Marriage & Divorce - 8 October 2006

2006-10-08 23:49:29 · 16 answers · asked by Kevinlad 3

the problem is that her family is very much different from my family,her family are different in habits and culture than my family,they are poorer than us and my family look down to them and see that they are not a match for us and i should not marry their daughter,what shall i do ? i care about her a lot

2006-10-08 23:49:08 · 23 answers · asked by dan d 1

The problem is now, we have been split up nearly a year now and i still cannot get over it. We have 3 children together which makes it harder as he comes to visit the children and i have to see him. He is a great dad but he is so cold and heartless towards me. He says he doesn't love me anymore and has now decided to go on a dating site to meet other women. He still spends time with myself and the children and most weekends he stays here with us. Surely if he never ever wants to be back with me and he doesn't love me then why does he still spend time around me?? He says he does it for the children to make them happy but i know that if i had fallen out of love with him and knew in my heart that i didn't want him back then i would not have anything to do with him. Why is he doing this to me? Why don't he just let go once and for all?

2006-10-08 23:32:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-08 23:30:51 · 27 answers · asked by Justme 2

i need it for my teacherS who'll got married next saturday....

2006-10-08 23:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

About once a month I go through a phase of being really grumpy, picky and sometimes nasty to my wife. We've been married a month, was with each other 2 and a half years prior to the wedding. These mood swings of mine have been present throughout the relationship.
She's an Angel and puts up with it, even though at the time I know it hurts her......

I really don't want to be a horrid git.........??? Any ideas??

2006-10-08 23:12:38 · 22 answers · asked by Malc S 1

Been married fr 3 years but my love is not strong anymore as he keeps hurting me...what shall i do??shall i continue this marriage for every1 happiness or walk away from his life as he takes me fr granted??

2006-10-08 23:12:34 · 9 answers · asked by Prav 1

My brother in law is 14. and is a weird kid. He was like my own brother before. My husband is currently posted in Middle East and is away from home for a long time.
He has recently started to behave very badly with me. I was tolerating his bad behaviour like walking in front of me in undies, touching his geni*tals when i was alone etc thinking he was a kid and hence harmless.
But yesterday evening he has crossed all boundaries. After taking my evening bath, i came out to my bedroom, locked the door and was changing clothes. Suddenly i heard a curtain move and was shocked. I wrapped my towel around me and when i looked outside, i saw my brother in law walking away with his phonecam in hand. I immediately confronted him and demanded to see his phone camera.
Quite brazenly, he refused and said he had taken my pictures in the buff. He threatened to post my pictures on the net if i tell anyone & demanded I keep quiet.
Should i tell evryone and hence break up my marriage?Or keep quiet?

2006-10-08 23:04:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband, but he doesnt treat me very well. Hes not abusive or anything,first of all. He doesnt help me at all around the house, we have 2 kids, I get no help with them, he wont even play with them and his excuse was always he was tired cause of work. He doesnt want to make love, he comes home showers, runs around with friends, comes home eats and goes to bed.Now he has been out of work and he still does nothing.He became addicted to pills and that was the only time he treated like his wife when he was stoned, I gave him a ultimatum to quit or leave,then he got a stomach flu and couldnt take them went through withdraws and didnt take them after I gave him the ultimatum if this ever happens again I m done, and he said he wont ever do it again. Now he has started taking them again and hes says very mean things to me, I have caught him in so many lies and just cant trust him anymore. I love him so much, but all the talking and ultimatums havent worked, should I ask him to leave?

2006-10-08 22:44:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are still living in the same place an he is in an out an says he is takin the truck we have well it in both of our names. we have a 16 month old lil boy can he leave me with no vehicle?

2006-10-08 22:43:46 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

I am sick of her, Should I divorce the *****?

2006-10-08 22:42:24 · 27 answers · asked by Eaglesrule 1

Realized that a little bit of quiet time...just by yourself...in a relationship is sooo required. It sets soooo many things right for your spouse and you......we change so much as time passes that we no longer have time to do our own things....we kinda lose out on our individual growth...which is very important to keep the spice in a relationship....any thoughts?!

2006-10-08 22:42:13 · 3 answers · asked by megh 2

its me

2006-10-08 22:41:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in deep love with my bf we make a plan to marriage soon but my Problem i'm not a virgin i fear to tell him the true becos maybe he will decide to leave me, so please help me,

2006-10-08 22:30:20 · 10 answers · asked by nana d 1

I NEED SOME REALLY GOOD ANSWERS HOW TO COPE WITH DIVORCE BECAUSE MY ex WIFE HAS ANOTHER MAN, I CAN'T GET HER OUT OF MY MIND.I STILL LOVE HER

2006-10-08 22:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by JOE Z 1

My husband had total control of the household at the age of 12 because his father was a womaniser. When he was 22 he came to UK from Turkey and met me. I was 33 divorced with 2 kids. He told me he was 27. We had a daughter, now 16. My sons didn't get on with him and left home very young. I resented him for my boys leaving. Last year I discovered he was cheating, but he said him leaving would have nothing to do with other woman. She was an error of judgement. We needed time apart to re-start our relationship which had been bad. He also said I had baggage, that he needed freedom. He now lives on his own, but comes to the house every weekend, takes me out, treats me good, took me on holiday, makes plans for our future. But, I don't see my kids and our daughter wants him out. She says I shouldn't forgive him, or trust him. He says he hopes our separation is temporary, he just wants to get his head straight.He treats me as if we are dating. His mother says keep quiet.

2006-10-08 21:58:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-08 21:57:04 · 10 answers · asked by Zero Cool 1

If you come from a broken home, you tend to have a broken family of your own? What if my boyfriend comes from a broken family, will he do the same? I dont want to believe in this...

2006-10-08 21:49:58 · 25 answers · asked by joe_logs_a_co 3

My boyfreind and I have been seeing each other for 3 years and he ask me to marry him. It was the best moment of my life, but he only has a 4 inch penis. How can I tell him that if we get married and commited to him, that I want him to get a penis enlargement.

2006-10-08 21:41:21 · 22 answers · asked by Julie A 1

am married with 2 beautiful kids but that's it. If it wasn't for them, i would have left. Even though hubby does not flirt, drink or smoke. He has a bad temper, too strict, egoistic, chauvinistic and very old fashion but claims he luv me . Now, I have a boyfriend, who happens to be married also. We both got together a year ago. Sparks ignited the first time we met and he hid his feeling from me for months. We were attracted to each other at first sight. Only problem is, we are not able to meet each other like all illicit couples do. We seldom call each other for being afraid of being found out and we have tried to end it 3 times but always got back together because we cannot bear to be apart. We meet twice a week for classes and that's it, if situation permits, we make out, otherwise, we just look longingly at each other. we have not consummated this affair even after 10 months. so what shall I do? Do i continue or call it quits. I love this man but i love my children very much too.

2006-10-08 21:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by angelheart 2

I love him,hes a nice guy,but my family is wayy richer,successful and respected then his,im more qualified then him,im more successful career-wise,his mother has an inferiority complex because of this,but the guys really nice and loves me a lot.should i ignore the material things and accept him 4 his love and loyalty?

2006-10-08 21:29:35 · 20 answers · asked by hakuna mutata 2

I am 21 (soon to be 22) and he just turned 24. I'm in the Air Force and very attractive. I spoil him to death by buying him everything he wants and random things just to show him I love him. Before I went to boot camp (last year when we were just dating) we were having sex all the time. He would be so spontainous. If I was even wearing a skirt he'd want it off asap. Now he doesn't want me to wear skirts because he doesn't want to hear the cat-calls from other guys when we go out. I used to love the nights of outrageous sex. While I was in tech school for the USAF I had a huge sex drive that I never had before. He had lost the lust it seemed. I would then try to start by just unzipping his pants whenever and try to iniciate sex with a bIowjob. He'd get mad. I've stopped trying. He tells me to "do my job" and clean the house (something we used to do together) and I tell him to "do his job" and have sex with me. We have sex maybe 2X/month, I get off about 1 out of 5 times.

2006-10-08 21:22:56 · 29 answers · asked by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5

help me I am smart and funloving witty as can be. but i am so depressed. i am 46 male, my wife (soon to be ex ) has cheated i have lots to offer but still wanna die. is there any one that can help

2006-10-08 21:09:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My apologies for not being very explicit with the title of this very same question the first time I posted it.
What I meant to phrase was, "she ran off with s'one else, one month after the breakup" - we actually had a relationship for 1 year.
In a nut shell, the girl I was with was absolutely besotted with me. She showered me with so much love and kept asking me to marry her. I gave her all my trust and kept re-assuring her I wanted no other girl. But this just didn't seem to sink into her. I am no player whatsoever. I never doubted the way she felt about me, but I cannot understand how she could so easily spilt up with me and then go off and have a relationship with her work colleague after just 1 month.
It seems that her insecurities turned full circle and hit me right where it hurts. Ever since, I have never been the same person. My chin scrapes the ground. my heart feels like an elephant has sat on it. worst of all, I keep re-analysing how everything just turned for the worst..

2006-10-08 21:07:11 · 5 answers · asked by Christian_80 1

He is a wonderful daddy to our 8 month old girl and a great hubby to me. I want to do something special for him that doesn't cost too much...
I am not meaning sex....just something fun to do or creative that will impress him.

2006-10-08 20:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by basketcase 1

i want to leave the state but have requirement that hold me back should i take off or stay till im able to go ? and is it going to be better for me ?
to the right person will you marry me agian?

2006-10-08 20:45:19 · 9 answers · asked by mewildo 1

Does anyone agree with the fact that if you take away the feelings of love,caring,and togetherness of a relationship that a man taking care of a women by paying this bills that it is the same as prostitution b/c it is basicly the same thing he is paying the bills and in return is getting s** please your in put will be greatly appreciated

2006-10-08 20:36:43 · 26 answers · asked by p-nut butter princess 4

2006-10-08 20:35:00 · 11 answers · asked by pacificwaves8 2

2006-10-08 20:28:17 · 13 answers · asked by amgad 2

This is the senario:
Last Two years my best friend found out her hubby was cheating on her but he denied it as all cheaters do!


Anyways, earlier she found two condoms and it was a brand she never saw before.She left it there so that if he removed it she would know that he is cheating but she forgot abt the condoms and only remembered when she found out he was cheating!
The question is " is there a condom called "hot n spicy?"if there is she would leave him , for he tells her she was dreaming that she found condoms!
Also he found red marks on his necks n he said that he got drunk n ppl burnt him with a car lighter!Is that possible n the marks would go away two days after?
Thank you so much for an answer to a question of two years!

Additional!
She keeps hearing rumors abt him n when he was sick he confessed he loved her!when he got well he said he never said that!He keeps hurting her by not admiting his blame n shifts the blame on her saying she is cheatin!

2006-10-08 20:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3