Those two guys r my friends. Actually i've been looking for a person to tell me the solution. The first 1 is the 1 whom i know from my 5th grade. V were good friends but for som time we had bit of a clash!! Now everything has *** to normal. His dad is my father's friend. N my elder bro know him too. He is 1 year older than me. Mom likes him too!!
The second person is whom my oldest bro chose for me. He is 6 year older then me. He is well educated. Has his own business. N belongs to a nice fmly!!
My oldest bro wants me to marry him. The prob is that i like the first person But aso cant disobey brother. My mom is with me. But im still scared of that DEVIL. I cant understand wat is the right thing to do. Can any 1 guide me. Plz answer seriously...Its abt my life. It can be my last hop i guess. Thanku!!!
2006-10-18 09:41:52 · 7 answers · asked by Shaani SK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go with your heart honey, God will be beside you!!
Don't worry about what your brother wants you to do, its not your brother's life, and he won't be the one living with the guy, you are! So make the decision that makes you happy. I know that you most likely don't have a right to fall in love and marry the man you choose, but at least go with the one you are most comfortable with! Good Luck!
2006-10-18 09:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Torn between two lovers?, this is a song which im sure your mother remebers, choose the man that sets your soul on fire! that when your apart you think of them. when your together you try to push every moment in so not to miss any, if neither does this for you. Then I would say this isnt love. here is something i wrote, maybe from it you can figure it out :) good luck.
LOVE
Love has no boundrys shows no limits
beakons to be held, demands to be noticed
shines with the brillants of the stars, yet is shadowed by shyness
love does not ask your age, it attacks young and old with the same viscousity
Love is an aww inspiring emotion not one givin to dispair.
love is more painful then a thousand deaths
and more pleasent then a ride in the clouds
it dosn't know your name, nor does it care!
It bequests you to be more then who you are!
Love is a tear, a smile, a giggle, the breath you taste from a kiss from your child.
Has made many more wounds then all the wars combined;
And though its scar's are deep and unhealing it quarreys to be deeper.
It is sunlight, and a soft rain, the warmth of the sun and the chill from the ocean.
We can not fight for what is right with out it, dare we try!
Love is perfect! What a gift we were given by GOD!
For I would not want to go on another day with out it! 3/21/2005 tjp
2006-10-18 09:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide who to be with, your brother should understand, it's your life not his. Pick the one that makes you smile all the time and gives you butterflys when you think of him. Base it on how you feel. Nobody else should influence this decision except for the men that your choosing between. Your brother and the rest of the family will understand.
2006-10-18 09:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you disobey your older brother? Marry the person you love, not one your brother would love you to marry.
2006-10-18 09:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it looks like you already know the answer. you need to start worrying about what makes you happy instead about worrying about what makes your brother happy. grow up and make your own decissions....
2006-10-18 09:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be with who you want to be with ...not who somebody in your family wants you to be with...life is too short... go with your heart...good luck!
2006-10-18 09:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them both and be with me
2006-10-18 09:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋