Im 44 years old and I have a high sex drive while my wife sex drive has decreased. I always take my time and make sure that I please her in having an orgasim by ways of oral sex sometime for 30 minutes. When we have sex in the misonary position, I again laways make sue that she comes before I do. The hard part is that I want it much more than she does. I know that women are sensitive on this subject and at times, they do not want sex like men do. Im working on my communication with her and have strted a effort to do more choirs aroung the house so that she is not so tired at the end of day. I do give her alot of massages, sometimes up to an hour to please her and to relax her body. Ladies, what are some suggestions from you to increase her sex drive as well as to initiate the request for sex. It just seems like I always initiate the sex, but there are times I want her to be aggressive as well. For me it shows me that she loves me. Ladies Advice...
2006-10-10 22:00:50 · 8 answers · asked by ACE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi Ace
Pls chk with yr wife (before sex) if she's tired or not. Bec women tends to have low sex drive when they are very tired/stress.
Women tend to be focussing more on the emotional part. Love her, carress her, show her that you love her. Just cuddle and share your affection for her. Tell her how you feel. Then when she feel loved, she'll have the yearning for sex. Well, sometimes women need cuddling (love) more than sex.
2006-10-10 22:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by noina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that her hormone levels are out of whack? A simple visit to her OB/GYN is all it would take to know. The Doctor might have some other solutions as well... Good Luck!
2006-10-11 05:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by AlmostSpoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she going through the early stages of menopause if she is of that age.if thats the case ask her to go to an ob gyn and he will prescribe hormones.i have a sister that was like that and hormones helped her.
2006-10-11 12:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by super girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not surprise her with an out of town weekend & have a second honeymoon? she must be bored & find her life so routine. she might just need some new adventures.
2006-10-11 05:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just find that the older I get the less I want it and it doesn't matter what my hubby does to please me, I just don't want it. So if she is anything like me there really isn't anything you can do except love her for who she is and find some good porn.
2006-10-11 05:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop making yourself so available. hold out as long as you can (if you have to please yourself, then so be it) she will start to wonder what's going on and come to you instead of you coming to her all the time. if that doesn't work try some alcohol!!!
2006-10-11 05:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
new positions,new 'accessories'...do something different than usual...all the best!
2006-10-11 05:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by nursha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... She sure is lucky.
2006-10-11 05:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋