My husband keeps me, at the very least, on the verge of ecstasy most of the time. My ex-husband was not very interested in sex. I felt that this was my punishment for being active before marriage. Found out he was more interested in men. Still, it caused me to go through my 30's selabite. I was a faithful, naive wife who thought he wasn't turned on by me because I was flat chested, 32B. I had never met a man who cared about my pleasure. It was always about them. I was under the impression that that's the way it's supposed to be. On the other hand, my newly wedded husband had never been with a woman who cared about making love. I cannot comprehend this, since he is the most fantastic love maker in the world! He has never had a woman that wanted so VERY MUCH to please him, so he can't tell me what he wants. Since I've never known a man that wasn't "Wam bam", I don't know what to do. He always says he's pleased, but I SCREAM! How can I give him that much pleasure? With his care Im a 36C.
2006-10-10 05:52:43 · 22 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl I think your husband is more pleased than you know. Some of us think of sex, Making love, as something we do to please our wife. We know that as men we only can last so long but foreplay and making your wife organismic is far more satisfying to us than you can understand.
You have a husband that wants to please you more than anything. You can do what ever you want to try to get him to scream. BUT! I will bet you that his main focus is to satisfy you.
2006-10-10 06:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mit 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 03:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people think of sex as a step-by-step progression towards orgasm that can be accomplished by following a set of directions that work in the same way for every person: one set for men and one set for women. Many people feel there are particular things that everyone will automatically enjoy, things that will satisfy every person every time. But while we're all human, or male and female, that doesn't mean we all function the same way sexually; not even close. A lot of women have strong orgasm but remains fairly silent some scream, same apply to man. So do not worry to much relax and enjoy.
2006-10-10 06:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cleanliness: If your body and genitals are truly clean you can you can relax and enjoy some great foreplay?
Touching: If you don't like to touch your partner's body, genitals... sex will be boring. Learn to touch, caress, stimulate, massage, and explore every inch of your lover’s body. Encourage your partner to explore your body too.
Oral sex: If you think oral sex is dirty, then you don't know that there are more germs in your mouth then on your partners clean genitals. Get over it, and learn to enjoy oral sex, and give this great pleasure to your partner and your partner I’m sure will return the favor.
Anal sex: When properly performed anal sex is not messy or painful; learn how to maximize pleasures for both sides!
G-spots: work with your lover to find, explore and stimulate your g-spot, I’ll bring you both more pleasure and some intense orgasms!
Deep throating: If you can, it will give special pleasure to your lover.
Swallowing: Learn to love the taste of your partner’s semen; it will make him very excited and happy with or without swallowing!
New positions: Be creative and try a new position now and then, roll over and take it from behind, take charge and get on top, mix it up. Add a little spice to create your own, special and personal intercourse positions.
Toys: Sex toys and lubricants can help to maximize your pleasures during foreplay, intercourse or as a dessert.
Orgasmic pleasures: Always help your partner to achieve, accelerate or delay your orgasm and ejaculation to maximize pleasures, satisfaction and happiness.
2006-10-10 06:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-04-07 21:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, when your with someone who doesn't challenge you(your ex) and know your with someone new, and it's like your women hood is being awakened, what to do when you've been pushing it down for so long. It will take alittle time. Remember the more you enjoy it, the more he will enjoy it. Also have some fun, since you never could before.... do things you've always wanted to do.....do things to him that are naughty, from his point of view you can't go wrong. Learn sensuality, be a real women..... touch yourself in front of him....... let him watch.
2006-10-10 06:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to massage his protate via manual anal penetration. Make the foreplay last all day long. Tie him up and make him last for hours. But all of these things are not the greatest aphrodisiac. The greatest turn on is having a willing and well satisfied partner. Sounds like you are this. Enjoy and God Bless.
2006-10-10 06:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comunicate with him and ask him a lot of questions about what he finds most enjoyable and pleasurable, Ask him to tell you his deepest darkest sexual secrets and then do them for him. You might be real surprised what tripps his trigger, You might try watching porn together or naughty books /Mags and ask him to pick out a movie/mag he thinks is hot and then ask him why, Try new exciting romantic things, play dress up in lingerie for him and have him pick out the out fit.
Comunicate comunicate,
Most men are visual, keep that in mind
and of course tons of foreplay
2006-10-10 06:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Premature ejaculation can be cured with natural methods. One really good one you can follow is http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=565
When a man is suffering from premature ejaculation, he is often climaxing before his partner and in the case of most men it is difficult if not impossible for them to continue intercourse after ejaculating. That’s because chemicals are released when a man ejaculates and these are the same chemicals that make a person feel sleepy and/or not aroused. It’s not that they have suddenly lost interest; just their brain is telling them that the sex is over. This effect is more prominent after intercourse than after masturbation because intercourse actually causes four times more of these chemicals to be released. If premature ejaculation occurs frequently, it can lead to embarrassment for the man and sexual frustration for both partners.
Bye
2014-09-10 22:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time.
Start with a good rub down both nude. Start him face down and make it slow. When you do get to his @#% be slow and when he is near stop and go to a nother body part for 5 mins then go back do this a few times. Use your hands once then mouth next. Make it last hours.
2006-10-10 06:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋