Marriage & Divorce - 12 October 2006

I told my husband that I was leaving him because he got caught cheating on me. He was having an affair with a coworker.

We do not have any children. His mistress may be pregnant...

I told him that he had to decide between me and the other woman and he said that he loves both of us...and I didnt think that was fair to me...So I told him that I was leaving...

I packed all of my things...and on my way out HE started CRYING...SOBING...ECT...He told me that he loved me and wanted to work things out....I told him that I loved him...which then led to sex...

Now I feel like it was just fake...an act...him crying I mean...

So...Men...have you ever cried intentionally to recieve sex?

2006-10-12 17:52:51 · 13 answers · asked by Bella 1

2006-10-12 17:51:19 · 17 answers · asked by pooter 1

I am not attracted at all and he kills romance when he doesn't brush his teeth and then tries to kiss me. When I don't kiss him he gets very mad at me and says I shouldn't care and he doesn't care if I didnt' brush mine. Is it just me or is this gross? I don't know why he doesn't care or want to brush his teeth. I tell him to and he gets mad or says I brushed them yesterday. HELP!

2006-10-12 17:38:49 · 47 answers · asked by tina*21 2

Is my husband pretending he's with the girls in the magazine when he's having sex with me?

2006-10-12 17:37:23 · 18 answers · asked by curiousin08 3

I leave a trail of Hersheys kisses from the front door to the master bathroom in which the tub is overflowing with roses and a little card that says "now that ive kissed the ground you walk on, and showered you with roses, will you marry me?

2006-10-12 17:36:20 · 19 answers · asked by Savant 2

I have nothing wrong with porn because my husband and I watch it together sometimes for fun, but I have noticed that he gets on porn sites alot. Our sex life is great when things happen but otherwise it i non-existant. Am I wrong to feel upset about him looking at porn all the time knowing he gets to have his fun and I don't? I do not know why but it kinda bothers me in a way it would if he were cheating on me. I know he isn't because I know he loves me but I can't help the way I feel. Am I wrong or do Ihave right to feel this way? If I am wrong what can I do to change how this is making me feel? please help!!!!

2006-10-12 17:27:35 · 28 answers · asked by Jazmine K 1

well am a 26 year old girl never had any physical relationship with a guy ..not even kissed...now after my two graduations and afer working i am about to get married...funny thing i dont know what my partner will feel if he sees me...i mean reactions and stuff on his face..another thing i have these black marks (called it spots) in my inner thigh ..some people say it could be due to weight..am 155cm tall with around 56 kg wieght...i am worried what my partner will think...and also its my first marriage proposal whereby the guy is a doctor and am a I.T person ..he is brought up in western society and me typical indian...wat advise if any u could give to help me understand my situation...does these things matter to guys? i mean body ...i think i have a very well structured body shape and am also very good looking..but that black marks worries me...how can i get rid of them...shoul di be nervous liek i am before marriage or am too shy at my age....pliz do adivse me ..elder women and girls

2006-10-12 17:23:32 · 16 answers · asked by Vinny C 3

there mother left 3 mounths ago with a man that said he has lots of money.she hasnt spoken to them and they ask me why she left and if she loves the . i dont know what to say hopping for some ideas

2006-10-12 17:19:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam 24 married and have 1 child. A couple of nights back I could not fall asleep and decided to chat 2 anybody who wanted 2 talk.Anyway 2 make a long story short i meet a man who is deployed in iraq and just found out his wife has cheatd on him. We started talking and have a lot in comman .Now he says he's fallen 4 me .....really bad.I did,'t tell him I was married as I thought nothing would happen. I also have started to have feelings for him and can't wait to speak 2 him again. I know that its wrong and that I should end it before it becomes more serious,but how ?I don't want to break his heart .he is such a lovley man.The truth is even I don't want my heart broken to because i have fallen in love with him. Help.........I also love my husband dearly,but he dosn't speak to me like the man i have meet or express his feelings at all. What do I do? I feel torn.........HELP!!!

2006-10-12 17:11:53 · 25 answers · asked by caligirl 1

i confronted her about now she mad at me was i wrong i have not said anything to my best friend need some honest advice

2006-10-12 17:06:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no doubts about marrying him; i would've never said yes if I did. He's been this way from day one; i loved him then, I love him now, i'll love him tomorrow. It's more that I am worried about him. I want him to be around forever, and to be happy with me, with life, with us, and it makes me feel inadequate that he doesn't seem to always feel that way . . . You don't walk away from someone you love because there may be something wrong. Love never fails.

2006-10-12 16:54:38 · 7 answers · asked by at_thebuzzer 1

My fiance is typically this wonderful, fun, funny guy. However, he gets into these "funks" as I call them where he is just miserable.Nothing is fun, nothing makes him happy, he mopes arond, he sleeps, he does nothing. I can't handle this. 99% of the time he rather sit home and do nothing, than go out and be with people. I'm just the opposite. This terrifys me and the future I am about to build with him.

2006-10-12 16:39:40 · 16 answers · asked by at_thebuzzer 1

Based on answers from previous questions, I got into idea that women needs attention for emotional health and for dealing with kids.... And from mens point of view, they make money for the welfare of the family, to buy car or house .... thinking of future. As a result there are deeply involved in work.
So there comes a gap, a husband who is deeply involved in work and a wife who is looking for love?
What can be done to bring the couple together?

2006-10-12 16:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by hindu saint 1

we both live in Florida and she is wanting to move to Indiana with my son. If that happens I will get to see my son less then what I already do. Is there something that I can do that would prevent her from being able to do this?

2006-10-12 16:34:41 · 11 answers · asked by Robert Paulson 1

Will girls be interested to have 2 or more boyfriends or many husbands?

2006-10-12 16:27:36 · 20 answers · asked by hindu saint 1

2006-10-12 16:19:41 · 23 answers · asked by 6-Pack? 2

In a relationship, I often find that the arguments, bad emotions and breakups happen because of talking too much about everything (especially those things that are very negatively emotional). Most psychologists would agree that the problem is that we need to communicate MORE. Do you agree, or should we avoid talking sometimes? Explain.

2006-10-12 16:16:00 · 17 answers · asked by DN 2

2006-10-12 16:15:20 · 8 answers · asked by dhie_gurl_06 1

Ok...I'll try to sum up 5 years in a paragraph. I was with my ex-girlfriend for the past 5 yrs. We were engaged to be married this month. However, 3 months ago she came home & told me she wasn't in love with me anymore & that she didn't want to get married. As you can imagine that was a bit of a shock. Over the next few days I found out that she was already dating another guy. Well, that explains that part. Over the next couple months we talked maybe 3 times.

2 weeks ago she broke up with the new guy & called me. She said that she still cared about me and didn't want to lose me as a friend. That she still loved me, my family, and my daughter (who over the past 5 years had basically become her daughter) but that she still didn't want to be together. I didn't really know what to do & took the past 2 weeks to debate the situation. Well, earlier I called her & told her that I couldn't do that. I couldn't just go from being with someone for 5 years, to being friends. Any suggestions???

2006-10-12 16:01:29 · 25 answers · asked by Confused_Guy 1

How much distance should men maintain from women? when men are more friendly and more attentive, they get bored and they start seeking alternatives. When men are more involved with work.... they say no attention is given to them......? whats wrong with girls?? What distance should men maintain with girls?> How to tackle girls in a balanced way so that they dont get bored and attention is also given? Or is it wrong with girls? How to solve this problem? Does it have any other solution

2006-10-12 15:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by hindu saint 1

When you're finally about to purpose to the woman you love, what makes you feel like you love her, what has she done and what does it take for a guy to finally realize he wants to spend the rest of his life with this one paticular girl? Is this a stupid question?

2006-10-12 15:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6

from the begning stage of love onwards my boy friend is searching matrimonial coloumns( its a site for those who are not married to search their partners) even yesterday too he did. he is not searching for his siblings or friends, he is searching for girls which will match him.. and he will ask me how is this girl, how is that girl.... i got fed up now a days. he is very short tempered person but i am not like that.. adjusting a lot in this relationship...he is saying u r very very stupid person that i ever seen..i said yes anything more, i do agree for wht he says coz i dont want to make fights, if i get angry i wont be able to control myself..thats why i keep quiet.....i dont know what i have to do, how long it will go like this, its being a 3yrs relationship now

2006-10-12 15:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by ann m 1

why girls cheat when men are away ? Why girls dont understand that men are earning for the welfare of the wife and children?
why women needs personal attention ? why women dont understand more work needs to be done to impress the boss and get promoted and to upgrade the family. why they think to have sex when men are away... trying alternatives?

2006-10-12 15:52:27 · 15 answers · asked by hindu saint 1

I was just wondering do men get excited when they see there wife play with herself?

2006-10-12 15:51:34 · 11 answers · asked by SHENA B 1

I am with a man who is the father of our 2 1/2 year old daughter. We have been together for 5 1/2 years but are not officially married. He treats me kind of crappy sometimes and won't help one bit financially, even if he is working. I feel so unhappy.... We just moved to Iowa from Colorado, we met in Iowa, and I know that I want him here, atleast in this state with me for our daughter's sake. I am approaching 30 at the end of this month and I know I don't want to be with him forever. I really want to start dating other people just for the closeness and affection. We haven't had sex in probably 2 months atleast. I think he's using me. We are staying at my parents until we get a house, but I don't want to buy a house with him cause I don't want to be with him forever. I need some advice, please help!

2006-10-12 15:46:52 · 22 answers · asked by SingleRose 2

2006-10-12 15:44:34 · 4 answers · asked by lee j 1

Never been unfaithful except 2 years before being married does this mean that you are cheater the rest of your life together?

2006-10-12 15:39:43 · 30 answers · asked by bonz1958 2

I filed my wife and my tax returns as married filing jointly. My exwife has ordered a child support review. Will my new wife's earnings be included with the total that the agency looks at in a review?

2006-10-12 15:35:13 · 16 answers · asked by joconfidence 1

2006-10-12 15:24:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 15:21:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous