Marriage & Divorce - 18 October 2006

what do you honestly think is the criteria for a good husband?

2006-10-18 23:47:43 · 24 answers · asked by Submission 3

Should we marry a girl older then us ? What are the advantages and Disadvantages of marrying a girl order then man ?

2006-10-18 23:47:13 · 10 answers · asked by bmdayal 2

Marriage seems to be a cliche, but that's what I am facing in a debate.
I would like to know if there are any celebraties or famous people who have children without a marriage, but they still have a happy family.
Actually, I would like to prove that marriage is not necessary for a happy family.
Thanks for helping

2006-10-18 23:31:37 · 9 answers · asked by granger 1

after a 2 yr courtship that had many lies about my guys activity with other women, strippers and porn (which I like also, but not when he sits in front of the computer and gets himself off and our sex life is next door to non existant) Anyway, I married him 3 months ago, and I have moved to another country to support him and his job. since the marriage, and on the honey moon, he continued to get my name wrong in bed. now, I find out that he is coming home from work and sitting in front of the computer again and like a child scared of his mother, deleting the history, lying to me about what he has been up to (c'mon now, what adult hasnt - i understand this part, but not the content of the videos, either really, really young (as in portrayed to be 13-14)or up the ass stuff anyhow, that leaves him very 'uneventful' for me. Long story short he has been caught in approx 40 differnt lies to me, i think 10-20 have been since the wedding. what should I do?

2006-10-18 23:29:12 · 22 answers · asked by Calli 1

2006-10-18 23:07:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should be the things or happenings amongs lovers ,they are loving each other and ready to marry each other but problem is they have to wait for three years to get married bacause of some family reason or career settlements,
so what should they do to make and continue this love more reliable till they get married?

2006-10-18 23:03:16 · 14 answers · asked by pankaj k 1

I know the word moon stands for month. Does that mean honey moo is one month?

2006-10-18 23:02:04 · 8 answers · asked by A O 2

So I'm only 18, and I'm in my freshman year of college. I'm with an amazing bf that I honestly love with all my heart, and he's all I could ever ask for in a man. He's 20 and loves me right back.We both feel the same way about eachother and im with him 24/7....I want to be married to him in the next 2 yrs....If he asked me tomorrow I'd say yes! My friends think Im insane and I've actually lost a couple of them....Why is this so strange? Should I not feel like I should be settling down? Please no mean answers I'm torn up about this! thanks for reading...

2006-10-18 22:57:05 · 16 answers · asked by ..plumeria..princess.. 1

HOW HAPPY IS LIFE WITHOUT A GIRLFRIEND


Reasons why LIFE without a Girl Friend is cool

1. You can stare at any Girl.......

2. You don't have to spend money on her.

3. You won't get boring result in ur board papers.

4. No girlfriend, no emotional blackmailing.

5. If u don't have a girlfriend, she can't dump u.

6. Having a girlfriend is hot, not having a girlfriend is automatically cool, and every one loves to be a cool guy.

7. This can be more to life than just waiting for the bloody phone to ring.

8. You won't have to tolerate someone else defining, "right" and "wrong" for u.

9. Girlfriend can get so possessive that you can't do anything according ur wishes anymore.

10. You can buy gifts for mom, dad, sis or grandpa instead of a girlfriend and have a happier family life.

11. You won't have to waste paper writing love letters. No more endless waiting for ur date to arrive at some weird shop place.

12. You can have more friends, as u will have more time for them.

13. You wont have to see boring love stories instead of sports.

14. You wont have to tell lie to anybody and, therefore, u'll sin less.

15. You can have good night's sleep-no need to dream about her.

16. You wont have to fight over having a 'special' friend with ur folks.

17. No nonstop nonsense.

18. You wont have drown in the pool of her tears.

19. No tension.

20. You can be "urself"

21. You wont have to hide your telephone bills......




So Try to AVOID Girl Friends in your Life...!. and so do I.

2006-10-18 22:45:58 · 12 answers · asked by ashok kumar 3

what is the criteria for a good wife?

if you feel it applies to your expectation.... note your religion or culture...

2006-10-18 22:40:16 · 8 answers · asked by Submission 3

i m a single girl and krishan is married man but he wants to devorce with his wife. and he is not living with his wife for three years

2006-10-18 22:38:51 · 16 answers · asked by maddy 1

to keep you interested in the woman your with without wanting to or cheating on your girl? Would more head also keep you interested? Please explain...honestly.

2006-10-18 22:29:58 · 14 answers · asked by jakkibluu 4

What makes a good husband? What do they do for their women that makes them worth it?
And if the women is pregnant with his child what is expected of a real husband and father?

2006-10-18 22:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah C 2

2006-10-18 21:55:17 · 18 answers · asked by peaches 1

She was an almost girlfriend in high school, and he hadnt seen her in alomst a year.. my Husbands friend started bringing her around the house in the last week. In only a week he fell for her. He left me at home sleeping to go tell her that he had feelings for her and she shared them and that he was confused... I dont know the truth only what he finally told me.. He went to her, walked with her, and held her hand. I can only pray that thats all it was but he left at 11am and didnt come back until 3pm. He says he told her that they couldnt be together and just wanted to be friends. He said he likes her but loves me. He says he loves me and Silas our unborn son. This is the same girl that has been invited over to my apartment on several different accounts to "hang out" while Im at work for 10 hours every night where I cant leave. He even invited her over after he supposedly told her that it wouldnt work. Let me remind you all that I am 81/2 months pregnant...

2006-10-18 21:54:11 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah C 2

2006-10-18 21:53:46 · 4 answers · asked by wondering 4

i really need somebody for my aunt who has been widowed for a year now, but they have been separated for almost 15 years. i know she dont wanna grow old alone. i need somebody who is decent. if you cant recommend someone, at least tell me how to look for candidates. i have posted a question about this, but it seems everyone is of no help. shes from the philippines, a very decent woman, she has been the Floor Manager of Holiday Inn Manila for so many years until the hotel closed. for now, she worked in a overseas employment agency. she is in her early 50's now. i am dead serious. pls help.

2006-10-18 21:45:58 · 6 answers · asked by mhyjan 1

My husband of 22 years is apparently going through a middlelife crises, he excersice alot and he keeps repeating that he has to have a blonde at least once in his life, he said that if he tells me about it then it is not cheating because he gave me notice.
I am going crazy, i feel pain and don't know what to do, I dont want to ruin my marriage due to his fantacies, we have 2 children and a good life.
I dont know how to explain to him that I feel bad around him when he starts with stupid jokes about me and his wish for a blonde because he wont listen, he thinks its funny.
any suggestions?

2006-10-18 21:45:17 · 16 answers · asked by cholilagros 2

2006-10-18 21:43:44 · 6 answers · asked by Maddy 1

Would you start an affair with a married man while:
- his wife is dying in hospital from terminal illness;
- he has 12 1/2 year old daugher;
- he was your student in language clases;
- he is paying your rent, send you on all expenses paid overseas trip; pays for his designer clothes; dentist etc., etc
- same time he refuses to provide for his wife;
- he was with his wife for 17 years.

Please tell me would you do it? If you were the husband? If you were the mistress? If you were the wife - what would you do?

2006-10-18 21:42:37 · 11 answers · asked by Angel Girl 7

he tried to deny it and got really embarassed, his sexual fantasies include men, i believe he is bi- curious but he said its just a joke and wanted to see my reaction, but when we get intimate he talks about having sex with men!! shall i let him have his fantasies or leave him??

2006-10-18 21:30:14 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, me and him havent been going out long, in all technicalities. But we have known eachother for 2 years maybe and liked eachother ever since but never could get togeather because he had lived a couple states away. Now he is here and we are more in love than ever. I would do anything for him, and DO see myself marrying him one day, marriage right now would be like suicide [ Im only 14! ]
I've told him that I want to marry him and he actually cried which I found so amazingly sweet.
But anyways, Im afraid that he will propose or something and it would break his heart, and mine, for me to say no.. I just dont know how to say that we need to wait a couple years before we get married.. these things cant be rushed and we are still kids!

I have told his twin sis this and she suggested that if he proposed and I was 100% postivie that I saw myself marrying him then I should say yes but on the condition that he knows it wont happen until we are atleast 18.

Should I take her advise?

2006-10-18 21:19:07 · 21 answers · asked by Nicole P 1

Typically at what age do American people get merried?And make first love?

2006-10-18 21:15:23 · 7 answers · asked by Spring 1

It's not clear cut case of cheating cause the spouse knows the other is dating and they are not living together anymore. Please explain your opinion.

2006-10-18 21:10:18 · 22 answers · asked by wondering 4

2006-10-18 20:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in a new country with different culture. im in high school and im in year 12. the guy i like has broken my heart, i miss my family and all my friends ,im homesick all the time, i cant get used to the new environment eventho it has been 8 months, plus im hurt and disppointed and find it hard to trust anyone again, i know i should be concentrating on my study cuz im in year 12 and i have hsc next year. but im just stressed and depressed..will it ever be ok again?

2006-10-18 20:56:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

its killing me becuz im madly in love with him ive tried talking to him and tried picking certain days it will just b just me and him but it doesnt work i love him so much and i miss him every minute his away im so in love with him i want his time and company so much and no one elses im no one with out him im miserable without him i cant eat sleep or fucntion without him and its killing me every second hes away from me i dont know what to do ive tried everything i love and care about him so much i am madly in love with this man and its eating away my heart how he can just go and spend all his time with his friends and ignore me when im at home with him he was never like this at first its like hes a different man now but i know deep down inside he loves me and cares i dont know what to do i cant leave him he is my world my all my life my heart my soul my rib my everything

2006-10-18 20:55:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stituation: (pls refer my history on last question i asked)
Every document of DIVORCE signed including all property and kids. She's got china guy (penpal) and going to china after divorced. Now waiting time to court then Complete. Sometimes i do, thinking of her and our happy memories Including with my kids around. Even though my heart on her already broken but i still love her because i already love her for 8 years.
my question:
1. i been thinking to find a new partner but... is this the right time?
2. i'm 35 years old now. What kinds of partner should i choose?
- mature enough to take care my kids?
- mature enough for lovers?
- not mature means young girl?
3. Am i seriously need a partner?
A. Just for my heart emptiness?
B. Just for Temporary lovers?
C. Just for My kids needs? (a mother love)
D. Just for My extra time, when i'm alone?
E. Just for ......
Please give me advise ---> i really confusing what's my need..
When & how?

2006-10-18 20:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by peter71 3

Even though my girlfriend has been married to someone else and won't divorce him.. We have together for 5 years and she has been married to him for 15 years

2006-10-18 20:29:41 · 29 answers · asked by cockednlocked38 1

wants to propose to you, or is considering marriage?!?!?!

I really need help. My boyfriend didnt ask me to marry him, but he said that he wanted us to get married after he got better from an infection in his sinuses. How do i know that he wants to propose or is considering marriage?!?! & second of all how do i know if hes doing it because he wants to?!?

2006-10-18 20:26:24 · 11 answers · asked by diana li 2