If a husband falls out of love with his wife and only loves her, is it possible he can fall back in love in love with his wife?
2006-11-10 10:15:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't get this whole "in love" and "love" business. If you get married, you make a commitment to love, honor and cherish, in sickness and in health-- what part of that has anything to do with "falling in love"? Your vows said to love.
2006-11-10 10:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there are different phases of love and" falling in love' is the beginning when everthing is new and exciting. That type of love never seems to last long but can deepen into a much richer love. If the husband still loves his wife enough to want to be with her than maybe revising their relationship, taking the time to "date" again and court each other will help this husband to remember why he fell in love in the first place and he'll fall in love all over again. I think its possible if he wants it enough to work on it.
2006-11-10 10:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. There was something there in the first place to fall in love with. Why would those things not be there to fall in love with again. People mature and things change. Those feelings of love can to. Just be sure it isn't a regular thing. That may mean that he is falling in love with his wife for the wrong reasons and it is not really love in the first place.
2006-11-10 10:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by vancie121 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife cheated on me, multiple times. I found out everything in one night. Later found out she was pregnant and with twins. We tried to stay together and work through everything and raising the twins as my own for the first 2 years. In the end, for us, it didn't work. We divorced. I did not fall back in love with her during that time, I can honestly say. Only TENDERNESS remained. So depending on what the circumstances are surrounding FALLING OUT OF LOVE, it may be more difficult to overcome than others. Many people find that faith, prayer, God, a higher power, can help them resolve differences. Still others begin to try loving themselves first, in order to love others. Is it possible? Certainly so, but it will require many things, especially one's assessment of what they want out of life. For me, I eventually came to the conclusion that I wanted something different, no matter the cost of divorce upon my children. Selfish, heavy words? Yes, but it's a personal decision that only you can make, and no one else. Best of Luck!
2006-11-10 10:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't some magic word. Either he likes certain things about her so much more than he does anyone else, and so wants to be with her, or he doesn't. If he's out of love, he's sick of her and wants someone else or just to be alone, and if he comes back, maybe he realized his mistake, or more likely he just doesn't want to be alone after all. He shouldn't just be allowed back, he should have to prove himself to her. His leaving is a huge mark against whatever she likes about him so much she loves him. Maybe leaving is enough of a mark she no longer loves him. It'd be that way for me. Loyalty is one of my prime criterion. He'd have to win me back, by becoming a better person than he was when he left.
2006-11-10 10:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe if you pray about it. Prayer is very powerful. A good book to read is "Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian.
Matt 19:26
26 Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."
2006-11-10 23:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
husbands rarley fall out of love with thier wifes, the wifes fall out of love with them usually due to their imature behavior. You are not thier mothers you are thier lovers remember that since they forget!
2006-11-10 10:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by susan r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that fi u really love and i mean love somebody that u can never fall out of love with them
2006-11-10 10:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to rephrase that. It makes no sense. How can he fall out of love and still love her at the same time?
2006-11-10 10:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but whatever issues are there that is blocking that lustful love have to be dealt with. Sometimes they are more his than yours. I'd start doing some professional counseling, both together and seperate.
2006-11-10 10:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋