communication breakdown we just cant talk?

Question

my wife and I are always getting into arguments over little things?
I can't seem to get her to talk to me in a civil manner, even when I just say good morning it starts a fight? is there any hope or are we doomed?

Answer 1

There is always hope. I think maybe you should take her out to dinner or somewhere romantic and then sit and have a nice night and hopefully talk out alot of your problems. Sometimes just a bit of time away for awhile preferable over night if you can is always a huge help getting away from home and can talk privately without the kids if any and phone ringing no interruptions.

Answer 2

She is probably pissed at you over many things over the weeks, months or years, which is why she snaps at you over every little thing. You say good morning, she might be thinking, Ya, and where were you last nite or yeah, finally up after I have done the laundry, washed the dishes and made u breakfast! or something to that extent.

So if you wanna save your marriage, try this:

Get up before her, make her breakfast, do the washing up, and greet her good morning.

For the night, Go home immediately after work, do the laundry, greet her when she returns from work and offer her a massage.

Repeat for the next 30 years of marriage.

PS: Should you want to have a nite out with the boys, do let her know and go home at a decent time.

Should you do this everyday and she still snaps at you, then yes, it's doomed. But I project she would be really nice to you in return, and you'll have a great marriage. Enjoy it.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Maybe you should see a marriage counselor, sounds like something is bothering her. Also depending on age she might be going through her life change. Try making a special night. A movie followed by a nice dinner. Make her feel loved, sounds like she may need a lift in spirits. After the nice night sit down and try to talk about your relationship.

Answer 5

Hmmm....sounds serious! Maybe you two have drifted apart and need more physical contact.
Try being more affectionate to each other without words. Both of you agree to do this for a couple of weeks and leave notes for each other. Only nice notes!! Take walks and hold hands and smile at each other without talking. Give it a try. ;) Destress yourselves and think of the little things. Peace and tranquility! Good luck dear!

Answer 6

Hi there maybe marriage counseling would be the best bet. Sometimes talking in front of a stranger and getting there opinion helps. it also in most cases brings out some inside emotional problems that your partner may be having and she doesn't know how to bring them forward to you.You may get a lot of answers on this topic but the truth is we don't know you or your circumstances.
best wishes

Answer 7

I'm going to be honest with you.....yes you are doomed. If she is acting that way then something is very wrong. Maybe it was your actions. Do you spend time with her? If you are always going and not home then she is probably supressing anger and it comes out in everyday things.

Answer 8

Hmmm, this type of behavior usually revolves around the lack of money. Figure that out and you will solve your problems.

Answer 9

you guys might just need some time apart or maybe you should just have sex everytime b4 you guys get into an arguement like at the beginnning

Answer 10

sounds like you 2 are growing apart, more distant. Marriage concealing will help sort thing out.