Marriage & Divorce - 8 October 2006

we have been married 1 1/2 years and have been together for 3 this seems to happen in all of my past realationships about a year or 2 into it I dont want to have sex anymore I do what I can to avoid it I'm not intrested in anyone and I'm very faithful I just dont want to have sex no matter how hard I try to tell him thats its not him I know he thinks it is

does anyone know what could cause this since it seems to be a reacuring problem

2006-10-08 05:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by just me 1

no he is not a truck driver he is a gamming worker- i just recieved maessage he went to a flea markrt with his boss and other workers and he is suppose to be getting his picup muffler fixed and he is out not giving a crapout of the 4 times i try to talk to him he ahd excuses why he could not talk to me

2006-10-08 05:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by kdkc06 1

I am looking at divorcing my wifr. she is currently working in Tata Tea-Munnar and I am working in Chennai.

Request you to let me know the contact details of advocates dealing in divorce in Chennai.

2006-10-08 05:43:33 · 1 answers · asked by john k 1

he has peomised to be homtoday but is not doing what he is suppose to be doing, to get his truck home- what do i do i am getting more and mad at him

2006-10-08 05:42:49 · 14 answers · asked by kdkc06 1

I found out , about a month ago, that my husband cheated on me the night before our wedding with a girl he let me be friends with for five years. Now I have told him that it will take time to get over it and he hasn't even tried he stays out till who knows what time making me sit up and wait, then when he gets home he doesn't even say sorry. So my question is What should I do and what steps do you think I should take?

2006-10-08 05:40:47 · 12 answers · asked by Christine R 2

2006-10-08 05:38:35 · 9 answers · asked by i gurl 1

2006-10-08 05:30:04 · 61 answers · asked by jinxed 1

chat lines have devestated my family, has anyone else had this problem?

2006-10-08 05:29:13 · 8 answers · asked by fool4lovin. 2

I had a affair , i regret it everyday i really do , ive said sorry and have really changed i dont talk to this person anymore , but my husband can not let go he wants to fight the guy when ever he see's him are we get in an argument .

2006-10-08 05:19:59 · 16 answers · asked by mz.thang 4

I just recently found out about these 4 affairs. A letter was sent to me from one of his girlfriends. He swears he will be faithful but I don't believe a word he says. I believe he was in love with one of these woman. Can our marriage survive?

2006-10-08 05:09:53 · 34 answers · asked by hfitzgerald38 1

sex a form of communication. For a lot of men this is how we communicate. This is how we express our selves. Woman, join us men in helping us communicate better. HaHa!

2006-10-08 04:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

2006-10-08 04:25:36 · 22 answers · asked by falzalnz 6

my husband does not work, so I have no idea what he does when he leaves the house.I feel like its my right as the wife to know where he is going and what he is doing. But he thinks that I am nagging him. If I ask him to take me and the kids somewhere it turns into a fight because he doesn't want to be with us. But he is quick to go when a "friend" wants him too. He doesn't answer me if I ask where he is going and gets mad cause he feels likehe shouldn't answer to me. But then if I wanna leave he asks a million questions and gives me a curfew!!! Normally he doens't even let me go anywhere anyways. I am stuck in the house..so I want him to be as well. Or if he leaves then maybe take me and our two sons with him. It burns me up not knowing where he is or what he is doing at all times. he has cheated on me SO MANY times that I feel if he wants to gain my trust again then he should be honest and tell me what he's doing!! am I wrong??

2006-10-08 04:17:13 · 29 answers · asked by tweedy778 3

Never seen one yet that start's with ask him what he want's or needs, it all about her feeling's, and feeling's aren't worth much because 6 months down the road she going to change how she feels.
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2006-10-08 04:10:58 · 12 answers · asked by brp_13 4

My husband of nine years is looking at porn when i"m sleeping and it burns me up soooo bad! My kids have even seen it on the history and asked me why dad has to look at that stuff. I've asked him about it before and he tells me he only went to one site and stuff started poping up on him but we have pop up blockers!! How do I tell him that this hurts my feelings without getting into a big fight about it?

2006-10-08 03:49:39 · 26 answers · asked by momof5 1

Let me explain. Everyone knows that trust is crucial to a successfull relationship. Especially us women. Now, feminism is always telling women they need to be prepared, (especially financially) 'in case he leaves', or 'in case he cheats on you', etc...
They even give us lots of examples of how men have done so to women before, (as if we don't already know).

So, where's the trust? Aren't we convicting our men before they've commited a crime? Is it fair to assume our men are guilty because of what other men have done?

2006-10-08 03:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by nice_boobs 2

I have been married for 13 years and have never cheated on my wife physically. However when we got the internet, I blew it and was curious as to who Pamala Anderson was. My wife found out and I don't think it's been the same since as she will always remind me. I promised to stop and was true to my word for 18 months and one day mispelled a website name and it came up with a porn site. I have been struggling off and on ever since because I couldn't stand telling my wife and having her hurt again. After several years she has always suspected me of backsliding. I have never done this at home since we have two precious children. I only do it at work (This is not rational because if I get caught, I will be fired). After she confronted me with her suspicions, I finally admitted to her that I had a problem and agreed to get counseling. I also have been verbally abusive to my wife who I love dearly (we get into arguments over spending, house work, etc.). I want to change. Istherehope?

2006-10-08 03:46:08 · 8 answers · asked by bigdaddy 2

I have lived with my mother-in -law now for the past 12 yrs, i want a place of are own hubby says no!!!!!! he is staying where we are, so i told him i was leaving, am i wrong?

2006-10-08 03:35:27 · 25 answers · asked by krista a 3

Just want to hear what others have to say about this. I know that everyone is an in dividual but I want to hear what people have to say.

2006-10-08 03:29:37 · 12 answers · asked by shawn_mauldin 2

Is marriage important? If yes till wat age one shud keeping expecting to get married? If one does not get married, can life be led without anybody to love, to share, to care n to fight of course. If such a situation of living alone is imposed on a girl by circumstances, how shud a girl cope up with it?

2006-10-08 03:28:20 · 13 answers · asked by Leena 1

2006-10-08 03:23:24 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 1

2006-10-08 03:20:42 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-08 03:01:02 · 6 answers · asked by Pink W 1

2006-10-08 02:57:43 · 7 answers · asked by vasay B 1

He was the first guy I ever kissed 29 years ago. We are both going through a divorce. I recieved a email from him 4.5 monthes ago and we have been emailing and talking on the phone a lot. We know everything about each other. We meet at the half way point and send time together. We both know that we are soul mates. But he has his own business in the very small town that we grew up in but it doesn't have good schools. I have small children and my ex husband will fight to keep them in the state. So my question is how do we make this work. How can we be together and grow old together. We both ache to be with each other. I have to do what is right for my children and he feels that he can't leave or sale the business because it was his dad's. Please, I welcome any ideas. We truly love each other with all of our hearts. So this has to work. It just has to. We don't want to live without each other. Ideas please. Thanks

2006-10-08 02:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know guys hate talking about their feelings, so I won't even go there.....and when he is stressed he doesn't want sex, so pls don't reccomend that..... He is stressed because he doesn't know how to make more money... I want to cheer him up some way..... help!!

2006-10-08 02:48:37 · 18 answers · asked by obsession0524 2

these things refer to sexual side..and social side...

2006-10-08 02:48:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1

2006-10-08 02:47:00 · 10 answers · asked by j e 1

and she has been spending all her free time with him.She tells me nothings going on even though she gone for days at a time, should I be worried

2006-10-08 02:38:43 · 20 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

i been talking to this guy on the internet for a while and i just seperated from my husband he finally told me he loved me and started calling me but i am worried about what everyone has yold me so help

2006-10-08 02:33:45 · 19 answers · asked by sexytrisha2976 1