has anyone ever betrayed you and how has it affected you?

Answer 1

MY EX CHEATED ON ME LIED TO ME AND RIPPED ME OFF AND I HAVE SINCE FORGIVEN HIM AND MOVED ON I WONT ALLOW HIM TO HAVE THAT POWER OVER ME IT HURTS ME MORE TO HOLD ONTO IT THAN LETTING GO OF SO I JUST CHOSE TO LET GO AND I AM MUCH BETTER OFF NOW. I WENT WITH GOD ON THIS. THATS THE BEST WAY TO GO.

Answer 2

yes, I was betrayed by my husband in our 1st year of marriage and that was 3 years ago. I thought I could get forgive and forget and I have, but 3 years later it still pisses me off as if it was only yesterday that I heard him tell her he loves her, my husband!. Anyways, how has it affected me? Well and I just recently came to this realization, I really and truly resent him for it, and I don't trust him, don't really respect him as my husband, I mean it's all bad, every day I try to think of how to tell him I want a divorce because I can't get over his betrayal and I still resent him too much to ever trust and repect him the way I need to do in order to move on.

Answer 3

yes i've been betrayed by a husband of ten years, and it was over another woman, but at first he denied there was anyone else, and placed the detoriation of the entire marriage on me, and than added the most devistating insult, telling me he never loved me, took it's toll on my self worth for awhile, alot of self blaming, than i realiazed all this had little to do with me and mostly to do with him and the other woman. i did become bitter for awhile, questioning god, and why, and if only i had done something differently. but there was little i could have done here, and now 3 years later i feel good about me, know that i am a good person. i no longer believe the lies he said to me to take the blame off himself. but truthfully it takes alot of work, and prayer to get over being betrayed by the man u trusted your life to. makes us afraid to trust and love again, but i was lucky enough to find an understanding man who helped me during the bad times. took awhile to feel okay again, mostly because in addition to the betrayal, he also blamed the victim, me. it has made me a better stronger person today than i was 3 years ago. what we think we won't live through actually makes us a better person, with alot more wisdom than we had when we first felt the sting of betrayal.

Answer 4

I have been betrayed plenty of times. Even though it was many many years ago I still feel the affects. Insecure, unable to fully trust and all that crap. However, I am working on making myself a better person and removing the past and forgiving them for what they did is the first step to letting go. Being a better person is really knowing yourself and correcting any issues you may have before moving on to another.

Answer 5

Yes - several times in my life, and it's affected me differently each time.

Unfortunately, I'm very forgiving and have let the betrayers back into my life, giving them the chance to do it again. Once.

I'm the kind of person who needs to understand "why?" - until I get the reason for the betrayal, I can't let it go.

I have two ex-friends I cannot let go of, because they betrayed me and I don't know what happened. Maybe someday I will...

Answer 6

My whole relationship with my ex-girlfriend turned out to be one big betrayal, with a side order of self-delusion.

It's made me more cynical about love than I was before I met her— and that is saying a lot.

I expect I will be well into my thirties before I find someone else, if ever...

Answer 7

I have a so called best friend for the past 15-16 yers who this past year has beeen betraying me and I will never trust her again. I do not answer her calls or return her text messages. When I tried to talk to her regarding our friendship she acted like she didnt have the time. NOW she's been tryin to get at me and I AINT having it. SHe messed up big time when she treated our solid friendship like sh*t...sadly, she is damn near dead to me.

Answer 8

yea I think everyone has. It just makes you stronger and you learn from your mistakes to never be betrayed like that again.

Answer 9

yeah i felt badly for my ex he promised the world i wont hurt you bla bla but then 2 weeks later it was over obviously said it all for *&&**( i was devestated still am am trying really hard to get over the hurt. He was nothing but a liar.............. And im so honest, and the story is a lot longer but he proved he just used me and it hurts like hell

Answer 10

my wife was having an affair behind my back with one of the renters, the end result was a divorce from hell, that cost seventy four thousand in legal fees, a family run business, and destroyed four lives, mine hers and our two sons. it took almost four years for divorce to be done, and my sons almost hit bottom before they realized that i was telling the truth, and with my help straightened their lives up. is that good enough for you