Marriage & Divorce - 12 October 2006

My husband has a problem with internet porn and other sexual related stuff...I have confronted him on it and he says he will get better but hasn't do I have gotten in the habit of spying on him to see what he does when I am gone...Is it okay?

2006-10-12 07:40:31 · 33 answers · asked by Denise A 2

of me cheating on him?? Which is something I totally wouldn't do. What's up with that?? Have any other married couples been through this kinda thing b4??

2006-10-12 07:38:27 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs J 3

I have found that my husband has been watching porno on the computer while I am sleeping at night. I hate it. It makes me feel like I'm not doing my job. I try to give him sex whenever he wants. He has always had this problem, but I am so tired of dealing with the same thing over and over again. He has said previously that it has nothing to do with me, but I con't help but to feel infeior to his other "women". I don't have problems with him going to strip clubs occassionally with friends, but porno is another subject for me.
Please Help!!

2006-10-12 07:37:25 · 29 answers · asked by PRL8268 2

he smokes way to much pot and that **** is makeing him dumb! he forgets something like every day! like important **** !like bills or he loses his keys at a uncoveniate time and hes not spending money on it cause all of our friends smoke him up for free.so i cant complain about that ,he doesnt drink alochol so thats good. and i smoked for years but damn i dident get that dumb :)
and when i met him we both smoked but i want him to quit.
and he just laughs at me all gooted!what do i do?should i even *****, like i said hes a great husband and i love him to death.

2006-10-12 07:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a person changes jobs, do you have to determine where they are working in order to garnish the wages, or does the wage garnishment appear when their social security number is processed by the employer?

2006-10-12 07:32:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like serious, adult responses only please.

The man I'm with, I love very much. We've been together for years but I've made the continued mistake of letting him get away with not being emotional or romantic.

Against my better judgement, time and time again, I've let him off the hook when he doesn't say the three little words. I look the other way when he slides every so gracefully past my attemtps to be romantic or intimate. Not sexually but like, opening up to eachother. Now years later, I want more and am ready for more. But as strong as I am I can't seem to make him "come across" which I think he would, because he's come through before. He knows exactly how to glide past me and as hard as I try, I can't "make" him or encourage or entice or inspire him him to step up to the plate (and talk about marriage, kids, our future). I love him so freakin much I don't want to "press" him too much but I don't wanna be like this forever. I created this monster, what do I do?

2006-10-12 07:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by Ade 6

How was it?Happy or not?lf u mind to answer this question u can direct email to me.

2006-10-12 07:28:45 · 5 answers · asked by gen2 3

(my own answer)

My husband said he need me to be more aggresive when it comes to pleasing him on every level of his life.

I am courious how other couples feel.

2006-10-12 07:28:10 · 13 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

My wife and I are having our 3 year wedding anniversary (7 years total together). We have 2 very little kids, and will only be able to get out for a couple hours. I will be taking her out to a nice dinner, and I have a beautiful necklace as well, but I wanted to see if there were other clever ideas out there to make it really special.

Thanks

2006-10-12 07:24:53 · 21 answers · asked by xrionx 4

He is really nice to me. He is my cousins boss, he is good looking, very sweet, hardworking, and seems to really like me alot. I am somewhat turned on by his age, and every time Im around him he seems to pay close attention to me. I like that. We use to talk alot on the phone. He has a son who is about 19 or 20. He knows a little about whats going on and it doesn't seem to bother him. I like him and how he treats me. I met him out one night(took a friend with me)and he paid for everything that we had that night. I had a good time, I ended up staying the night with him, and sleeping in the same bed with him. I have asked questions before, and at that time I wasn't in the realtionship with the "Terrific Man", he had actually broke things off with me at the time for about 3 weeks. I got asked out to meet this guy, so I did. I ended up getting back into my prior relationship, but I wonder about the older guy. I keep thinking about that night I spent with him. I am attracted to him.

2006-10-12 07:21:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

keep it real, no lies. the real truth......
and the second question is;
a) was your husband/boyfriend uncomfortable about it?

2006-10-12 07:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

with your spouse do you find it hard not to throw up the past at them especially if they have just said something not so kind to you ? do you mean it or were you just trying to get back at them ?

2006-10-12 07:17:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my husband very much but he is mean when he wants to be some times he just gets in a bad mood and its like walking on egg shells and yuo never know when hes going to go off what should i do leave him or what can i tell him to make him stop verabally abusing me

2006-10-12 07:14:12 · 20 answers · asked by kpriest38 1

They hit on me all the time, it is so creepy... I am not flirtatious with them nor do I act innapropriate in any way around them, this is why I can't understand what the deal is, these people are MARRIED for gods sake and they are supposed to be his closest friends, who would do that and WHY??? And what should I do about it, I don't want to hurt my fiance and one of the guys is not only his longtime best friend, but his business partner... I don't want to hurt his business either, but I feel like I should tell him. Would that just open up a can of worms or is it the right thing to do?

2006-10-12 07:12:40 · 20 answers · asked by sweetie 3

Should I be superstitious?
I had a really bad dream that I haven't told him about. Tomorrow is Friday the 13th.

2006-10-12 07:02:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My X keeps telling our child that the money is to go directly to him and that it should not be spent on bills or food. Henseforth he should not have to come to his dad for anything else because he has already paid his support money. When our child is visiting with his dad- he has to beg for a haircut, lunch money, school clothes, money for xtra curriculum activities. It's stressing my child out. I need to be able to explain this to my kid.

2006-10-12 07:02:26 · 19 answers · asked by Shaneika 1

if you just sighed the papers, to get out of being married , how long is the wait befor you can get married , i have a friend that signed the papers and is fineal and is going to get married

2006-10-12 07:01:21 · 8 answers · asked by jodyj09 1

I don't know what to do with my boyfriend of 7 years (off & on). We have a one year old son together, and we were just about to get married. Now, after our last argument he has decided that he no longer wants to be with me, and will be leaving when our apartment lease ends next summer. He has stopped helping around the house, with the baby, etc. He goes out almost every night once the baby's asleep, and on the weekends doesn't come home until sunrise, only to sleep on the couch while I do everything. He says the most awful and cruel things to me, and I know I am not completely innocent, but I have stuck around to try and make it work for the sake of our child. My boyfriend came from a broken home and I feel it ruined his life, I don't want to see the same for my child. It has been a cycle of abuse for seven years, and we have both left before. This has happened all through our relationship, and we always make up. I can't take it anymore I just want him to stop.

2006-10-12 06:55:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

only girls

2006-10-12 06:53:55 · 4 answers · asked by sanjeet 1

2006-10-12 06:45:13 · 7 answers · asked by Yan M 2

What truely make a man want to have an affair?

What causes a woman to have an affair?

are the really the same issues?

2006-10-12 06:41:49 · 24 answers · asked by on2try 2

where do couples do it the most?

2006-10-12 06:38:31 · 26 answers · asked by Sharp 1

I didn't tell my wife, her daughter told her. I am now divorced but still love my ex-wife. What can I do to win her back and prove I am not a pervert. I don't look at porn all the time. I also hate that my step-daughter feels betryed.

2006-10-12 06:37:19 · 10 answers · asked by Olustee 1

I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I go to bed a few hours before him, and he's usually up playing video games or watching TV, but as soon as he knows I'm asleep, he looks at porn.

I've caught him a few times in the act, and he always comes up with an excuse like, "Well, you were sleeping" or "We didn't have sex today" but when I want sex he sometimes refuses! I asked him if it was the fact that I was pregnant, and he said no, it doesn't bother him, he still likes having sex with me. I told him that those were just excuses, and told him "come wake me up if you want sex! I wouldn't mind!" but he still does it!

It's not the fact that he's looking at porn (because we watch it together sometimes) it's the fact that he's doing that INSTEAD of having sex with me, and he's doing it behind my back.

What can I do to change this? Is it something I'm doing? Am I in the wrong?

Thanks!

2006-10-12 06:33:57 · 28 answers · asked by Huliganjetta 5

My otherwise good husband has this habit of speaking rudely at times. I am a very sensitive person who gets hurt very easily. If there is something he has to say then he just says it without thinking about my feelings. Also his behaviour at times is rude. Like he will simply turn up the vol of the TV while we are speaking. Sometimes not respond to me while I am asking something. In between our conversation he suddenly starts doing some work etc. He will very rudely point out my mistakes in housekeeping like ' Of all places on earth why is this thing kept here?' etc. I have an 18 month old baby now so it is not possible for me to take care of every little detail. I wish he would be a little more understanding and soft spoken towards me. I have tried talking to him but then it all ends up in arguments that leave me feeling sick. I want to know what I can do so that he understands that I need gentler treatment? Is there anything I can do without telling him directly or arguing?

2006-10-12 06:29:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband left me last September and now there is talk about us trying it again...We have a 6 month old son who lives with me and has since he was born. I think that being with my husband would be the right thing for my son and I for many reasons but I am wondering if I am doing it for convenience for stability, money, and support? Any advise?

2006-10-12 06:26:41 · 6 answers · asked by angelfsh9 1

I really like him alot, but all I do is travel back and forth to his house, and him to mine. I had asked a similar question before about this. I have a little girl, and I believe he is afraid of any kind of further committment because of this. I have been married once, and I have been totally committed to our relationship. I just can't figure out why we haven't gotten any closer in our relationship. I would think that the next step would be to move into together, or something to make our relationship a little more committed. I have had people make comments about how they need to "Get one like that" in reference to him having a woman that comes back and forth to him, and he still has his freedom and his house and nobody there to tie him down so to speak. I want to be in a more committed relationship. I have been asked out by another man, he is a little older than me, but he is so serious about me. He is very good to me. He knows my family well. What do I do??

2006-10-12 06:22:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have 2 very good married friends...they have decided they're getting a divorce. How do you decide who to hang out with? We don't want it to be awkward! The divorce is the result of one being unfaithful, along with other things...but the affair has set my husband and I into a world of confusion!

2006-10-12 06:12:07 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda 1

I am a wife of 10 years with 3 (2 back to back)children with this man. I may not have the cutest figure right now- but geesh cut me a little slace! I'm not fat, just my tummy and bootie is a little large! I am a stay at home mom + helping out with his business'.I see he likes to look up asian women and blondes? Is he bored or just curious. He tells me he loves me and that he would not hurt me, but I am so confused.

2006-10-12 06:11:08 · 19 answers · asked by bina 1

About being gay all the time? They even judge guys about being cute, or sexy. I don't know if they are doing it to make me paranoid or be funny or what. Plus his friend comes over to play video games untill 4 or 5 in the morning when im not here or am sleeping. His friends wife has accused her husband of being gay too. Am I overthinking? What should I do? Is there anyway to find out for sure if he is or isn't?

2006-10-12 06:10:32 · 30 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4