Ive noticed there are women who go with their husbands to strip clubs so they can "keep an eye on him". Why do you want to put yourselves through that if your not getting anything from it? Is it not uncomfortable for you to watch him google over other women and your not even into the women? Why go? If your not okay with him going,you dont have to tolerate him going. And if your going to let him go,why not let him go alone? You dont have to witness it and feel pushed to the side. You could go to a male club when he goes.
2006-10-10 06:15:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband and I DO go. Im very into women and wre best friends and have a whole lot of fun! It turns me on and I know it does for him. He;s not a jerk,dosent compare me or say"Id like to tear that up" UNLESS I promt him to say these things. He respects me like that. I even point hot girls out to him,but he never goes out anywhere without me,ever.
2006-10-10 06:20:44 · update #1
The idea for a couple to go to a strip club is for both parties to get turned on,.
Guys , most of the time enjoy the idea of bringing thier spouse because it is sharing his sexual desires with his spouse, It's like watching porn together,
Now a smart woman rather than just thinking of herself might use this opportunity of being in a strip club with her man as way of getting very naughty and hot and a prelude to a great love making sesion and not as a threat.
And in turn you can bring him to a male strip club.
The idea is to get all worked up
I say go with it enjoy it and you might be starting a whole new sexual adventure with your man that might produce the hottest sex you've ever had.
Think outside the box
2006-10-10 06:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married...and I am straight but I do like watching movies with my guy and the strip club would be just the same. It would depend on if I had some friends that I could get to go to the other club with me. Also if he likes looking at them then just think about how much fun you will have after he is worked up. It doesn't matter where he gets his appetite as long as he eats at home. Plus if you went then you could dress up yourself and then he might not even take his eyes off of you.
2006-10-10 13:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couples dont go to keep an eye on their man. They go to turn up the heat in the bed room. And some women go with their man cause they like women. I used to work at a strip club. I have done dances for women with their husbands there. Some women are curious to know what its like to have a woman dance for you. And they seem to want another one. If I had the courage I would let my fiance go. He met me there.
2006-10-10 13:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says we're not getting anything from it? The sex afterwards is awesome! Not that it isn't usually but ...
I go with my husband and I'm completely straight. We have a lot of fun together and I even point out women that he should check out. I'm completely secure in our relationship and I have no issues with him going when he's with the guys either. He doesn't go on his own and that's his decision. Men and women are going to look and admire the human body, it's only natural. The question isn't in if or when they're gonna look, it's if they're going to cross the line. As long as the two of you are open with you expectations of one another and you both know where the lines are, then you have nothing to worry about.
2006-10-10 13:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman and i go to strip clubs with my bf all the time and I'm straight, i have a ball i get lap dances, and i go to make things more exciting once we get home, i like to go to spice up my sex life and at the same time get to see my man really enjoy himself with or with out me. i go to male strip clubs and do the same thing as a man, for this you have to have great self esteem and confidence in your self and your man it's not for any women that has issue's with her on sexuality or self esteem
2006-10-10 13:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, having not frequented any, from what I've been told is that the "gentlemen's clubs" around here don't permit women other than those that 'work' there in. Story I heard was that the, um, entertainers didn't like performing to lesbians. Hmm. oh, well, I guess that is one piece of misinformation that won't wreck my world one way or the other.
2006-10-10 13:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married, my husband wanted me to go with him. I got divorced and got a boyfriend and he wanted me to go with him, it was usually a group of couples going then. The comments were usually that these girls didn't compare to the ones on their arms. Plus, they would buy us lap dances, which I laughed at. I guess it's the whole BI fantasy for them. As far as women going to keep an eye on their man, they shouldn't. He's being honest enough to tell her where she's going.
2006-10-10 13:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay not sure what you are trying to get us to say but I say if you like the strip place & it turns both of you on Keep doing what you feel. It's not for me & I don't go .
2006-10-10 13:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg have u never gone---very exciting and hey who gets the benefit of it but ME!!!! I enjoy going with my guy and so does he...fun there and back and during the event...u should go and just check it out
2006-10-10 13:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get him interested in some thing else, he's obviously bored with his life, or you.
2006-10-10 13:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by tom_nearhood 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋