Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2006

I am a divorced mom of a wonderful 3 yr. old girl and couldn't imagine life without here. She is an absolute joy to have around and is always making me laugh with the crazy things she comes up with. The problem is... I feel guilty about sometimes missing my single childless days when I could come and go as I please. I feel just aweful for feeling this way, but the feelings come and go at certain times. I sometimes envy my friends when they are able to sleep in or go out at nights with no planning or notice.

Is this a normal feeling or am I being selfish in my emotions. This is the first time I have been a single mom and this is all still a little new to me. I have been divorced for a little over a year. Any suggestions would be great...thanks.

2006-10-13 02:30:16 · 22 answers · asked by tiggers123 2

If he is overweight????/and he dont want to accept it??????do you think fat affect sex I think it does...

2006-10-13 02:24:08 · 19 answers · asked by haki 5

Married 13+ years. He recently lost his job of 8 years and has NOT been looking for another one AT ALL. He watches TV all day, maybe tinkers with things. He's also an alcoholic. He's not violent, just goofy and forgetful when he's drinking. Also, the affection is about nill. It seems that it's become a birthday present for me the last 3 years. Yes, annually is ALL. We have a teenage daughter, too. I just want to be happy again.

2006-10-13 02:18:42 · 17 answers · asked by ? 6

I'm married with two wonderful teenagers. My wife is hard working, intelligent, very good with money and the kids...everything one should want. And yet, I dream of being on my own away from her. It makes me cringe everytime she says "I love you". I hate it when she snuggles up to me. She needs so much more than I can give. I'm just so indifferent to her, and I dream all the time of being free. Not walking away from my kids, but just her. There are so many things I want to do in life and none of them involve her. In fact, it always feels like she is intruding on my life and I get so resentful. I even resent that she wants to spend time with me. Are these feelings common? Is this what marriage is about? I'm just so tired by trying to be someone I'm not. I get so depressed. Someone tell me if I should just be sucking it up and making the best of this, or if this is a sign I should be looking to move on.

2006-10-13 02:16:37 · 13 answers · asked by hopeful 1

My son lives with his father because his always been a daddy's boy and his grandparents spoil him, noone can fathom why I would let my first born live their?

2006-10-13 02:14:59 · 20 answers · asked by csaw3 2

I found out my husband knew this girl for 2years, they talked on the phone. They both say they never had sex. she said the kissed once, he said she kissed him, and he told her to never do that again. I asked him to take a lie detector, Is that aking too much?

2006-10-13 02:08:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 02:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long have you been married and what has made you and your spouse happy? What is the single most important thing that you share?

2006-10-13 02:06:09 · 11 answers · asked by a_delphic_oracle 6

I don't am consider myself as good a person if not better than most reliogious people. I believe that a religion that says thou shall not kill and in the same breath almost, says that all is forgiven just doesn't amke sense to me.

I should mention that I'm happily married for 9 years. Never cheated on my wife and I turned down a promotion to have more time for my wife and son.

No looks for any kind of justification honestly trying to see just how important this belief is to most.

2006-10-13 01:58:08 · 23 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

Is there anything I can do about my son's mother telling my son to call her boyfriend "Daddy"?

2006-10-13 01:29:18 · 15 answers · asked by Lori W 2

My boyfriend and I have been living together now for over a year, we just bought a house and two puppies. Now the school year has started so he's teaching again full time and coaching the high school hockey team, and playing ice hockey and indoor hockey. Long story short, he's NEVER home. And when he is home, he's exhausted and just wants to watch TV of play hockey on his nintendo-thingy. Lately I feel more like a live-in maid then a romantic partener and I'm seriously considering if our life styles are compatible. Should I stay, or should I go?

2006-10-13 01:27:57 · 15 answers · asked by Amy227 2

The house is in both their names, there are two kids from her previous relationship aswell. can she make him leave the house and were does he stand financially, does he still have to pay the mortgage and give her money for his two kids etc.

2006-10-13 01:21:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 00:27:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been divorced about two and a half years now and I feel it is time to get rid of that name. Can I just revert back to my maiden name, or is there someone I have to inform or ask permission. I would be grateful for any advice.

2006-10-13 00:26:46 · 22 answers · asked by harry sp 1

I know that women attracted dominant, unpredictable, uncontrolable, chalenging man. Nice guys generally do not have these qualities. So women do not feel attracted to them.
I want to know that after arranged marriage weither a nice guys can get love from her wife or not ?

2006-10-13 00:25:27 · 4 answers · asked by Bluelover 2

2006-10-13 00:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous