I hear alot of young girls say that guy got me pregnant. Why do women do this if they also could have protected them selves from pregnacy .....buy condoms make sure he wears one. birth control ....some one please explain this to me........I just do not understand why people always blame the man.
2006-10-14 20:07:03 · 24 answers · asked by mystic_rage879 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Jessica M....
I am a married mother of four. I know what it is like to be pregnant. I also know that if i did not want a baby i would have protected myself. Unlike most women who assume it is the mans job. I am not asking about the after the baby is born because once your pregnant you had a choice to get pregnant or not to have sex or not thats what i am saying. We as women should protect our own bodies and take responablity for sleeping with the dead beat in the first place if you know he is a iresposable guy to began with then why not protect your self before laying down with him.
2006-10-14 20:38:44 · update #1
well, blaming other is always a human nature way of saying I don't want to blame myself for being stupid... Beside, when you are stressed out being preganant.. you start to worry about your body will change due to child birth, the pain, the taking care of the baby and also to loose the freedom.. The stress somehow do clouded your judgement that "it takes 2 to make a baby".. not talking about seman insemination here.. hehehe
2006-10-14 20:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by tdbhc33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live that people always "blame the man"?
At any rate, if you are a woman...and have ever been pregnant then you would know why...being pregnant isn't "fun". So, yeah, it is only the "man" that can get you pregnant. Yes the woman laid down in bed with him (or wherever) but like you said...she didn't do it on her own. (at least in this case) So compute hormones, getting fatter in a society where even when you are pregnant you are looked down upon for being "overweight", and always being exhausted from creating a new wonderful life in side of you that you know that "the man" will not be as connected to as the mother meaning that "the man" has a greater likelihood to turning into a deadbeat dad and not holding any responsibility to the child leaving the woman to be a single mom who wants to provide everything for her child as well as a lifetime of guilt because one woman cannot be a mom and a dad to a child who will later on not understand why his or her father isn't around. What do you think?
2006-10-14 20:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jessy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In fact people don't always blame the man ....they get only blamed , if they got a woman pregnant and don't stand to their responsibilities... ;-)
Usually women have the big belly, the pain and all the work after giving birth, or not ? So I thinks guys can do their part, too...
2006-10-14 20:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer asserting that that's impossible that the youngster is yours yet, a paternity attempt is a great theory. If she lied to assert she replaced into on delivery administration, what makes you think of she wouldnt lie and say the child is yours. If she is loopy sufficient to think of this might "seize" you she is loopy sufficient to lie approximately even particularly being pregnant. there is in basic terms a pair of 20% probability of having pregnant each and each cycle besides so i might say she have been given fairly fortunate to have stopped b/c and gotten pregnant on HER first attempt. It takes maximum women human beings a year earlier they might get pregnant after b/c. in basic terms trashy warped women (notice I didnt say women human beings) get pregnant to seize a guy, no longer frequent human beings. stay your life, if the youngster is yours pay newborn help and don't have something to do w/ her. i think of we are in a position to anticipate you would be "wrapping it up" no count what any further! solid success!
2016-12-26 19:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even worse are the same girls who go on Maury for a DNA test with about 5 guys in question to find out who the "guilty" one is.
2006-10-14 20:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by infernal_seamonkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct. I couldn't agree more. It's the same regarding getting a disease, that kind. I suppose the girls just try to make themselves feel better. Sometimes, I could just hit myself in the head, but it wouldn't do any good NOW!
2006-10-14 20:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually they are irresponsible, selfish b.itches!!- but truthfully, it is usually because: the guy convinced her they didn't need a condom, he didn't use it properley, said he was infertile (Yippee! Who would want another one like him you need to look after??!), he has cheated on her and she feels mad and used, regrets it if she did it on purpose OR/And they don't give a Ar.se and will refuse to be supportive for her pain, looks and caring (which man IS, anyway??!)!
Btw, VERY true "srhysc"!
2006-10-14 20:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most women get mad because, after they find out about it, the man seems to shy away, and won't except responsibility.
2006-10-14 20:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have to carry the weight, do all the preparation & work, plus give birth. While the man does virtually zero.
2006-10-14 20:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by BeloyeMore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you a chick? I thought all of you were on the same team. The others hear you talking weird sh*t like this and you will be blackballed from the club.
2006-10-14 20:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋