Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2006

i am in a bind. for months now i have noticed that a lot of the things in my hubby that i fell in love with him for are gone . and im seeing those things in someone else and a whole lot more im drowning help me!

2006-10-10 23:57:37 · 15 answers · asked by PyroPixie 2

2006-10-10 23:52:46 · 4 answers · asked by Shawna 1

My husband has an 18 1/2 yr old daughter from a previous marriage...This kid only contacts her father when she wants $$$. The latest excapade is the WANT for a new car. She hasn't saved her money and needs $4,000.00. (i don't have it) Unbeknownst to me until last night...hubby tells me we're to get a loan for this kid from our equity loan on our HOME. I told him NO. I told him his kid needed to stand on her own to feeties! I told him I need a new roof on our home, paint for our bedroom (not painted in 11 yrs) a new coat and new winter shoes! He says's she'll pay us back...HOW can she do that working part-time at DQ (15-18hrs a week) and pay on the loan her mother is getting for her too? I'm sorry but am I being totally unreasonable?

I can help her with maybe $300.00 but not $4,000!!!

2006-10-10 23:41:30 · 29 answers · asked by aunt_beeaa 5

I recently got married in July 2006. I have lived with my husband for 2 1/2 years. We are both in our late 30's. I have two children (17 and 15) and he has one (9). My question is this, his first wife died 7 years ago and her name is still on most of the bills, etc. My name is not on the deed to the house any important insurance papers etc. I have just recently found this out after we switched all of our accounts and monies. I have told him how this makes me feel and he simply says "I have not had a chance to change it" Is this a lame excuse or what. I did not know his first wife but from what I hear she was the love of his life. I don't feel that I should be reminded of this everyday. I am good to him and to his child. The family as a whole gets along very well. I just don't feel like I am special and that he is not willing to let go of the past, am I right? What do I do? Thank you any help.

2006-10-10 23:19:49 · 22 answers · asked by kelsey 5

The Ex-husband has vandalised my current partner's car while he was at my parent's house (where i live). I cannot move out and the ex literally lives right around the corner from my parents.
It's a country area so i cannot go far without a car (which i cannot afford, nor rent for living elsewhere!)
Anyone got any suggestions? OTHER then 'braining' the ex?

2006-10-10 23:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by BlackCat 2

we have been married for two years and have got one child,ever since i had my child my husband he has been acting weard, we don't talk any more as well as sex it's not the same,all we do it's arguing all the time sometimes he tells me world that makes me think why is he telling me this?he says i don't fell like having sex at all, i like speding time with your sister she is more fun,that's makes me fell so low.when we met fo the first time after few months i got pregnant and he said because he was no ready i should have abortion, i did it and it was very painfull,so just last week we had an argument and i sked him i love u i have done everything for u even abortion and he told me i didn't send u to get an abortion. that was it i think he doesn't love me any more and i asked him to move out because we have been figting each other and i dont want to bring up my son in that kind of lifestyle.am not perfect av'e got my mistakes as well but i have gone through so much with this man,

2006-10-10 23:14:11 · 11 answers · asked by Nancyee 1

I just wanna to find out how can a woman knowing that a man is married and have kids still "go out" with him for many years than willingly want to become his 2nd wife saying that she will spend 10 days a month with him while the 1st family get 20 days!! Then when the 1st wife disagree asked for divorce she happily takes over!

2006-10-10 23:12:38 · 10 answers · asked by sasha 1

Want to try to increase my wife's sex drive. What are some suggestions on natural herbs, etc.. in raising her sex drive

2006-10-10 23:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by ACE 1

2006-10-10 23:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Delle 1

What is wrong with this picture, I am married and my wife is very distant to me. I do everything possible for this woman. Her life is not boaring by any means nessesary i help her with the house and am supportive of her in any way i can be. We are talking about divorce and she has stated on multiple times she still wants sex from me because she says its the best she has ever had. She is not living in a a shitty place i make 8,700 a month for christ sake. She is attracted to me sexually like what was stated above but..... I do not know what her problem is to consider divorce.

2006-10-10 22:52:05 · 24 answers · asked by Joe B 1

My wife and I have had a long marriage. When we were younger my wife was very passionate and we had a very good sex life. At the same time we had frequent conflicts and were often on the verge of seperating. Although I guess I must take some responsibiltiy for these fights, I really believe most of them were instigated by my wife. She would fly in a rage without warning at the least excuse. She was constantly critical of me and our two children. When she was not doing this she was often moody and withdrawn. Before and during the time she went through menopause, her sex drive steadily diminished to a point where she now has very little interest in sex for her own enjoyment, although she still engages in sexual activity for my sake. The odd thing was that as her desire for sex declined. Her moods and behaviour improved proportionally. We now have a very peaceful and happy relationship and seldom fight over anything. She is loving and will now laugh off small annoyances that once would ha

2006-10-10 22:51:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal?
How should I react?

2006-10-10 22:50:06 · 36 answers · asked by Lovely 1

my wife was seeing her ex boyfriend (whom took her virginity) and decided she no longer wanted to be with me feeling she could be happier with him. Well she had an affair with him and may be possibly pregnant and have an STD now. She came to me the day after and told me. She still loves me but is also confused and saying she loves him. Been 5 days now out of them she has stayed with me but has also talked to him. We have not had sex since that happened b/c i am clean and in order to have sex possibly infect myself. We have been together for over 5 years. I love her and feel i can be with her but yet i would have to accept the STD and the baby cause she doesnt believe in abortion. My questions are should i leave for her still having feelings for him after being with him and still unsure as to who to be with and to be sure she will not go to him later on if i decide to stay with her b/c then i will the STD which will make it harder to move on with someone new?

2006-10-10 22:47:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was living with my wife for last 10 years and all those 10 years were miserable. I always felt cheated & was always being tortured. 2 years back I went into a relationship with another woman who is also married. From my side this was only a for physical need. But from her side i felt it was a combination of physical as well as social security as her husband used to abuse her & finally left her.
A month back I also left my wife & got seperated because of the old issues. This seperation was no where connected with my new relationship. Now when I am away from my wife and have sufficient time to go to the another woman & she also keeps on inviting me to spend the nights with her, I don`t feel like going there. Although I always told this new woman that we would never marry, still she hopes that it can happen.
I need a pause for some time & she is not ready. Now I feel that I should break this new relationship for some time may be a year and think about myself while living single. how?

2006-10-10 22:44:31 · 14 answers · asked by akela 2

Im 44 years old and I have a high sex drive while my wife sex drive has decreased. I always take my time and make sure that I please her in having an orgasim by ways of oral sex sometime for 30 minutes. When we have sex in the misonary position, I again laways make sue that she comes before I do. The hard part is that I want it much more than she does. I know that women are sensitive on this subject and at times, they do not want sex like men do. Im working on my communication with her and have strted a effort to do more choirs aroung the house so that she is not so tired at the end of day. I do give her alot of massages, sometimes up to an hour to please her and to relax her body. Ladies, what are some suggestions from you to increase her sex drive as well as to initiate the request for sex. It just seems like I always initiate the sex, but there are times I want her to be aggressive as well. For me it shows me that she loves me. Ladies Advice...

2006-10-10 22:00:50 · 8 answers · asked by ACE 1

Are married women be interested or would consider having a realtionship with their husband, another women and yourself. Would this be something that would turn you on or would you even consider this. Please explain why or why not.

2006-10-10 21:59:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

But it needs a hard work to maintain it.
Lots of problem come along the way.What will a wife do if she can't have any kids but her husband wanna have kids even though the wife have to go through medical treatments which doesn't guarantee 100% sucess yet she needs emotional support???

2006-10-10 21:52:07 · 13 answers · asked by Prav 1

A man is really nice and helping her wife in every field ,loves her keeps kids all time and never speaks a word even if she is using bad names.He is reputed and earning good.Very good family with lots of servents to assist.PLEEEAAASSSEEE HELP

2006-10-10 21:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by dentist 2

I have had my heart broke so bad before, that I thought I was going to die. I was wondering if a person could actually die from this? I mean, it felt like my chest was going to cave in, and I couldn't breathe. I didn't want to die (as some people claim) I just wanted to keep from dieing, how can this be?

2006-10-10 21:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-10 21:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a true story: A friend with 2 growth-up children fathered a child outside his marriage. Just want to hear the respond of women out there. Pls indicate your nationality so as to understand your view. Thanks!

2006-10-10 21:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by George 2

2006-10-10 21:23:01 · 20 answers · asked by VoiceofAngelBodyFine 1

2006-10-10 21:20:54 · 19 answers · asked by monkeymadness 2

2006-10-10 21:17:09 · 20 answers · asked by radrictheomen 2

decisions making
doing things

2006-10-10 21:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by Merle D 1

2006-10-10 21:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My kids refuse to be involved with my x husbands girlfriend because of the way she treated them, I tried to mend the peace, and even tried with professional help, my x and the girlfriend refuse to help me and just blame me for the fact that my kids don't want to see him if he is with her. I don't know what to do.
Now he is threatening to stop paying my alimony and the kids maintenance, can he do that?

2006-10-10 20:59:39 · 7 answers · asked by marelizevnv 1

my husband called at3:06 pm yesterday and said he was having problems with his picup truck and he would be home within 2-3 hours,but no show ,no phone call no one tells where he could be.so i put out a missing persons reportout on him,his family all know it-why has he not called home i am really worried about him

2006-10-10 20:51:17 · 18 answers · asked by kdkc06 1

i love her so much and i trust her and she said she loves me but i cant feel that some times i feel she loves me some times i dont and i feel that she dont care so much about me like i care i make her the frist thing in my life and i think or i feel that am not her frist

2006-10-10 20:47:37 · 8 answers · asked by lover boy 2 2

I need some advise. I am a physician and some of the nurses from one of the ward floors have asked me to strip for them at a friends bachlorette party. They want me to be in my white coat/ scrubs and go from there. I am 30 years old and still have some immaturity in me. I would like to do it. I have lifted weights and been into health/ fitness since high school. But this is what I am afraid of--will the nurses talk about this in the hospital and would people think less of me if I did. I cant have people think low of me in the hospital because then they will start questioning my clinical applications and decisions. I cant have this. So will I be thought less of if I do this "gig" (oh- the nurses said they had some "extra" activities planned for me, but I will draw the line at any attempts at sexual activity- if that gets back to the hospital--well....

2006-10-10 20:46:56 · 20 answers · asked by tony g 1