So I'm only 18, and I'm in my freshman year of college. I'm with an amazing bf that I honestly love with all my heart, and he's all I could ever ask for in a man. He's 20 and loves me right back.We both feel the same way about eachother and im with him 24/7....I want to be married to him in the next 2 yrs....If he asked me tomorrow I'd say yes! My friends think Im insane and I've actually lost a couple of them....Why is this so strange? Should I not feel like I should be settling down? Please no mean answers I'm torn up about this! thanks for reading...
2006-10-18 22:57:05 · 16 answers · asked by ..plumeria..princess.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe I should have clarified better....in the next 2 years, WHICH, for those who don't comprehend, means when I'm done with my A.A....I'm hearing the same things from some of you as I did from friends... " Live your life first", " You're too young" welllll I think those are both bs answers BECAUSE what good is life with no one to share it with???? and YES, I am very young, BUT, does that mean I'm a statistic? shove your STATS up my ***....
2006-10-18 23:18:58 · update #1
what kind of true friend turns their back on a true friend? what's to be torn up about? you have a good man/friend/companion by your side, what more do you need? anyways best of luck to the two of you, and also in about another ten years or so if you can say to yourself you have about 5 real friends in the world be thankful, I have had a lot of "friends" come and go in my lifetime, don't concern yourself with the ones that aren't going to be around for your wedding, be yourself and be happy, nothing wrong or strange with that at all
2006-10-18 23:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, 18 F and wants to settle down is not strange at all,
I would suggest you slow down a little. The things you feel would make a perfect life will change drastically by the time you are 20 and working for a living. I am not saying drop your BF, just keep an open mind!
2006-10-19 06:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Beckie E,
I personally think you are to young & statics would agree with me.
People that marry at a young age are twice as likely to be divorced, it's not like when your grandparents wed back in the day, You didn't mention how long you've been together? You haven't experienced life or finished college! A better question is have you talked with your parents about this yet? Have you gotten there views? If your friends have lost contact with you they probably really weren't your true friends to begin with. LQQk you have your whole future ahead of you. I'd reconsidered marriage for awhile. Good luck in your decision!
2006-10-19 06:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by dousmokedoobies69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in two years you will know if your still togeather and still having the feelings your having now. i would recommend you live togeather a little while before you get married just so you know if your compatiable enough and can stand his bad habits. Just consider that this is a life long commitment do you see your self thirty years down the road with this man? Do you want to raise kids with this man? Marriage is the hardest job you will ever take on but if its for love then its worth it. If your friends can not veiw their opinions to you but support your views too then they are not worth having. Maybe they are just jelious. Good luck
2006-10-19 06:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by mistiful2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is BLIND. it makes you fell like the way u r feeling, and its such a fantastic feeling, a top of the world feeling, as if you are on cloud 9. so just enjoy the feeling right now, see if you feel this way after a month or two. if you do then go ahead and marry him.
marry young and you can both live life together and know each other better and be ready to adjust with each other
if you marry later, then you will not feel like adjusting or compromise your way of living for anyone, and neither will he. so go ahead and marry him. IF YOU REALLY LOVE.
U R CERTAINLY NOT STRANGE.
2006-10-19 06:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by livelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are so young it is your hormones talking .
With time, your head and heart catch up .
Down the road of life ,there are many obstacles and turns, you both must experience .One of you will react differently and then you will see who you both really are.
Temptation is all around both of you and it is likely one will give in to it .
How really would you react to an affair ,abuse ,or alcoholism .
These are serious things people experience everyday.
Think and let time ( more than 2 years ) wise you up .
2006-10-19 06:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you not strange, I fell in love with my hubby when I was 18 and married him 2 years later, and we still in love after 7 yers of marriage.
2006-10-19 06:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by happydial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are far too young for marriage...go out and experience a lot more of what life has to offer...then consider settling down...he can be your boyfriend for 5 or 10 more years if it's meant to be...don't let yourself become just another divorce statistic
2006-10-19 06:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u ask when u dont want to have negative answers?
yes ur pretty young.
lets see in 2 yrs where u stand.
its too early to say anything now
2006-10-19 06:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not strange for feeling that way. But your friends seem to be for not supporting you in the way you feel.
2006-10-19 06:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by euroaly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋