Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2006

My husband and I are divorcing. We are still in love, but we had some trust issues and he decided this was the only thing to make him happy. He is still paying my bills and taking care of me, but only as a friend. I love him and want him so bad. It is impossible for me to immagine my life without him. He is staying with his realitives and I am at our house. I am crying all day. This wasn't the life I had planned. I think it will be a long time before we can even concider getting back to gether, if it is at all possible. I used to have a perfect marriage. Now I am completly alone. We have no children and were married 2 years. I'd appreciate any advice.

2006-10-10 07:01:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not with her hubby or bf either just for a thrill of it or not getting sex at home? Or is there another reason that you would do it?

2006-10-10 07:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by phone_man_at_work 2

my husband and I are moving to his hometown because he has another son who lives over there, well he still communicates with damn near all his ex's, and i really dont feel comfortable moving over there, especially since his sons mother called him the night before we got married crying begging him not to do it.

2006-10-10 06:49:55 · 17 answers · asked by ARMY KID 2

2006-10-10 06:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by Sponge82 1

I had lunch with one of the doctors that i work with and he dosent know that i am married. well i really like this guy and he likes me. and my husband and i are having problems. plus i mean hes a doctor and my husbands a delivary driver!! i mean i really love my hubby but things just arnt the same????!!!!!!! what should i do????

2006-10-10 06:47:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband chased me for 2 years. We worked together and I couldn't STAND him. I eventually saw his soft side but I still see that same Jackass I used to hate on the job.

If you chased them, you can answer this question, too. Those who are dating and not married can also answer.

2006-10-10 06:44:47 · 8 answers · asked by Lady Tee 2

I have been with my husband for 15 years, he has been abusive verbally and physically. I was ready to leave and still am pondering the idea of it. He has turned into a totally different person in this past 6 weeks, since his last rage. (threw something at me in front of our son). We have tried marriage counseling, however I have a lot of hurt inside me. He says he is willing to do anything he can to save our marriage. However, I see him changing for a period of time, but going back to the way he always has been. I am different now, I know that I will not put up with any abuse. Myself and my son deserve much more. I don't want to end my marriage and would love to see it work. I know that I can't "fix" him, but what can I do to help him? I also know that he can't do this on his own.

2006-10-10 06:41:55 · 26 answers · asked by diddle 1

2006-10-10 06:39:43 · 10 answers · asked by Dana C 1

Didn't get me the beer in fact she tossed them all down the drain and she took the car and left. I'm down to my last smoke and no beer and should I call one of the call girl services to well hook me up? Its not like I'm wasting my money, I don't work :)

2006-10-10 06:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

This all happened before i even met my husband. Hope you can follow this. Joe (my husband) was best friends since childhood with Paul.. Well Pauls girlfriend Lisa cheated on him with Joe.. They had an "affair" for a while until Paul found out. Paul forgave Lisa & the affair ended.. Needless to say Joe & Paul's friendship was over... Well, when i started seeing Joe some of his friends filled me in with all the details about Joe, Lisa, & Paul. I asked him about it & he said it was true & he wished he could go back & change things.. Well I found out that lisa & him were still contacting each other & Lisa even sent him an email saying she missed him (yeah i snooped to find it). I told joe that if felt the need to stay friends with her, we couldnt be together. So he promised me he wouldnt contact her anymore. Well since we got married I found emails from them. I despise Lisa & he knows it. But he still talks to her behind my back. What should i do. I love him with all of my heart...

2006-10-10 06:34:46 · 11 answers · asked by Pissed 1

2006-10-10 06:32:56 · 15 answers · asked by bellsouthboy 1

2006-10-10 06:30:18 · 6 answers · asked by happy96ss 1

2006-10-10 06:29:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anna K 1

2006-10-10 06:23:53 · 14 answers · asked by happy96ss 1

all the questioins that I have been asking and seems to be mad, Called me an a s s tard, My question is do you think she'll still get that beer I asked for ?

2006-10-10 06:18:32 · 27 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

My husband got divorced in Reyville, LA. I need a copy of those divorce papers. Do I have to go over there to pick them up or is there a form I can fill up so they can send it here. I am living in Texas.

2006-10-10 06:18:25 · 8 answers · asked by indomable1 1

Ive noticed there are women who go with their husbands to strip clubs so they can "keep an eye on him". Why do you want to put yourselves through that if your not getting anything from it? Is it not uncomfortable for you to watch him google over other women and your not even into the women? Why go? If your not okay with him going,you dont have to tolerate him going. And if your going to let him go,why not let him go alone? You dont have to witness it and feel pushed to the side. You could go to a male club when he goes.

2006-10-10 06:15:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21 and I'v been married for almost 5 years,and i know my husband loves me. Ever since the birth of our son he has seemed very distant. He works a 9 to 5 job but here lately he's been "working late" where as before he was always home by 5:30. I just wondered if anyone h as any advice on weather he may be fooling around or not.

2006-10-10 06:13:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in Nor Cal but travel to so cal fairly often.
I was just wondering how many wives out there silently are living with unfulfilled needs but will not leave their husbands for various reasons.

2006-10-10 06:11:01 · 3 answers · asked by onlineseeker 4

if my husband of six years who had never been unfaithful before takes racey photos(still partially dressed) of my best friend without asking me if its ok first if its supose to be a gift for her boyfriend? What if he lies about it when he is caught? And when he swears nothing happened he just had "a moment of bad judgement' should I believe him?

2006-10-10 06:09:40 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone had similar dealings in court?

2006-10-10 06:06:42 · 16 answers · asked by coweb 1

Married how long?
Kids?
Is your wife okay with you viewing porn,will she watch with you? Is she also into women?
Do you go to strip clubs? Does she know? Care?Go with you?
How do you feel about HER viewing pormn or going to a male or female strip club w/o you?

2006-10-10 06:03:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women: Married how long?
Any kids?
Are you bi or straight?
How do you feel about your partner viewing porn(mags,videos)?
What aboput going to a strip club?
Do you do these things with him and if yu do do you do it to "make sure..." or because your into it too?

2006-10-10 06:02:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband keeps me, at the very least, on the verge of ecstasy most of the time. My ex-husband was not very interested in sex. I felt that this was my punishment for being active before marriage. Found out he was more interested in men. Still, it caused me to go through my 30's selabite. I was a faithful, naive wife who thought he wasn't turned on by me because I was flat chested, 32B. I had never met a man who cared about my pleasure. It was always about them. I was under the impression that that's the way it's supposed to be. On the other hand, my newly wedded husband had never been with a woman who cared about making love. I cannot comprehend this, since he is the most fantastic love maker in the world! He has never had a woman that wanted so VERY MUCH to please him, so he can't tell me what he wants. Since I've never known a man that wasn't "Wam bam", I don't know what to do. He always says he's pleased, but I SCREAM! How can I give him that much pleasure? With his care Im a 36C.

2006-10-10 05:52:43 · 22 answers · asked by Angel L 3

anyone know about custody cases or went thru one?
OK I HAVE BEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT FOR 10 1/2 YRS HE HAD PARTIAL HE ONLY WANTED TO BE WITH HIS KIDS ON HIS WEEKEND VISITS NEVER WANTED THEM MORE...HE WAS ONLY PAYING ME 50 AWEEK FOR FOUR BOYS FOR 10 YRS ,THE REASON WHY I ONLY RECIEVED 50 AWEEK WAS CAUSE HE TOLD ME HE WOULD GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO OUR BOYS I DIDNT WANT TO BE THE BLAME FOR THE KIDS NOT TO HAVE THERE FATHER SO I AGREED TO WHAT HE WANTED TO PAY .SO I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED FOR CUSTODY I GOT CUSTODIAL AND HE GOT PARTIAL HE AGREED TO EVERYTHING.IT WAS EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERYOTHER WEEKEND .WELL HE STUCK WITH IT FOR ABOUT A MONTH TOLD ME HE WAS DROPPING WEDNESDAYS CAUSE IT WAS TO MUCH.I GUESS IT WAS INTERFERING WITH HIS SINGLE LIFE I DIDNT CARE I HAD MORE TIME WITH MY SONS...I DID EVERYTHING DOC APPTS DENTIST ,ER RUNS WHEN THE BOYS GOT HURT I WOULD CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I WAS AT THE ER HE SAID WELL JUST CALL ME I AM SORRY BUT IF IT WAS ON THE OTHER END MY BUTT WOULD BE THERE .(RUNNING OUT OF ROOM WILL BE WRITING MORE)

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17 hours ago
LIKE I DID EVERYTHING AND STILL DO I TOOK CARE OF ALL OUR SONS NEEDS CLOTHES ,FOOD,SHELTER,DOCS,TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK WENT WITH MY ONE SON TO ALL HIS SURGERIES ETC....HIS FATHER DIDNT GO CAUSE HE SAID HE COULDNT GET OFF WORK TO BE THERE BUT THEN THE WEEK AFTER HIS FATHER WENT WITH HIS GF AND HER SON TO GET HIS FOOT CHECK BUT COULDNT BE THERE FOR HIS SONS SURGERY ON HIS KNEE AND IT WAS BAD.THIS IS THE FATHER AND GF THAT ACCUSED MY SON OF FAKING HIS INJURY WHOM HAD TO HAVE MAJOR SURGERY,ALSO THERE FATHER GRAB OUR SON BY THE THROAT AND YES I REPORTED TO THE DOCTORS AND SO ON HOPING THEY WOULD REPORT IT CAUSE I AM AFRAID OF MY EX HE WAS ABUSIVE TO ME WHILE WE WERE MARRIED I STILL FEARED HIM SO I WENT TO THE DOCS KNOWING THEY HAD TO REPORT IT .I DIDNT NEGLECT MY SON I HAD HIM CHECKED OUT AND TOLD THE DOC.JUST SO EVERYONE DOESNT THINK I AM A ROTTEN MOM I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING MY SON .WELL MY TWO YOUNGER SONS STOPPED SEEING THERE FATHER SO HE STOPPED PAYING HIS CONTIN

17 hours ago
SO WHEN HE STOPPED PAYING HIS BIG 50 AWEEK WHICH DID NOT RAISE FOUR SONS I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED HIM FOR THE SUPPORT MY SONS NEEDED AND DESERVED WELL HE TURNED AROUND AND IS NOW TRYING TO SUE ME FOR CUSTODY WE WENT TO A COURT MEDIATOR WHO ORDER A HOME EVALUATION ...WE BOTH HAVE TO PAY 1050 WELL I PAID MY HALF ,HE DIDNT WE ARE GOING INFRONT OF A JUDGE THIS FRIDAY CAUSE HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT,,,,THIS IS A MAN WHOM IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS SECOND WIFE WHOM HE LEFT ONE NITE WENT TO A BAR AND NEVER WENT HOME LEFT HER WITH THERE 2 YR OLD SON AND SHE WAS 5 MONTHS PREGNANT...NOW HE IS SHACKED UP WITH HIS GF AND HER 2 KIDS IN A 2 BEDROOM HOME SHE HAS A 5 YR OLD GIRL WHOM SLEEPS IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM AND HIS GF AND THE GF'S SON HAS HIS OWN ROOM HE IS 10 AND MY BOYS ARE ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR ...THEN WHEN HE GETS HIS SECOND SET OF CHILDREN FROM HIS WIFE THEY SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY EX AND HIS GF ALSO THEY ARE 3YR OLD AND 1.

17 hours ago
MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM THE WAY HE FELT NOW THEY DONT SPEAK MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING FROM WHAT HE DID TO ME AND MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS WHEN HE GRABBED HIM BY THE THROAT CAUSE HE WANTED TO QUIT BASEBALL,AND HE TOLD HIM HE REM WHEN HE GRABBED ME AND ALMOST CHOKED ME TO DEATH INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID DAD IF I WOULDNT HAVE SCREAMED YOU WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ,WELL MY EX TURNED TO HIM AND SAID YOUR MOM BEAT ME MY SON LAUGHED AND SAID DAD YOUR 6 1 300 PDS.MOM IS 5 6 160 AND I WAS THERE I REMEMBER IT ALL ...THEN HE TOLD MY EX ALL HE CARED ABOUT WAS HIS NEW GF AND HER KIDS WELL HE TOLD HIM THATS RITE THEY ARE MY LIFE NOW I HAVE NO OTHER LIFE THEN THEM .WELL THEY HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE FATHERS DAY....THEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF ABOUT HOW HE FELT TELLING HIS DAD HE DOESNT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR HIM TO TRY TO TAKE THEM FROM SOMEONE WHOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR THEM AND THE WOMEN WHO TOOK CARE OF US ON HER OWN FOR 10 YRS WITH NO HELP FROM YOU .

17 hours ago
I WAS SCARED WHEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF I SAID MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT THEY MIGHT USE THAT AGAINST ME MY SON SAID MOM HOW CAN THEY I SAID HOW I FELT...SO I CALLED MY ATTORNEY SHE SAID YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR 14 YR OLDS MOUTH...WELL HE DIDNT PAY HIS HALF OF THE HOME EVAL SO HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT ,,I PAID MINE THAT SHOULD GO TO SHOW I LOVE MY KIDS AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM ....I WENT TO ALL THE SCHOOL MEETINGS AND WENT TO GET ALL MY BOYS HELP THAT THEY NEEDED ,,I HAVE TWO SONS WITH ADHD SO THEY STRUGGLE SO I GO TO THE SCHOOLS GET HELP OF COURSE HIS FAVORITE SAYING IS THEY DONT NEED ANY HELP THEY ARE JUST LAZY AND THEY NEED A FOOT IN THERE ***.

WELL ON XMAS VACATION LAST YR I ASKED FOR ANY KIND OF HOMEWORK THAT WILL HELP WITH THERE GRADES YOU KNOW MAKE UP WORK IT WAS STACKED FOR ALL MY SONS SO I ASKED AHOLE IF HE COULD HELP YEA HE HELPED I GOT A CALL FROM THE SCHOOL STATING THEY WOULDNT BE GETTING CREDIT I SAID WHY NOT

17 hours ago
CAUSE THE SCHOOL SAID THERE FATHER DID IT FOR THEM THE ONLY TIME IN 10 YRS I ASKED FOR HELP THAT IS WHAT I GOT...I AM SCARED I AM A GOOD MOM I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DO NOT GO OUT PARTYING UNLIKE HIM I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SONS THAT IS MY PLACE THAT IS WHERE I BELONG..THEY ARE MY LIFE....SO DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY CHANCE...THANKS

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1 day ago
IM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG HE SUED ME CAUSE I SUED HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ..HE ONLY PAID ME 5O AWEEK FOR 10 YRS FOR FOUR BOYS THERE OLDER AND THEY NEED MORE ..I DID IT ON MY OWN FOR 10 1/2 YRS IF HE THINKS HIS BIG 50 AWEEK RAISED HIS SONS HE NEEDS TO GET A REALITY CHECK

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3 hours ago
MY KIDS AGES ARE 16 14 13 SORRY IF I DIDNT ADD THAT,,,THANKS

2006-10-10 05:52:08 · 10 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1

hes a very close co worker with hubby...
im not sure what to do....we have gone too far....dont think me as a whore.....there are things which canot be explained....
contact me.....through yahoo...

2006-10-10 05:51:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1

but i abuse him more psychically and he abuse me more mentally and then we make up within 5 minutes i lost my strongest love for him but i still love him and want to be with him and dont want to lose him what do we do?

2006-10-10 05:45:22 · 23 answers · asked by Brina 2

A girl i know found out someone they are now involved with,( that was in love with me in the past) still thinks he has a thing for me even though i told her nothing is going on anymore. A mutual friend told to me that she vents her anger/jealousy using answers and then answers question with multiple screen names and signs them with my name or things significant to my family so that when he signs (he uses answers to) on and reads them he thinks it is me to get something started. I wish to do nothing to hurt this person and wish she knew this. I am not perfectand made mistakes in the past but I just want to move on and wish she would just ask me any questions she might have. I just discovered this sight a month ago by suggestion and try to help people not hurt or belittle them. Do you think I should contact her? Thanks.

2006-10-10 05:41:53 · 8 answers · asked by ElegantSweetie 2

I am a mother of two girls and I'm also a wife. I recently lost a lot of weight and I feel that I am almost at a point where I can actually be proud of my body and I want to do something that I have always thought of doing. I want to strip but I know that my husband will kill me. I stand 5'10" tall and at the present time, I weigh 195lb. But if you look at me you would never be able to guess how much I weigh. I carry my weight well and when I put on heels, I look even smaller. I just need to tone up a few places and I'll be good to go.
i was thinking about taking a trip out of town with my girlfriends and while I was there, I will try it out. I don't want to tell my husband and that's where you come in at. What do you think I should do? I don't plan on doing it on a regular basis, I have just always wanted to do it and I think that in a few more weeks, my body will be ready! Should I or shouldn't I strip for one weekend and never mention it to my husband?

2006-10-10 05:39:23 · 31 answers · asked by wilsonhutchison04 3

with hold sex for romance?

2006-10-10 05:35:01 · 7 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6