end. weather or not you choose to give the rings back is up to you but I would definatly do some soul searching and see if you could fix the marriage. Communication and trust are the key to a happy relatiopnahip. you never know, she may not have wanted it to end but felt no other option. bottom line... you need to talk.
2006-11-10 11:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by mrsmoose05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the suggestion of her not wanting anyone else having them. I think, besides all the other possiblities posted, would be she want to do something symbolic with them to say goodbye and move one-which could include selling it, she wants them for sentimental sakes, or she wants a reminder. Of good things. Of a mistake not to be made again. Or maybe of the change of her life now. You know her, what do you think? What would her mother say? lol.
2006-11-10 12:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps her ring is a symbol of her life with you that she wants to retain. At some point, you loved one another (hopefully) and even when you divorce someone, you still have a connection, a history. That individual was a part of your life and there are memories, some good, some not so good; nonetheless, they represent a part of your life. Let her have them. It can only help to heal your common wounds.
2006-11-10 11:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rita T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's either she wants them because it's now just another jewelry or she wants to sell them even though u said she makes a lot of money. Sorry, probably not the answer u want to hear but that's just my honest opinion.
I don't think she wants them back because she is thinking of coming back.
2006-11-10 12:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she WANTS her rings. No matter if she left you or not,,,im sure they meant something to her and still does. Just give her them and everything will be fine. She will probably stay out of your life for good once she gets them.
2006-11-10 11:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of getting all of our assumptions based on very little info, why not just ask her. Granted you are separated, but that does not mean you cannot ask her questions. Just be honest and ask her, "You will get what you requested, but why do you want them so badly if we are separated?" And see what she says instead of trying to figure it out on your own with others opinions who have no idea truly who you are or your situation.
2006-11-10 11:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by EoC 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It means the relationship is severely damaged.
It means she wants her rings. Give them to her, no matter what her reasons are, it's not worth increasing the conflict between the two of you.
2006-11-10 11:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Dean 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Any number of reasons
1) They are hers
2) She wants to sell them
3) They mark a significant period of her life
4) She doesn't want them to be given to anyone else
5) She wants to come back and thinks this will show it
Hard to tell really, but good luck.
2006-11-10 11:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by yolkyolk 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋