2006-11-10 10:31:33 · 12 answers · asked by who dat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, see if you can't do something to get unstuck - individual or joint counseling, church, communicating more, etc.
If it is hopeless, then you must decide if staying has more benefits for all concerned than leaving.
Change what you can, and accept what you can't change.
2006-11-10 11:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
If you feel stuck and trapped in an unhappy marriage pl. break at once go for divorce.
2006-11-11 06:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society makes it difficult to be happy and satisfied in a marriage. Today more than ever we value individuality and personal growth. Marriage is about taking care of somebody else and promoting the other person. Happy marriages figure out how to have both.
I am married and I find it very difficult. I hope to God we keep things together.
2006-11-10 19:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is that big of jerk why put your child threw it. Leave the man. And if he is mean hit on you the best place to go is a shelter or a friends house where he can't get you and the child. Put a restraining order on him. You can have one served on him the cops will deliver it to him and if he is sitting in your house watching t.v. they will make him leave right there on the spot. Get rid of him for you and the child. Tell the jerk respect or get out.Don't ever let any one make you feel that you are trapped.
2006-11-10 19:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Babie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't leave, find reasons to do things outside the home. Get a good friend circle, take classes, find a hobby, or just spend time away from home doing things you like.
I know lots of people say "leave", but most people won't for reasons they have. If you have to stay, don't rely on your spouse and your marriage to make you happy. You will have to find that happiness in yourself and what you do.
2006-11-10 18:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not really giving enough info. Is your partner abusive? Unattentive? Cheating? Are you just bored? Have you tried marriage counseling? If you are unhappy and have truly given the marriage all you've got, then leave.
2006-11-10 18:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why you got married in the first place
then you need to ask yourself what has changed to cause this feeling. Have you asked yourself if your husband is happy and then the two of you need to sit down and talk. There is no such thing as a perfect marriage I think there is just a lack of communication.........
2006-11-10 19:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be really depressing to have to go through this. i would talk to him an tell him i am very unhappy with all the reasons of why an ask how he has been feeling lately. also ask him his thoughts on where you go from the there. he may have answers you have not even thought of. the best one to ask , is him.
2006-11-10 19:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple you either talk and get marriage councelling or you file for divorce.
2006-11-10 19:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious answer is to leave...yeah it is tough.
If you want to work it out--stay and commit to working it out.
2006-11-10 18:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋