ok my friend was having sex w/ her so called boyfriend and get this she is married but neither one knew about each other. one day her husband walked in on them and they both freaked out now she does even know why they are mad at her and {yes she is dumb as a post.} what can i say to her w/o being mean to her cause in my opinion she's an idiot.
2006-11-10 09:37:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cant be honest with someone who cant be awake to what her actions have caused!!
All actions have consequences is one u can say!! She isnt a child, she needs to face up to what she has done.. you sugar coating it wont help hun!!
A true friend will tell her how it is then be there for her regardless of how things go down!!
Friends have to beable to be honest!! If she cant handle it then she is a bigger idiot than i first thought!~!
Good luck!
2006-11-10 09:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know she is your friend so you can call her an idiot - but she is more than an idiot...and I needn't say the word.
Tell her they are mad at her for being a liar and a cheat and a you know what ...they should both just kick her to the curb.
If you still want to be friends with a person like this (and her stupidity is NOT an excuse here for those actions)...I would tell her that she has just reduced herself to lower than dogshi* and if she has a heart in her - she will apologize to both and never treat anyone like that again.
2006-11-10 09:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your "friend" is a ho,and unlike what APPLESODA say's-you DO NOT NEED TO SUPPORT HER in the fall out. If,as you say,she is as dumb as a post and an idiot in your opinion,then don't have any more to do with her-she is a mattress,pure and simple,and there will alway's be boyfriends about for her. "Good for her" shouts ILLEEN, it say's a lot about HER morals and principles too!!
2006-11-10 10:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for her!! Men have been doing this to their marriages for years. How many times have they been called idiots? The only bad thing about this situation is that she was dumb enough to get caught.. Go, women do rule the world!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 09:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ash sounds like a manipulative flirty type wh loves mens attention, and doesn;t really like other women around getting in the way. You shouldn;t have said you were JEALOUS.. that makes it sound like you are the one with a problem... she is acting disrespectfully towards you, and you should have just told her straight to behave herself. Of course, these type of women can only get away with it when men give them the attention they crave, so its your husband you should be talking to about this, not her. He should have made it quite clear to her when she was shoving food in his mouth etc that she was out of order. (I bet he wouldn;t like it if a man on the trip did that to you). So, let Ash behave as pissed off as she likes, if you all ignore her, then she won;t get the attention she thrives on.. I can;t stand the Ashes of this world!
2016-03-28 01:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, tell her to get rid of both and start making money with it while she can. get a financial counselor and put that money in the bank, sounds like she's too dumb to do anything else.
2006-11-10 09:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you were telling her she was stupid or and idiot to hurt her feelings it would be one thing, but you are merely stating a fact. So I don't see that as being mean.
2006-11-10 09:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly why do you want to be friends with her? if a good friend of mine, or even a best friend or a person in general slept with someone else other then her bf or husband, uhm how can you have respect? i would totally lose respect. my sister in law is like that too; well she isnt with her husband, but still married, live in another area with her bf but still, hello get a divorce first before you have a baby with a man who you arent even committed too.
be mean to her. someone needs to tell your friend she is a loser/idiot.
2006-11-10 09:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Introduce her husband to some nice girl who is looking for a man.
2006-11-10 09:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is dumb as a post since post don't have any feeling
you should just tell her the truth
she probably will not understand/nor will she be hurt
2006-11-10 10:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋