Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2006

I have a great wife... We only have issues in the sack... she says she is happy and attacks me BUT her oral skills lack... She attempts but not good... gags increidbly easily... and has never been able to finish me. I am not huge a little over 7 only... any advice on how coach her or just make it better? Thanks!

2006-10-13 05:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by Confused C 1

2006-10-13 05:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by kkk 1

we are planing on getting engaged in december of this year so two months. i am going to plan a day to propose to her sooner than that. we wanted to get married in the summer of 2007. but things changed and moved it to 2008. becouse my parents thought it was to early and wanted us to get at least another year of college under the belt. so me and my girlfriend talked and wanted to just wait until the summer of 2009. we will both be 21 by then. so that gives us 2years and 6 month of engagement is that too long to be engaged. i also think that will give us more time to be with each other and learn each other better.

in her tradition we can live together until marrage.

2006-10-13 04:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by Through The Eyes Of The Dead 2

2006-10-13 04:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by Bob 1

If my final judgment says I have to pay any "past due, non-covered" medical expenses for my child, does this mean I have to pay for co-payments that the mother has paid since my child's birth?

2006-10-13 04:58:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lori W 2

while Im on the subject of stuff like that, how long do you think your should date someone before its "safe" to move in together? how long before getting engaged?

2006-10-13 04:55:09 · 11 answers · asked by katie-bug 5

2006-10-13 04:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by WILLIAM S 1

2006-10-13 04:46:26 · 6 answers · asked by demon_god 2

been married for 20+ yrs. My wife and I are always having problems, we are so different. I know I shouldn't be befriending women like this BUT it is a source of need that my wife can't meet. I have gone to counselor after counselor for help and just want someone who accepts me for me. Any ideas, advice ?? I am a Christian...so my faith and beliefs contradict what i am doing...I also have ADHD. I feel guilty for doing this BUT also want someone who accepts me for me. We have the picture perfect look BUT on the inside we're a mess...good christian family of us and 5 kids...

help me ! I want OUT of this spiral of searching for a relationship that is wrong...or is it ???

2006-10-13 04:44:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 04:35:08 · 21 answers · asked by Darrin S 1

She's told me she had a wild period in her life, but she won't tell me anything past that. I don't know if the number is 25 or 100, I love her but not knowing this is a causing me a lot of pain.

2006-10-13 04:34:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's a doozie for you. I've known this gay man for about eight years. His last two years in town we were really close. I've always known I was crazy about him. I accept that my life is purposefully complicated.

Two years ago he left town and only lately have I been really sensing him. The overwhelming vibes have forced me to actually express my feelings. I know it would be assumed that I just miss my friend, but it's more than that. And if I could I guess I would punish myself for having a courtly realtionship with him. But we're too far past that now.

What I want to know is how can I soften the blow of the obvious loss and or remove the c0*k block he's been holding in my life?

****Spells and prayers welcomed***

2006-10-13 04:32:49 · 6 answers · asked by Kia Extreem 2

If so, what color, and does your spouse/SO do it for you?

2006-10-13 04:32:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my dentist at least 6 years ago, but she keeps sending me mailings. My wife hates junk mail.

2006-10-13 04:25:37 · 15 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

He is in the military and he had a tour that I couldnt go. This morning e left hes email account open and I started browsing trogh it. I know I shouldnt have but I did it. i found an email he sent to one of his friends talking about some girls he dated while he was back there an what a great time he had. Now while he was there he came home and visited me three times during that year. I cant believe it. Im so angry. I dont know what to do or what to say. im disgusted, it has been two years since he cae back from that assignment and things where a little difficult when he came back but things where going great. We are building aur first house, are going on vacation next month, had a baby year and a half ago. i actually got pregnant on one of those trips h e took to see me while he was away. Please help somebody.

2006-10-13 04:23:39 · 23 answers · asked by xadralix 2

I am a non-procrastinator,married to a procrastinator. My car was hit in the front almost 2 yrs. ago, we decided that for the cost to fix,( we did get an ins,check.) hubby would buy parts and do it himself so we can save some money. fine. Well, here we are ,almost 2 yrs. later, my car is still the same. I asked him last night if tomorrow,(today)., if he would pick up the hood for the car on his way home. He looked at me and said,"when?" I said on your way home. He said," It's all the way in the back of the wrecking yd., i don't want to deal with handling it through there, that isnt what i had planned for tomorrow, NO, i won't do that tomorrow!" I just looked at him and said,"Oh, ok." and started to walk away.That ruined the rest of the night. We were going to watch a movie, he just went to bed with an attitude. He just shuts down and wont talk to me.I have been with this man for 16 yrs., we have 3 kids together.
Men, women if you could give me some feedback,i would appreciate. ;) UGH!

2006-10-13 04:21:31 · 19 answers · asked by Michele S 2

don't know what to do with my boyfriend of 7 years (off & on). We have a one year old son together, and we were just about to get married. Now, after our last argument he has decided that he no longer wants to be with me, and will be leaving when our apartment lease ends next summer. He has stopped helping around the house, with the baby, etc. He goes out almost every night once the baby's asleep, and on the weekends doesn't come home until sunrise, only to sleep on the couch while I do everything. He says the most awful and cruel things to me, and I know I am not completely innocent, but I have stuck around to try and make it work for the sake of our child. My boyfriend came from a broken home and I feel it ruined his life, I don't want to see the same for my child. It has been a cycle of abuse for seven years, and we have both left before. This has happened all through our relationship, and we always make up. I can't take it anymore I just want him to stop. He blames me.

2006-10-13 04:21:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

affairs. We think he will try to get her money. What do you think?

2006-10-13 04:17:11 · 8 answers · asked by judy f 3

My step daughter is on that site everyday all day. I do not know that much about it but ive seen so many shows about it not being safe. She has a protected password so i cant check it to make sure she is being safe. Is this a safe site for a 14 yr old girl to be on???

2006-10-13 04:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by Kim 2

Especially from the ladies.....

"MY KNiGHT iN SHiNiNG ARMOUR
TURNED OUT TO BE A LOSER iN
ALUMiNUM FOiL !"

Share those feelings please.... thank U

PS: Guys, you can have your say too... : )

2006-10-13 04:10:48 · 23 answers · asked by DiL 3

I am doing at home college work, and asked if there was anyone on here that can give me some pointers and answer some question I had for the carreer path that I am heading down, and got some help with from some guy. He knows I am married, And I have kept all my messages to him professional with only questions. I just got a message from him, it was odd. it was something like do you like fat guys with no money? What the hell do I say to him? I have no idea why he would even ask. HELP! I love my husband, I am looking to get this guy to leave me alone now.

2006-10-13 04:06:54 · 30 answers · asked by Jenny 2

People say woman's sexual interest rises when they grow old, some say that it is not so. We guys want to have clear idea, how most of you experience, so that we can cater properly to our women. (I heard from one lady at her 45 that her hubby does not understand her needs. Poor guys think that they are too old to have sex!)

Consider your maximum desire at your prime time is 100%, from that you can rate your desire while you were in your age starting from age of 15, in steps of 5 years.

For ex: 15-20 yrs -- 80%, 20-25 yrs---85% so on...

2006-10-13 03:59:06 · 14 answers · asked by G Man 1

I went to court yesterday for child support. I had filed for contempt since he hasn't paid in over three months, and I need that money to pay my bills. Anyways, he didn't show up...and I called his mother's house (where he was supposed to be living) and she told me he packed up about a week ago and took off--hitch-hiked to California. I have no address for him, and don't even know for sure if that is where he went. Is there any way they can still find him? I live in Indiana.

2006-10-13 03:53:02 · 25 answers · asked by ANGEL 5

There are pleanty of people out there(male and female) who will easily sleep with you. Why must you make a commitment just to go and have affairs? Why not just stay single and have all the sex you want without hurting anybody in the process?
Men who cheat: I suspect its because you want a little "house maid",so your getting everything you want?
Women who cheat: But why would you marry just to cheat?
Im not talking an "oops" that happened once,I mean those habitual cheaters who knew they were going to cheat as they said "I do".

2006-10-13 03:52:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's Say You Have A Fiance You Love Very Much! But You Don't Have As Much Sex As You Would Like.

You Get It About Every Other Day. Plus You Have 2 Children In The Home.

Would You Cheat On Your Fiance, Just For More Sex?

She Takes Care Of You In Every Way...Cooks, Cleans House, Your Clothes Always Hung And Clean, Fridge Stocked, Doesn't Complain When You Go Out For A While, Pretty And Sexy. Loves You Very Much.

Would You Cheat?

2006-10-13 03:49:01 · 31 answers · asked by XXSEXY66XX 3

This is our big 5th anniversary and we have come so far as a couple so it is a really important one to me and him. We are going to a wonderful restaurant and a play...any ideas to help make the day a little more special. It's on a Friday and we have two young children, he should be home from work by lunchtime.

2006-10-13 03:48:57 · 11 answers · asked by AnswerGirl 3

Not a question really, just wanted to say thanks to all the honest and serious answers I got to my question. I am no longer engaged and just gave a wedding package away to a young couple that was having problems finding the money to have a decent wedding. I was out the money either way...Y'all rock!!!

2006-10-13 03:48:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a continuation to a question I just asked. My wife celebrated here birthday two days ago. I sent her some roses to her job which she did get. The then is she has yet to say thank you. I called to confirm that the flowers were delivered to her job and she signed for them. She found the time to text message me on Tuesday to let me know that her mother would pick her up from work on Wednesday (her birthday). When she came on that night she still did not say thank. When I got up Thursday morning the roses were sitting on the kitche table and she did not even say thank you that morning nor yesterday afternoon. I see this a sign of being totally ungreatful. Should I just leave the matter alone, because it's obvious she doesn't appreciate the flowers and the other gifts that I gave her or should I voice my how hurt I am ove the matter.

2006-10-13 03:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by kingjames1906 2

Me and my husband have been to geather for a long time we just had our first child and we where always so close and had lots of fun and trust me Ive lost all of the baby weight I just dont understand my husband kissed this other girl and he said he ended it but he still wants to talk to her and not let me be freinds with her and he wont let me hear him talk to her. he talked to her one night after we had sex

2006-10-13 03:45:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have female input from another site-now I want to hear from men.

Say you did something great at work and your wife was proud of you and wanted to make a special dinner: crabs, shrimp and crawfish.

Standard table setting for this dinner is newspaper, crab crackers and a big pile of seafood in the middle (plates and butter of course).

You have this kind of dinner once a month or so - it's just a dinner to re-connect. It's leisurely, so you can talk - really talk. Crabs take a long time to eat, so it's usually a great convo.

For whatever reason you don't really want to have this dinner, but when you see your wife is disappointed, you insist that the dinner go ahead.

When you are done eating, you walk away to get started cleaning up. Your wife or SO is still eating and having some wine. You bring a Hefty bag to the table to start clearing up.

1. Are you surprised when your wife/SO gets pissed and 2. do you personally do this - lv the tbl b4 SO/wife is done?

2006-10-13 03:41:44 · 12 answers · asked by tagi_65 5