I have been married for 13 years and have never cheated on my wife physically. However when we got the internet, I blew it and was curious as to who Pamala Anderson was. My wife found out and I don't think it's been the same since as she will always remind me. I promised to stop and was true to my word for 18 months and one day mispelled a website name and it came up with a porn site. I have been struggling off and on ever since because I couldn't stand telling my wife and having her hurt again. After several years she has always suspected me of backsliding. I have never done this at home since we have two precious children. I only do it at work (This is not rational because if I get caught, I will be fired). After she confronted me with her suspicions, I finally admitted to her that I had a problem and agreed to get counseling. I also have been verbally abusive to my wife who I love dearly (we get into arguments over spending, house work, etc.). I want to change. Istherehope?
2006-10-08 03:46:08 · 8 answers · asked by bigdaddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have did the 1st step by admitting you have a problem. That is very good. Dont lose your family over a sex addiction, go to
counseling and get some help, I have another idea, wont you and your wife try some of those things that are doing on the sites, maybe that will also make you happy
2006-10-08 03:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by twinkle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A sexual habit isn't defined plenty by potential of one's movements because it truly is yet how plenty time it occupies and how plenty does it disrupts your existence. how many hours do you spend in line with day thinking approximately or appearing on sexual techniques and/or urges? How plenty result has the habit had on your existence? In what way could your existence strengthen in case you have been waiting to regulate the obsession? you do no longer would desire to be spending your final dollar on prostitutes or masturbating 37 cases an afternoon to qualify as having a intercourse habit. in the experience that your obsession is inflicting you concern on your existence, you need to have a situation.
2016-10-02 02:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to explore this experience together with you. While you are browsing the Internet for Pamela Anderson, she also can for who John Holmes is. If this doesn't work out , find out her wildest fantasies and drive in the nail hardest there.
2006-10-08 04:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by viba vibration 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you are whipped, and the masculine part you is looking for an outlet...Pack your trash and leave..if she ask you to come back, tell her somethings are going to change and tell her what those things are.
If not there are alot of women who have learned that marraige is about the couple and not just what they feel or want.
2006-10-08 04:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is hope only if you want to change otherwise you are doomed
2006-10-08 03:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone can change whatever he or she may wanted to change in his lor her life..
just believe in yourself that you can do it and bear in mind that you are doing it for your wife and children..
goodluck dude.. i'll pray for you..
2006-10-08 03:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should consider being de-balled.hope this helps.have a great day!
2006-10-08 04:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by NO delusions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a dildo!
2006-10-08 03:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by da gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋