My stituation: (pls refer my history on last question i asked)
Every document of DIVORCE signed including all property and kids. She's got china guy (penpal) and going to china after divorced. Now waiting time to court then Complete. Sometimes i do, thinking of her and our happy memories Including with my kids around. Even though my heart on her already broken but i still love her because i already love her for 8 years.
my question:
1. i been thinking to find a new partner but... is this the right time?
2. i'm 35 years old now. What kinds of partner should i choose?
- mature enough to take care my kids?
- mature enough for lovers?
- not mature means young girl?
3. Am i seriously need a partner?
A. Just for my heart emptiness?
B. Just for Temporary lovers?
C. Just for My kids needs? (a mother love)
D. Just for My extra time, when i'm alone?
E. Just for ......
Please give me advise ---> i really confusing what's my need..
When & how?
2006-10-18 20:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by peter71 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well for one you said you still love her if you cant work things out with her then i think you should wait a while, spend time with your kids and clear your head and heart first,,,,, dint replace another female for a temporary lover and then hurt that person feeling second not suppose to find a female for your kids needing a mother,, after kids gone you still going to love her , you marriage a person cause you love them not for some one else, clear your thoughts n heart and take time with your kids first,, when you find the right person you will know,
2006-10-18 20:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by yellowstar61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not rush into another relationship or you may regret the outcome or worst then what you had before.
Wait and be patient and time will come. You are matured enough. one fine day you will meet the right person who will take care of you and your kids. It not going to be easy as most women will look for single guys as no one wants a ready made family.
Good Luck
2006-10-19 03:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really need to ask for the opinion of strangers, then you probably aren't ready. Perhaps you want to be ready, but it doesn't sound like you are yet. As for what you are looking for, only you can answer that. If you are looking for a serious relationship, then you need to consider everything, how mature they are, how you get along, how they get along with your kids, if they have kids, etc. If you are looking for a fling, then keep your kids out of it and find someone you can spent a good time with. You also need to be looking for someone who is looking for what you are looking for.
2006-10-19 03:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you ready
2006-10-19 03:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋