Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2006

we are thinking about getting back together

2006-10-13 08:08:10 · 16 answers · asked by lovenest 1

We split up for stupid reasons or better,for no reason.I am sure we are both in love with each other but he is terribly egoist.What i could do to bring him back?Something that i will have good results soon...PLEASE

2006-10-13 08:06:59 · 9 answers · asked by ANGEL 1

2006-10-13 08:05:35 · 30 answers · asked by chaand5 3

My divorce was final at the beginning of this month and my ex seemed very happy it was over. He told me that he just wanted everything to be over. Well when court was over I got very emotional and started yelling at him and I told him that I know he still loved me and that we could have worked this out. And I asked him to tell me that he didn't love me and he wouldn't say anything. We just had a baby in July and we have a 19 month old and I told him that he left us and I know that we all could have been a happy family. Well he told me we would talk about everything later that he had to go and think. Well after all this happend he has been coming over every night and hanging out and he messages me everyday and is always worried if I am going to get mad at him. On the nights that he has his visitation with the girls he wants me to come over. We are even going out to a movie tonight. I don't get it. He is the one that filed. What do you thing about this? Do you thing he still cares 4 me?

2006-10-13 08:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by JLEE 2

A nice town where time stands still ? You know with a scenery

2006-10-13 08:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Tito G 1

2006-10-13 08:02:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that when either a man or woman cheats on their partner, they always find an excuse as to why they did it in the first palce and try to justify it. There is no excuse when you are in the same household. You should leave your spouse (legal seperation, divorce) and then have all the affairs you wish. Does every one else feel the same????

2006-10-13 07:58:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have done this before but obviously people are getting a little edgy so here you go...your answers:

1. Yes she/he's cheating
2. No you should not take them back.
3. Yes you have to pay child support.
4. Yes he's probably gay.
5. Yes, his Mom hates you.
6. No there isn't anything you can do about it.
7. Yes he's looking at porn and jacking off...leave him alone, it'k ok
8. Yes he hears you...he isn't listening.
9. Yes he wishes he could stay home instead of have Sunday dinner with your family.
10. No you shouldn't spy
11. Yes she's owndering what your best friend is like in bed.
12. Yes, he's wondering what your best friend is like in bed and if he gets the chance he'll do her.
13. If you want to put the spark back give him a bj...give her a credit card
14. The best gift for him is a weekend on the couch without nagging
15. The best weekend you can give her is away at a spa with no phone.
16. And if you don't know who the father is...neither do we:)

2006-10-13 07:56:46 · 22 answers · asked by sasha 4

what ur husband think that u make a perfect wife?

2006-10-13 07:56:32 · 22 answers · asked by Lod!t@ 1

do u ever ask youself that question?

2006-10-13 07:51:14 · 11 answers · asked by chemistman 1

OK, my ex can not get over the fact that I cheated on him and that I married the guy that I cheated on him with. This has been going on for 10yrs now. When do they get over it?

2006-10-13 07:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by jb 2

2006-10-13 07:50:50 · 5 answers · asked by forbidnfruit_420 2

(A guy you happen to be friends with)
Whats your take on this? Affair and betrayal?? What???

2006-10-13 07:44:08 · 42 answers · asked by libby 3

I was home one day just messing around when my wife was out. I was thinking about her pantys and opened her draw pulled a pair out and put them on. Well Her and My motherinlaw just came in and saw ME OMG !!!!. Well she was mad at me and her mother started LOL. Now My motherinlaw treets me not as one of the men anymore. She will say small things to me like Get up and let the men sit down etc....

2006-10-13 07:43:06 · 22 answers · asked by skillwithtools 1

My cousin Patty and I are close. Her husband was caught cheating on her. I offered her a place with me in my guest room. I’m not worried about her paying me or anything it’s family. However with in 24 hours she goes back to him? I am so mad at her, but I can’t yell at her incase she leaves him again.

But what is going on with her? She’s been cheated on before and knows the hurt, but her husband was caught with someone else and she returns to him within 24 hours? Were so close and i wish she seen it like everyone else does. Why did she do that?

2006-10-13 07:42:53 · 12 answers · asked by Juleette 6

A friend of my wifes and I asked me to babysit but I was in for a big surprise. She seduced me, should I tell my wife??
They have been friend for 20 years. My wife would never know but I was given an ultimatum, keep it cumming or the wife finds out.
What would you do in this situation?

2006-10-13 07:42:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 13 years left me for one of his co-workers who of course is ten years younger than I am. He cheated on me with her for months. Two months before their relationship began we were making long term plans for the future and then all of a sudden he is "not happy". We have a 9 year old son who lives with me primarily - he visits his Dad every other weekend. He is very hurt by all of this and I am doing my best to get him through this. I do not bad mouth his Dad or the other woman. All of this happened in six months! We are divorced now. I do my best not to contact my ex because he is like a stranger. How do I get through all this without becoming bitter. He made such a fool of me. I feel like an idiot. Plus it hurts to see him move on so quickly while I am taking things one day at a time. That makes me angry at myself. Do you ever get over this feeling of disappointment? How do you not let all of this change you in a negative way? I do not want to be bitter but it is hard?

2006-10-13 07:41:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance' and I bought a new house and are renovating. Anyway last week he send home a framed picture of him, my daughter and his fiance'...... I do NOT want his picture displayed in my home... why would he send home something like that with my daughter.... why wouldnt he keep it at his house. i feel it is completly inappriorite and rude. I know the reason they send it is to make me angry whiched worked but I dont know how to handle this issue.... what would you do.... i feel that it is putting my daughter in an uncomfortable position because i will not not display it.... i put it away and she hasnt asked for it should i just put it away in a box

2006-10-13 07:35:31 · 31 answers · asked by alabama 2

Usually in the kitchen when there's washing up to be done, sugar and tea stains on side when making a cup of tea, wet towels on the bathroom floor, socks at side of bed, full ash trays. Is there a scientific reason behind this?

2006-10-13 07:33:50 · 14 answers · asked by esmequeenoftheworld 2

2006-10-13 07:31:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I caught her the other day. I feel asleep in the couch for 3 minutes. I woke up and she was in the bedroom with vibrator in position. I felt she couldn't wait for me to fall asleep to go get off. This morning it was when I was in the shower, I walked out and caught her again. She denied this morning though. Last week when I woke up and caught her she said come and join me. But I felt she only made love to me because I caught her. Now you must know that often we go 1 week or 2 or more between making love. I feel she's turning to her vibrator instead of me. We've been married less then a year also. Also she tells me that I am the right size and I totally satisfy her. So if that's true then why masturbate so much? It would be different I guess if we made love a couple times a week. She does tell me that I should also teke care of myself. But I get no satisfaction at all from that. What do I do? Ignore it? Get therapy? Please I could use both a male and female opinion.

2006-10-13 07:30:04 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi well i have been with my boyfriend for 3years and we have a little baby boy together i love him alot and iam still in high school, but just lastnight we asked me to marry him and i didnt say anything i told him i need time to think? one thing is that i do want to study still and he said thats kool but that he wants to get marry and be a family what should i do?

2006-10-13 07:24:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

deos any one no of any totaly free chat rooms iv signed up for a couple but to chat or send emails you have to pay im on a low income an rearly cant afford to pay for this please help

2006-10-13 07:19:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have read way to many Y/A Q&A today and am seeing repeats so I can reasonably say. Yes, men want more sex! If we don't get enough it makes us grouchy and prone to have affairs. Women now that you know this can you please turn of the fun factory? Just complaining that your man is a pig and then only putting out twice a month doesn't help anyone, learn to like it or learn to fake it well, we really don't care.

2006-10-13 07:12:52 · 27 answers · asked by medic 5

This is just a question. I havent been married but about 14 months and already my wife hardly wants to have sex. I like to be adventureous and spontaneous with sex. She is exactly the opposite. She says shes not a hoe and will not just have sex all willie nillie. Also I try to set the mood right: candles, bubble bath, massages, GREAT oral sex, rubbingand caressing. She says she loves me but she is just not a sexual person period. What do you think?

A. Is there someone else?
B. Is she just not attracted to me
(Im sexy as hell like for real, nice body smooth skin etc.)
C. Is she just a square?

2006-10-13 07:01:01 · 34 answers · asked by Mister Tee 1

I remember when cheating was consider as having sex with someone other than your spouse. Y is that society now have made up this (emotional cheating).I personally think that , If a spouse have a friend of the opposite sex, that he has not told his or her spouse about is not cheating, It will however cause a lot problem in the marriage.How do u feel about this?

2006-10-13 06:51:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 06:50:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

This woman(41) got inmediatly involve with a married man(43) who was divorcing since he cheated on his wife.She invited him to move in with her with the excuse of charing expenses .They got in hot and heavy to the point he forgot about his kids at all. Then she got pregnant during the first months of the divorce process(need to add that the guy is in a terrible finantial nighmare he owe $ and don't pay etc.) . the guy did many low things to his family to the point of totally disengaging himself from his kids and all .All this concentration of heavy duty dessitions where made within a few months tops. Is this one of those rebound type of things.The guy is my co worker and I think that what he did to his kids was wrong but he listen to no one. Is it rebound ?will it last? Also the woman did everything posible to gett him away from his fam.and when he abandom them he did't even say good bye to his kids. Loooooow

2006-10-13 06:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by free@last 1

I have been married for 8 years now. Over a period of time he has lost interest in trying new stuff. Sex has become routine and boring.

2006-10-13 06:47:05 · 16 answers · asked by era 1

my girlfriend and i just broke up, before thebrake up she was not as affectionate as she was in the beggining and now that we are split she is so amazing... a keep trying to sleep in the spare bedroom but she always say "oh thought you would want to sleep with me?" i'm moving out and i just want to try and make this not hurt so much for myself ... what are your thoughts

2006-10-13 06:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by goretti c 1