Marriage & Divorce - 18 October 2006

this was a follow up on my last question. re: husbands mean behavior towards everyone that loves him. Is seven weeks not long enough to figure out what one is going though emotionally and mentally?

2006-10-18 10:16:46 · 16 answers · asked by Juls 1

It is two hours away from where I live.I still make more than him. I paid for his classes and books etc... He still does not have his degree. He was able to land the job of his dreams and is still taking classes. I am proud of him. I have a Master's degree. He wants me to sell my house(had it before we married) and get a job in his area. I REALLY LOVE MY JOB!!!! What should I do? He can not save a dime and is in debt. I am just the opposite. I love him and this is driving me me crazy. p.s. he accepted the job without discussing it with me.

2006-10-18 10:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by boxley4404 2

she has never worked and i was commited to the marriage. it doesnt seem fair that she and her new man should get half my estate

2006-10-18 10:13:17 · 55 answers · asked by ellen s 1

I am so tired of reading questions about divorce, cheating, abusing, blah, blah, blah. Is there anyone out there who is married and actually happy??

I am very happily married 7 1/2 years and wouldn't change a thing. I am very old fashioned in my marriage and family values. My husband and I share everything. There are no secrets between us. I am a stay at home mom of two kids. I love it. I don't feel like I need to go searching beyond my marriage for anything sexual or physical in any other way. My husband and I have a very good realtionship. We are best friends and eternal companions. We don't control, abuse, or fight. We do everything together and we respect and trust each other. I love him more than any other person on this earth, I wouldn't ask for anything more.

Does anyone out there have a good marriage? Are you happy?

Share your POSITIVE stories! I don't want anything negative!!! I know they are out there. Speak up!!

More marriage, less divorce!!!

2006-10-18 10:11:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 10:08:00 · 2 answers · asked by Jelly bean 1

i found out last month that my husband was cheating on me with my bestfriend.i walked in on them.it's been a month and i want to leave him cuz he has been physically abusing me.i can't leave him cuz we have 2 kids together and we have a business together.. and we've been together for 15 years and been married for 10 years. i seriously don't know wat to do. we tried seeing a marriage counselor but it didn't work. i truly love him and he's never abused me since i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. please help me im in need of your help.

2006-10-18 10:04:25 · 48 answers · asked by NONAME 1

i've heard that the chinese believe that people who don't have sex live longer and look younger. is this true. also if it is what would this be linked to? i guess i'm looking for a scientific answer for why this fable could be correct. could it be stress?

2006-10-18 09:58:21 · 8 answers · asked by versuviusx 1

I have a male friend that lives in N.C and is married to a crazy person..(she takes all kinds of meds). I know that it is very hard for a man to win. Does anyone have any Idea's on how he can get them... They are 4 and 2?

2006-10-18 09:55:16 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs. Getz 2

My husband is now sober after many years of beer drinking after work. He got a DUI and quit cold turkey...says he doesn't have feelings for me now....says mean and hurtfull things to his best friends. he doesn't sound like the man i married. is this behavior normal for someone in this situation? 20 yrs of marraige and two children is too much to throw away, but that's what he is doing. oh, he won't get professional help either....thinks he can do this all by himself. help?

2006-10-18 09:52:50 · 17 answers · asked by Juls 1

ok so theres this guy named avery and hes really hot and i like him and he likes me should ask him out????????????

2006-10-18 09:50:09 · 23 answers · asked by justina l 1

I did get her name, I do have caller ID, I know where she works and when I told her that I was his wife, she apologized saying she didn't know he was married.

I know something is up. I'm deciding on whether or not I should go to where she works and talk to her.

We have a 10 yr old girl together. It hasn't always been a good marriage and it has been difficult dealing with 2 ex wives and 3 other children. I have given him the benefit of the doubt, but I'm still wondering??

2006-10-18 09:48:35 · 24 answers · asked by breezygirl 1

are you depressed with your situation at this moment for any reason

2006-10-18 09:41:56 · 25 answers · asked by flowerpot 3

Those two guys r my friends. Actually i've been looking for a person to tell me the solution. The first 1 is the 1 whom i know from my 5th grade. V were good friends but for som time we had bit of a clash!! Now everything has *** to normal. His dad is my father's friend. N my elder bro know him too. He is 1 year older than me. Mom likes him too!!

The second person is whom my oldest bro chose for me. He is 6 year older then me. He is well educated. Has his own business. N belongs to a nice fmly!!

My oldest bro wants me to marry him. The prob is that i like the first person But aso cant disobey brother. My mom is with me. But im still scared of that DEVIL. I cant understand wat is the right thing to do. Can any 1 guide me. Plz answer seriously...Its abt my life. It can be my last hop i guess. Thanku!!!

2006-10-18 09:41:52 · 7 answers · asked by Shaani SK 1

2006-10-18 09:40:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I am married, have no intentions of leaving my wife OR cheating on her, but I find I love ot flirt with women on line til the point of them wanting to meet up with me for sex. I mean I must be very slick with my words because most of them after a day of chatting want to meet up and have sex ( i usually go into a very descriptive essay of how I have sex and what I do to women during sex).. its not cyber sex its not over msngr just email

But in some twisted way .. I feel like I am getting back at all the women in the past that either wouldn't show me the time of day or hurt me in some way. But I am not sure thats it.

2006-10-18 09:38:08 · 20 answers · asked by Jim e 1

has anyone benefited from swinging

2006-10-18 09:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by me 1

It was a fling with a co worker 2 years ago-lasted for few meetings and 2 times sex.He is very apologetic, told me himself as couldn't live with his guilt. I have 2 small kids and 1 was few months when this happened. I have a urge to call up the girl and abuse her but husband is against that as he says there were no feelings involved and there is absolutely nothing between them since then. He feels if I call, it will not affect her in any way. Should I call? Also, I have relly cried, screamed at him, etc. and he is requesting me not to talk about it again and again and move on. That is very difficult for me to do and how can I behave normal again when I am not.

2006-10-18 09:30:23 · 26 answers · asked by chints 1

whats a name for a soon to be wife give like three options

2006-10-18 09:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by *Babbs* 1

2006-10-18 09:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by Unknown 3

I asked who she was and how she knew my husband. She told me that she cuts his hair and that he told her to call him. I asked him about this and he laughed and said he didn't know what I was talking about. He also said, why would he give out our home number (he works nights and that's when she called) when I'm home at night.

We've been married for 11 years, together for 16. He wasn't alwasy faithful before we were married. This is his 3rd marriage.

Is he cheating?

2006-10-18 09:18:09 · 69 answers · asked by breezygirl 1

I fell completely in love with one of my co workers last year and i cant stop thinking about her. Ive been with my wife for 8 years and we have two children but i don't feel the same about her as i do the other girl. I've never cheated on my wife however, i feel like over the past year we really haven't been as close as we were the first several years together. When i worked with this girl we got along so well and i felt like i could talk to her on more of a personal and even spiritual level than i ever have with my wife and when i look in her eyes its like i could talk forever with her. I would i think about telling my wife that i may have found some one else i seem to have a nervous but calm feeling in my stomach like its the thing to do.

2006-10-18 09:18:08 · 22 answers · asked by daubignee 1

I what to tell him on it how much he means to me. But I can't find the right words to say that. Can some one please help?

2006-10-18 09:16:44 · 13 answers · asked by nikki_brandi 1

I just had a baby and am in the middle of a nasty divorce and am curious if anyone knows if you can change an infants last name to be mine and his? My husband would not want this but I do what does anyone think?

2006-10-18 09:16:03 · 9 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2

the phone ringing with debt collectors. We have separate checking accounts cos I knew he had a problem with $ when we got married.
He did better for awhile but he hasn't help me with bills and he's not paying his own bills. I am considering a separation. He is working but at a job that has his him traveling at times over 100 mi a day with no gas $. I've tried to get him to change jobs but he won't. My mom just had heart surgery and is staying with us so I won't to keep stress down as much as possible. This is my first marriage and I may be over reacting. What do you think?

2006-10-18 09:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by lucy02 6

2006-10-18 09:07:57 · 10 answers · asked by cujimmy57ok 2

I have been with my wife for 1 year now & dated for about 10 years before. Throughout our relationship I have told her how I loved her in very high heels. I just love how she looks in them and especially love the comments I get on her appearance from both men and women. I have always picked out her shoes for her and of course always buy between 3” – 4” heel.
The problem is that after 1 year of marriage she is starting to complain about wearing them from time to time. She tells me she feels pressured to wear them everyday. But for many years before we were married she wore them without question. I feel that she was just trying to please me and now that she is married she can forget about the heels.
Our fights are always over heels. If I suggest a shoe for her to wear out, she will get mad over the heel high. But then only after a fight will she suggest that she would like a new pair of heels.

Should I continue to pressure her on wearing high heels?

2006-10-18 09:06:56 · 27 answers · asked by JazzMan 2

is it just an extra long lap dance, or more? I've never had enough $$$ on me to try.

2006-10-18 09:03:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am divorced with two children. He only sees them once a month and even then he comes up with excuses as to why he can't come see them. He tells me he wants to be friends and I just find it very hard to do. He is hurting my kids and it is hard to see him as a friend. If he really wanted to be my friend, wouldn't he put more of an effort out to see the kids? I don't know what to do. It makes no sense to me. Because in my eyes a friend wouldn't hurt my kids or I should say "our" kids.

2006-10-18 09:03:48 · 16 answers · asked by cowchic9 2

It's no wonder Heather Mills is divorcing Sir Paul Mcartney, I read the other day that for her last birthday he bought her some Tights and a pair of Scissors, how insensitive can a person be?

2006-10-18 09:03:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 08:58:04 · 3 answers · asked by Debbie B 1