Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2006

when the house need's decorating it's our house and when the divorce come's it's " you' r not getting your hand's on my house " !

2006-10-14 23:57:35 · 14 answers · asked by nicemanvery 7

Cause it seems everyone chooses to cheat cause "they still love " whoever it is they're cheatin on, when in essence if you need somebody else to satisfy you then you DON'T love them..and probably only being satisfied in the manner a friend would....so why be the *****/hoe, homewrecker, blah blah, get labeled as the bad guy/girl, and just kick homey or homegirl to the curb and THEN go release your energy? Cause if you're afraid that person will be hurt, or they'll hate you...WELL **** they'll hate you even more if you cheated, and it's obvious if you gotta cheat you ain't really feelin that guy/girl 100%, so why pretend and get into more drama. (if you're a drama queen, well...i understand...but for those that aren't....dammit.). I'm just curious.

2006-10-14 23:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by Dennis 6

2006-10-14 23:16:44 · 22 answers · asked by Calvin James Hammer 6

He is 37 and I 55.

2006-10-14 23:08:39 · 18 answers · asked by teicr 1

My boyfriend is 32. he has been going thru his divorce for over a year. His parents never liked his ex wife they thought she was worthless and ruined their sons life. The ex does not like me of course and calls my boyfriend parents every week to tell them bad things the kids told her about me or us. all lies, or how she wants more money to buy clothes...she treats them like they are still her inlaws. to make matters worse for us my boyfriend parents agree with what the ex says and push thir son to give her money when she wants it. they dont argue the bad things said about us. why? because they do not want to make her mad because she might take the visiting rights of the grandkids away from them....she has signed the divorce papers but it is not final yet because she will not take the parenting class (allways an excuse). I am tired of tiptoeing around the kids because the ex gets jealous of our new life together. I am proud of our life. any suggestions?

2006-10-14 23:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by mnm4213 2

2006-10-14 22:56:34 · 43 answers · asked by crazybex2006 4

im momentarily broke, no job, but i can get money but its limited.

2006-10-14 22:51:05 · 7 answers · asked by Bigg Micc 2

2006-10-14 22:48:47 · 22 answers · asked by kate12 1

Time after time he tells me I can trust him, and time after time he lies. I want to leave but I have no one to go to and no courage to do it. Everything I get is from him. I'm not working, I have a child who needs to be taken into concideration too. What I would LOVE to do is move away completely but I don't know how, or, where to start. He plays with my mind...telling me things then taking it back either saying he 'didn't say that' or 'that's not what he meant'. Changing his story over and over. Can anyone tell me what I need to do to move away.....PLEASE.

2006-10-14 22:39:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are ment to get married in 9 weeks but i am having doubts. I know he loves me but in his worls there is no such thing as 50 50 and it is driving me nuts

2006-10-14 22:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by omissy2005 3

2006-10-14 21:47:53 · 14 answers · asked by Tannas 3

me and my love decided to start planning for our wedding in December 2006 , but today he told me we will start this in december 2007 , i'm counting the days till december 2006 come and now i have to wait for more than a year . how can i cheer up ?

2006-10-14 21:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by honeylol 1

we have just got engaged last month but wana marry next year ? i thing she is very younger and it may make problems? when i become old she will be younger?

2006-10-14 21:36:46 · 34 answers · asked by Honest 1

I have a question. What traps do you women set to get us guys whipped. I want to know what they are so I can recognize them, and avoid them before its too late!!!!

2006-10-14 21:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

And why does he find it funny?

2006-10-14 21:31:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife and I are always getting into arguments over little things?
I can't seem to get her to talk to me in a civil manner, even when I just say good morning it starts a fight? is there any hope or are we doomed?

2006-10-14 21:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband go out twice a week with his friend and come home after mid night.I cann't tolerat this kind of act. I belive a marrid man shouldn't act like this.I have decided to divorce him.Pease advice.

2006-10-14 21:07:17 · 21 answers · asked by Baby 2

I have been married for 5 years and this is an ongoing problem.Last year we had sex 3 times each session was 2-5 mins long. Now this year is only twice.He says he can't get his mind off work to get into and find sex gross.Though he masterbates daily.I have gone through this for years and am at my piont I want to leave.He said he knows he has a problem but won't seek help even though it is riuning are relationship.Oral sex is non existant he never lets me do it him.I don't know what to do.I want to leave but feel i am being unfair.After 4 yrs I have no more tears to cry.

2006-10-14 21:06:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Four months ago I discovered that my husband of five years had an affair. It crushed me. It was a total schock and I am still wondering why it happened. Since the discovery, he is a changed man. He is extremely attentive, very loving and considerate, and pretty much the dream husband. My problem is that I can't let the affair go. Everything reminds me of it. I wonder what went through his mind as he ventured out to act out his deceit. Not only once, but three differnent times. We have two beautiful daughters together. We went to the zoo today and the road signs on the way home reminded me of a time that he had met up with his mistress in the same area the zoo is located. It sent me back to the pain and anger I felt four months ago when I first discovered the affair. I am a forgiving person, but I seem to be obsessing over this one. I need an outsider point of view.

2006-10-14 20:58:26 · 25 answers · asked by LadyLee 1

Im having our first son... My husband and I have been married for a year and Im due in three weeks... He is 19 and Im 20.
For 2 months now Ive been trying to get him prepared for the baby.. we both have jobs and a apartment. BUT his priority is hanging out with friends, playing his music, and partying.. while Ive grown up and started preparing for our future.
I became extremely angry because he informed me that he isnt ready emotionally, and that he felt dead inside. BUT his top priority is his new family. I told him to grow up and be a man because Id leave him if I felt he couldnt care for his son.
Our latest arguement was that him and a male friend of his and 2 female friends that he knew in high school were going to a drag show.. I went along to be apart of something fun but instead I was the 5 wheel! One of the girls even sat in his lap during the show! He doesnt see anything wrong with that because its a friend from high school... is it okay that a girl sat in his lap?

2006-10-14 20:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by Debbie C 1

I just found out that my husband has for the past 2 months been paying a monthly fee for all the uncensored porn he can watch over the internet. We don't have the best sex life in the world and he's had a few problems performing lately. I am so disgusted and I'm having nightmares about the horrible graphic images that filled the screen when I accidentally went to it. I'm not sure I can even talk about it with him because I'm so upset that I'll say a lot of regrettable things. What should I do?

2006-10-14 20:45:11 · 17 answers · asked by Raerae 1

This is geared towards people who lost their virginity before marriage. What made your wedding night special? And to people who stayed virgins till marriage do you think it is as special for those who are not as those that are? For people where one person was and one person wasn't has it caused any rifts in your relationship like one person being jealous that they weren't the other's first or does one regret loosing their virginity and not waiting? No real reason to ask this question I was just talking about it with a friend and wanted to know what other people think.

2006-10-14 20:43:23 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah S 2

2006-10-14 20:28:31 · 8 answers · asked by Polash 2

if i travel to india to marry my india native boyfriend,will i lose my u.s. citizenship,and never be able to come back to the u.s.?

2006-10-14 20:13:54 · 24 answers · asked by curious1 3

I have been married 5 years and hate myself and anything to do with my body image. I just dont believe it if my husband says he loves me when I feel like a disgusting pig while we are intimate... (I was 130lbs, athletic, and 5'7" now I am over 200lbs)

2006-10-14 20:13:08 · 21 answers · asked by Jessy 5

im in love with my borfriend and i want to marry him. weve talked about marriage but he always says he wants to get married later on once he gets money and finishes college. i want to marry him now and get money together and finish college together. i know i cant make someone marry him and i dont want to try to do that but what can i do to prove to him that i want to marry him and that i am the one for him and i can be a wonderful wife. we have been together for almost 6 years...

2006-10-14 20:09:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hear alot of young girls say that guy got me pregnant. Why do women do this if they also could have protected them selves from pregnacy .....buy condoms make sure he wears one. birth control ....some one please explain this to me........I just do not understand why people always blame the man.

2006-10-14 20:07:03 · 24 answers · asked by mystic_rage879 2

My mom is inviting me and my wife up to her house next week for about 5 days. I'm going to be sleeping in my old bed which is also her bed (we shared the same room and bed when i was growing up) Well, its a King Size bed so I think there will be plenty of room for my wife as well but I don't want to ask mom if would be okay without a really good chance she would say yes. You know mom's can get kind of jealous and all.

2006-10-14 20:03:13 · 9 answers · asked by Lucky L 1

I am doing a school project of Applied Ethics & the topic is "What Is LOVE?"

May I have full details of LOVE (no crap answers & websites thank you) please as this project is quite important to me as it takes 30% of my GPA marks, thank you

2006-10-14 19:53:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont want it at all. He looks at porn lots, and doesnt care what I think about it, so whatever.
I dont want to have sex with him but he still wants to have sex with me, I told him to get it elsewhere or find someone that can suit his needs...he tells me to ***** off...I think we should end it.

2006-10-14 19:47:31 · 19 answers · asked by navin 1