Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2006

Is it normal for a woman in early 40s to be in the mood almost every day?

2006-10-13 23:56:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Businessmen chasing the money all the time and treating their wife like a deal they made and now they got her at home waiting for him whenever he wants to come and rest.

Those wives keep complaining about loneliness and maybe end up cheating on their husbands with another guy. Why can't they choose the other guy from the beginning who will love them and be there for them. Yes I know the money and the success and keeping up with the Jones are important but still human feeling and love are more important than money.

2006-10-13 23:46:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 23:36:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 23:30:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i can only seem to hold off for about 10 days before giving in, and end up frustrated afterwards as hubby only lasts a few minutes!!!

2006-10-13 23:22:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 34 unattached unmarried . She took an instant liking for me since I look young but we did not converse a word .This happened twice at a family friend get together.I also liked her but what about the age gap??? probably she thinks i am 27-28 probably.
Would it be wise to proceed ...... we are both in the same profession ....I know she doesn't (probably)

Could I marry her happily !!

2006-10-13 23:19:41 · 6 answers · asked by kalki 2

(or rather: how do you accept a lie and feel good about it)

2006-10-13 23:19:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

making love can sometimes be the time when spouses 'least' communicate. Heh, look at our facial expressions, we actually sometimes close our eyes, why! scary sometimes, can't stand the stupid look on his/her face?! Also, sometimes we don't get what we want out of the moment! Guys have been branded as being selfish sometimes by the ladies for getting there too early.

So am curious: How many of you face these kinds of dilemas and why is it hard to communicate to him/her. Does anyone have tips on how to resolve this one.

2006-10-13 23:13:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have discussed this with my husband and he won't tell me why there has been a change. I feel he is either seeing someone or has no interest in me and I don't know how to make him tell me the truth. It is very painful to have to beg for sex from my husband. I feel like a dog.

2006-10-13 22:56:49 · 18 answers · asked by Deena O 1

2006-10-13 22:48:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi, i am a 27 yr old married man from past few months.My wife is 24 yrs old.I am very lucky to get her as my wife.She is a nice girl and we respect eachother a lot.i love her a lot and i know that she too loves me.But my problem is she is too shy in bed and does not co-operate me to fulfill my sexual desires.She feels very uncomfortable when i kiss her and i find her shivering when i hug her and try to make love to her . She does not complain or tells anything about her problem but somehow i want her to make her feel happy and comfortable with me in bed.I am really worried about how can i make her ready so that i can enter her.pls help me

2006-10-13 22:35:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known my partner for about 11 yrs now. we have a 10yr old and we have lived together for almost 8yrs now. I love him and he says he does too. But refuses to marry me. He said he doesnt believe in it and said most of the marriges in his family have not worked out and end up in a divorce. I dont know what to think. we are not a perfect couple we have our arguments but we get over them. I love him and i want to marry him, and he knows this. But i dont think its important to him or that he cares. Im starting to lose hope and it breaks my heart. I feel insecure and believe that there is something wrong with me or he just doesnt love me the way i love him. sometimes i feel he thinks I am not the one. Should i wait for him to want to marry me? or forget about getting married and stay with him regardless? Im so confused!

2006-10-13 22:33:02 · 15 answers · asked by is it love 1

My wife had an affair on me and I had found out about after it had ended. She has told me hst she wants to try to work on the marrigae and I said yes but I cannot stop throwing it up in her face all the time. If you have experienced this what have you done to not bring it up and keep quiet and work on the marriage. My wife quit going out to clubs and has been staying home. I really want this marriage to work out...

2006-10-13 22:06:41 · 13 answers · asked by ACE 1

Also tell me some great things to do when we spend our days in a nice heritage hotel on a small hill-station?

2006-10-13 22:06:21 · 14 answers · asked by zaetta 1

First off, I am not a perfect husband, but I do love my wife very dearly. My wife goes to clubs every weekend. sometimes two to three times. This really bothers me and I have spoken to her about this. I threatened to leave once. She slowed down, but is now back to clubbin regularly. She was never a clubby. I can't understand her new found hobby and she doesn't understand my new found jealousy. Guess I just want things the way they were. I am however, all for giving her space. My job takes me away from home for weeks at a time. I am sure it is a job with the kids alone. When I am home, I cater to her, doing all of the cooking and most of the cleaning..I feel that all married couples need space. I just feel that every weekend is extreme. Any responses will be helpful..

2006-10-13 21:20:49 · 15 answers · asked by ogdry1971 1

what different things can i do to make our marriage successful

2006-10-13 20:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there any problem in such marriage.

2006-10-13 20:46:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love to do it and do not understand y she would not want it.

2006-10-13 20:45:09 · 19 answers · asked by panther_nut 3

I want to go for contact marriage with an American.What will be the cost?Is there anybody?i am male.

2006-10-13 20:44:38 · 7 answers · asked by Mohsin A 1

2006-10-13 20:43:32 · 13 answers · asked by jlh1975 2

new ideas to make a relationship last longer.

2006-10-13 20:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok.. me and my ex have been divorced for a year and a half! He remarried a few months after it was finalized but kept telling me he wanted me back and was coming back... after waiting around on him for a year I moved on. I'm now engaged to the most awesome guy in the world! I have three kids with my ex! Here recently he filed for custody becuase I refused to go back to him. He just dropped the case and gave the kids back... and is now getting divorced from his wife! He keeps asking me to come back to him. I was with him for 7 years.... but he cheated on me repeatly. I'm extremely happy where I'm at now.... but he says I'm choosing My fiance over the happiness of my kids! Am I???

Tee

2006-10-13 20:20:47 · 21 answers · asked by sexymama2420052000 1

2006-10-13 20:19:29 · 7 answers · asked by james t 1

why do people continue to defend it and delude themselves? And considering those facts AND that you actually don't need pornography to masturbate, what rational excuse could there be? And something better than that trite old corker "two consenting adults", yada yada. Give me a f*cking break. Wives whose relationships are destroyed by porn addict husbands, that's NOT consent

2006-10-13 20:16:52 · 9 answers · asked by falloutgurrrl 1

Mid thirties, know it's the best thing, understand the grief issue. Besides jumping into bed with someone else, and besides spending several hundred dollars at the mall, what is a good way to temporarily (no drugs or alcohol) to relieve this pain?

2006-10-13 20:06:52 · 16 answers · asked by bleunumen 1

I'm thinking what's stopping him from treating me like he treats her? I mean he lied to me about her having a boyfriend and being separated from him I think. He tells me that he loves me and he's with me almost every night but I can't get over the fact that he lied about being married. Do you think he'll end up leaving her for good? I really care about him and would want to be with him if he was divorced. But then I'd hate for him to just drop me like it seems like he did to her. Please help if you're married or single thanks

2006-10-13 19:51:05 · 16 answers · asked by AJ 2

Has anyone done this, or know of anyone who did?

2006-10-13 19:49:35 · 22 answers · asked by DREENA 2

If there is no custody battle involved and it is primarily splitting up assets how long does it take? And if you get an annulment to the marriage, o you file for annulment after the divorce is final, while the divorce is pending or before you even file for divorce? Also, what are you considered before a divorce if final? Just separated or can you consider yourself divorced?

2006-10-13 19:46:39 · 8 answers · asked by MMTS 3

It is cos he can't:
negiotate
compromise
is too proud
or is so fked up I shld leav him

2006-10-13 19:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 12 years and we have three (3) beautiful children togehter. ( house, cars, pets too........) but how do you know if the other person is in love w/ you or that you are in love w/ him. Heard the expression, " I love you, but I'm not in love w/ you" What is the difference????? Anything will help....Thanks.. ( and, P.S., love)

2006-10-13 19:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by crazyami 2