I have a great wife... We only have issues in the sack... she says she is happy and attacks me BUT her oral skills lack... She attempts but not good... gags increidbly easily... and has never been able to finish me. I am not huge a little over 7 only... any advice on how coach her or just make it better? Thanks!
2006-10-13 05:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by Confused C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if she is gagging then there is nothing you can really do about it. She doesn't have to go "all the way down on it" to make it feel good. She can stay further up and use her hand and some lube on the bottom part and use her mouth on the top!!
2006-10-13 05:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by CMA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm adult novelty counselor....I host fun and educational parties for women and couples. Now the problem that you are stating about your wife is very common. When performing oral sex, women have to relax their throat muscles and just relax and take their time. It something that will happen over time, it's a process but you have to be patient and EXPLAIN to her what feels good to you. You may have to demonstrate to her...using her fingers in your mouth...so she understands the sensation you are receiving. By the way, there are products the help the gagging reflexes while performing oral sex. You can check out my company's website www.tantalizingproductions.com for similar products...Tip: Good Head Gel is wonderful for this problem.
2006-10-13 12:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by teaspoon520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get a porno porno. Get one of those educational videos that help with oral for both men and women. That way she won't be repulsed by raunchy porn, and she won't feel like she is being "attacked" as the one without the skills in the sack. Good luck.
2006-10-13 12:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my dear, this is really a double edged sword, IF she is openminded enough to sit and talk with you and not get totally pissed off cuz u think she's not good at it, then go to an adult store or online and find educational porno, yea it really exists!
Watch with her and practice, there are tips for you to on oral as well.
Make it a horny lesson together and all will workout.
If she isn't openminded enough, then just get over it and learn to live w/o it.
2006-10-13 12:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by jelli_bean_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take turns telling/showing her and practice,perhaps her experience lacks?Explain she can lick it,kiss it,use her hand changing rythmns and speeds while sucking the head or you touch the base while she does the head and balls.Be patient and return the favor :) goodluck
2006-10-13 12:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some videos, look one any adult store website, they will have quite a few.
2006-10-13 12:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by mariajd3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is...it sucks for u....sum gurls r just like that
2006-10-13 12:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy porn vodeos and watch them together. That will help her alot!
2006-10-13 12:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG.......is THIS your ONLY PROBLEM???????????
2006-10-13 12:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋