Marriage & Divorce - 19 October 2006

I stummbled upon an email from my husbnds ex-friend at first i thought nothing of it because it was just a simple how are you type thing. well then i discovered that he has a myspace account that they chat on every night. should i confront him and find out what is going on or let it be?

2006-10-19 23:44:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 23:38:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you take him back or totally dump him?

2006-10-19 23:25:38 · 50 answers · asked by gabbyx19 2

My husband was a violent cheat. i left taking our 4 month old daughter with me,he wishes to have no contact with her, has made threats and wishes me dead. this was 10 months ago. i've just found out he's been posted to Afghanistan. How should i be feeling??

2006-10-19 23:22:22 · 40 answers · asked by Bunglezippy 1

I am Sneha, having problem in relationship with my husband.

We married nine years ago and have a son of 6 years old. During this nine year we both have good relations and understanding husband and wife. My husband has own business in Pune at central place. Also doing well.

Now days my husband comes in contact with my sister in law (my brother’s wife) and asking me for divorce. He is not giving solid reason for divorce. He wants mutual understandings and want to get separated. But I am against him as together we developed the world. All my in laws are staying with us and know all this matter. They sometimes support me; sometimes they take side of their son. They say at their time they marries more than one lady.

My husband is not ready for counseling with me.

My sister in laws also has a son 3 years ago. She left my brothers house and went to her mother’s home. My brother’s relations is violated with her.

At this moment I am frustrated and loosing faith for life. Please suggest me the correct remedy. If there is any Woman welfare organization or Law organization from which can support me.

2006-10-19 23:14:24 · 29 answers · asked by Sneha_1000 1

I'm only 5.5 tall,and I want to know girls idea about me

2006-10-19 22:57:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

decieds to go to collage in anouther town, has his own apartment. Joined a co'ed fraternity. Stop coming home as much, rarely calls and has become secertive. Doesn't tell anyone he is married with 3 children. I think he does this to try and fit in with the younger crowd. Asked me not to check his bank account or look in his email account. He says he needs his privacy. Then he ask me for money! I have my ideas but I want to hear what you guys think.

2006-10-19 22:55:56 · 29 answers · asked by betty_htch 5

2006-10-19 22:54:11 · 13 answers · asked by SHABBEER 1

2006-10-19 22:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by malli 1

One week ago after after a period of time which i thought we had reached a turning point in our marraige and were getting on. After having a high tendancy to be both emotioanly dependant on her and also saying things to upset her l. She finally reversed the roles and told me she was not in love with me any more but loved me and was tired of having to mother me everytime she said something i did not like. I had already accused her of having an affair with a freind of ours whilst i was away on a training course for a new job i had taken to improve our quality of life. Something inside me made me want to phone my wife early on the last bank holiday she was very strange. I was always aware of her closeness to our freind but thought nothing of it untill i returned home and found condoms missing from the draw . She of course denied it and i beleived her but it turns out she was and admitted it i told her i would forgive it and move on but she says she does not know what she wants please help

2006-10-19 22:46:13 · 17 answers · asked by very confused 1

2006-10-19 22:12:04 · 24 answers · asked by stevi c 1

2006-10-19 22:08:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

that nothing should be told to anyone and they must act happy and smiling when around relatives and friends-now this way nothing gets solved-what should be done about this situation?

2006-10-19 22:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1

My ex is working for KBR and the payments are very unpredictable. Take this month, its already the 20th and still nothing has been sent.

2006-10-19 22:04:46 · 2 answers · asked by Kim B 1

.. after you met. And did you bring up the topic or did he do it by surprise?

2006-10-19 21:57:17 · 11 answers · asked by stacy_8888 1

If you were trying to decide between two people you loved but could only pick one to be in a long term relationship with, what is the ONE question you would ask yourself? What is the one thing you would base this decision on? And It cannot be simply "who you love" or "who loves you more" because they both love you equally as much.

2006-10-19 21:18:34 · 19 answers · asked by Major Max Confusion 2

2006-10-19 21:02:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 21:00:49 · 3 answers · asked by tahniyat a 1

I heard of a situation where the father found his wife having an affair for about 2 months, after 30+ years of marriage. How would you feel towards your mom.. and what advice do you have to start healing? Serious answers only please, this is a sensitive subject.

2006-10-19 20:41:02 · 21 answers · asked by blondeokie73 3

I met him 2 years ago and we have a 1 year old son. I knew he had 3 daughters but I didn't know what it was like to be with a man with kids especially them. When ever we go out they just want to be with him and I DON'T HAVE THE SPACE TO BE WITH HIM,I feel like hes not mine and i can't do anything when they are around. I'm not happy, maybe because I'm selfish, jealous, etc. He is a very good man, the perfect father to my baby. Also he was recently divorced from an 18 year marriage. He doesn't feel anything for this woman, in fact he can't stand her, he is very in love with me, but all his problem kill me, it really hurts me alot the problem with his kids. The only reason I don't leave him is because I want to give my baby the family I didn;t have. The age is no big deal.

2006-10-19 20:36:41 · 14 answers · asked by Heidys P 1

My boyfriends ex has been dragging the divorce on. She comes up with the dumbest excusses too. Their marriage was already in the dumps when he left her. he told her he was leaving her for me. She went out and got herself a boyfriend too. They live together Both dont work (by choice) and she is on welfare. They have two kids that she has custody of. My boyfriend has already givin her his 401K and even though the divorce still isn't final he has paid child support the entire time. He gave her everything. she even put a retraining order on him to collect $1200. He paid that. restraining order is over in Dec. She has signed the papers she just wont take the parenting class now. Can you think of a reason she wont finalize this divorce? Is there something she has up her sleeve that we cant figure out, like the restraining order, can she file it again and get money again if they are still married, and that is why she is waiting? that is the only thing I can think of. Any Ideas?

2006-10-19 20:35:14 · 10 answers · asked by mnm4213 2

Whats it like to be single with kids is it really hard work? Will i need to buy shares in batteries for my vib?(sorry) Seriously though whats it like? Too late now its the single highway for me now

2006-10-19 20:34:40 · 26 answers · asked by jules 4

Why is having fun so illeagle. I'm young and working. I do dope why is that a problem. My hubby dont do nothing and hates me for it. The kids are fine. I keep my job. What is the problem?

2006-10-19 20:29:03 · 10 answers · asked by Dann R 2

I'm together with a man that has 3 daughters and got divorse from an 18 year marriage. We have a 1 year old son, he is the perfect father, and a very good man, but the fact that he has 3 daughters kill me, and that he was married before also. I'm not happy like that, it's something I can't live with but I want for my baby to have the family I didn't. What should I do?

2006-10-19 20:14:48 · 14 answers · asked by Heidys P 1

My husband left me and I had to beg him to come back. Even though he knew how bad I was hurting it took him 3 days to make up his mind. I feel super insecure and he is the type of person who doesnt say what is bothering him. He just takes things as he sees them and that is that. I didnt realize what love meant until him. We have been together 5 years today. I just need him to love me as much as I do him. But alot of things he does that are not right he really either feels they are ok to do or he just doesnt care how it effects me. I need security and his love and understanding. How do I get that?

2006-10-19 20:08:01 · 5 answers · asked by ineedyourlove 1

It's not that i regret getting married. It's just that in hindsight the relationship wasn't where I think it should have been. Now it is just
becoming more and more clear and I dont want to participate in the neurotic back and forth.

2006-10-19 19:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by lightlytread 2

We had an intercaste love marriage, with oppositon from our parents. There was an age difference of 15 years and also wife was from very rich family with an history of divorces and desertions. But she convinced the husband that she hates divorce and will never resort to one. After a very cute son is born the opposition from wife's father is over who eyed him as a son he wanted (his own son is no good) and abetted her to divorce her husband who was going through a bad time and in return reinstated her in his will of multi million estate. At present the wife's husband is also cotesting divorce from his second ( or third wife ) from last 15 years .

2006-10-19 19:38:57 · 10 answers · asked by Nachiket D 2

okay so my ex is still begging for another chance after i left him over an affair with a coworker, i had caught him in several lies till i found out about a nite in a motel they had sex in.....long story....anyways, he is still begging for another chance....why cant he move on...i feel like someone is still a part of his life and he just wants to keep me around....if i say no...he begs....then he gets angry and then he says he gonna kill himself....etc.....he swears i am seeing someone and thats why i wont take him back....once i got mad and had enough and said i can see someone now if i want cause we are not together and he smashed my door in....called his brother and told him "that ***** is seeing someone else....you whore...you slut..." then he cried and apologized.....HELP...i wish i could get proof that he is still with her then i could throw it in his face and maybe he would leave me alone.....

2006-10-19 19:38:30 · 16 answers · asked by hamhead 4

My husband goes to school or works from 9am-10pm weekdays. When he gets off he just plays computer games until very late at night/early morning and never helps around the house. I attend school on weekdays untill 2 or 4 and then watch our daughter while he works. I do the best I can on the house work but I'm handling a serious load and I'm falling behind. I'm also a fulltime student so I often am up late trying to complete homework and do projects. We argue all the time about cleaning and who's doing what and who's not doing enough. I feel bad that I nag him after a long day but my days are just as long. I need help with this because it's tearing us apart. I resent him and he's always annoyed with me for nagging at him. What do I do?

2006-10-19 19:07:18 · 23 answers · asked by evilangelfaery919 3

2006-10-19 19:03:23 · 24 answers · asked by Sahib Q 1