these things refer to sexual side..and social side...
2006-10-08 02:48:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is up to you to decide. As far as I know, the Government hasn't installed cameras in our bedrooms yet. So how is anyone else going to know unless you tell them? You aren't having sex with Society, you're having it with your husband.
Stop feeling guilty and have some fun. Give it a try and if you don't like it, try something else. The bedroom is supposed to be a fun and happy place. And life is too short to be unhappy.
2006-10-08 02:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if he's asking you to do things your not comfortable with-he is not the one for you/ relationships(married or not) should have a comfort zone-emotionally and sexually! I'm not sure exactly what demands he is making on you-but i can tell you from my experience: my relationship, we both enjoy the same sexual acts-i wouldn't be with someone that didn't-that is why you should know going into the relationship-what one likes/ dislikes/also on the social side-we sometimes tend to run in different circles-but that is OK because we enjoy the variety/ let me stress-if you are not comfortable (leave the relationship)/otherwise you will feel degraded-and that is something NO woman should live with/ and if he tells you-well all guys like this(not true) honey plenty of men will love you-for you! Good luck
2006-10-08 03:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is all about experience and full of surprises. Explore and discover what it has to offer. You might encounter the unexpected and tap into the extra sensual. After experiencing the sensualities, make up your own mind. F**k what the society thinks and does not approve of, if you are not a christian. Remind your hubby that both of you are in it together and would face the consequences together and stand up for one another.
2006-10-08 04:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by viba vibration 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont base your decision on what society approves or disapproves of. If it is something that you are comfortable with trying I say go for it. Or, if it isnt something you feel comfortable doing don't do it, but try to find an alternative...something you cna both agreee on and still a little 'out there'. have FUN !!!
2006-10-08 02:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant base your marriage on what society thinks, it is all screwed anyways, that is your husband, satisfy him, or he might
go out and find someone who will do all those things that he wants, its up to you, I wish you would be more specific as to telling what types of things, Oral? Anal? Threesome? Role play
If i were you i would be open to different things, because you dont
know what society is doing in their bedrooms
2006-10-08 04:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by twinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the thing that your husband wants you to do, includes a complete stranger in the sack with ya, I would say yes. Write back if you are interested.
2006-10-08 03:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey in bed everything is ok and more if you are with your husband...the thing is he must respect what you feel and if you dont want to do some things just dont push you
I guess is the catholic guilt that always appears when you try to enjoy sex...
good luck
2006-10-08 02:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, then just tell him no. You shouldn't feel forced to do anything. And if you want to try, forget society---society doesn't pay your bills.
2006-10-08 02:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of thing need society approved.Your husband want u 2 suc.k his coc.k or he want 2 b a hooker?
2006-10-08 03:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society won't be in your bedroom. Only you can decide. Why not try it and just stop if you don't like it.
2006-10-08 02:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋