Marriage & Divorce - 19 October 2006

My wife an i have been separated now for 61 days, the separation occurred because i yelled and cursed about her daughter. I spoke too her abut 3 weeks ago and she told me how much she hates me. Then this last friday we spoke and she listened, but she e-mailed saying she won't be meeting me tonight for a marriage counseling appointment. She has moved out and filed annullment papers, and she asked the only way to communicate is through e-mail. What should i make of this and what should i do next?

2006-10-19 04:31:46 · 12 answers · asked by john d 1

I just got a Dooney & Bourke purse form my hubby! It’s gorgeous! I can’t believe he got me a purse!

2006-10-19 04:30:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for a year and recently met this guy who I slowly develop chemistry and friendship with. I think he was interested in me and stepped back after he learned that I am married. I am doing the same thing. I am very confused. Does chemistry or things more than friendship still develop after you're married? I never thought this would happen. My husband is a very busy person and he is a good guy.

2006-10-19 04:20:23 · 35 answers · asked by xyz 4

Sorry, I'm a foreigner, so the whole matter is quite complicated for me. I have been taught that Miss is for unmarried women, Mrs for married, and Ms is for the ones who do not want to specify marital status. Fair enough, although in many Countries nowadays one only "title" is used for all women, regardless the marital status. But now that I live in England things are getting more complicated.... I heard that Mrs is ONLY for the married women who changed their surname into their husband's one! Gosh, so what happens to the others? Are they still Miss in spite of being married? A married Miss? That's too complicated for me. Help!!!

2006-10-19 04:13:58 · 28 answers · asked by Grilla Parlante 6

My wife and kids are in another country (taken by her). I lost my family, my career and savings. I was completely devoted to keeping the family together, mostly because she seemed determined to ruin it.
She was verbally, emotionally and physically abusive. My self-esteem has suffered greatly, not to mention my motivation to start over again. I am worried I will rebuild, only to suffer again as I watch it crumble. How do I move on? What would you do and how?

I am also trying to start a new career that I will be able to visit the kids. I really want to do work that suits me for a change. Only problem is I am scared, I think of critism and rejection, after the veral lashings she dealt out all the time. How can I rebuild my happiness, motivation and confidence?

2006-10-19 04:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by David M 3

I have been with this guy for 7 months; he is the sweetest, most lovable guy ever. He is undoubtfully willing to give me the moon if I want it; but I have found search pages on his pc where he has searched for escorts in his city. These searches were made early in the morning on his day off when I am at work. The only thing that this proofs is that he was looking at these pictures, but it doesn't really proof that he hired and escort. This is the 2nd time stuff like this on his computer.

2006-10-19 04:12:23 · 6 answers · asked by susan p 1

do you put on the band then the ring or is it the ring then the band?

2006-10-19 04:11:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has been going to a gay club with her brother who is gay.She says she likes the music and no one bothers her.I would go with her but her brother and I do not get along.Should I worry?

2006-10-19 04:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

out of this life easy and not have to deal with working and a wife that is never happy with anything. am i being selfish?

2006-10-19 03:59:46 · 20 answers · asked by jeremy k 1

I didnt get the party with the white dress and maids, i didnt want that, we were court,and i'm not looking for fantasies...i'm just looking to connect with him and have passion, and be the best of frnds with him in every aspect. I point out scences from the movies or whatever, b/c I dont know how to exprs myself with him or show him. It;s just for some ideas to start, i know eventually we can come with our own way of romance from a start.He's difficult to communicate with, b/c he knows so much b/c he's older than me. that's his view..I just feel like we're only together b/c of our kids and b/c we care about each other, but I thought love is about respecting each other's thoughts and feelings and needs rgrdls of how old u are or that ur more exp. I'm open and I listen to him all the time, but when it comes to me he already knows what i'm gonna say so he cuts me off when i speak. then jumps and is comp off of what i'm sayin.I thought love is being equal and open with each other.Right?

2006-10-19 03:59:26 · 3 answers · asked by Sicilian Princess 2

2006-10-19 03:57:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been friends for 3 years. I am 25 years old and he is 27. I am doing my fashion designing course and he is a model.

2006-10-19 03:56:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife keeps bringing up arguments that happened days, weeks, even months and years ago. It's hard because we'll be doing fine ,then she gets all mad and we start to fight again. Is it ok to continually bring up resolved issues?

2006-10-19 03:55:07 · 17 answers · asked by assbladuh 1

Even when you have pictures, and other proof that they are cheating on you, why do they still lie, deny it, and try and act like you are the crazy jealous one.

2006-10-19 03:53:35 · 28 answers · asked by gypsyiiiis 4

It's 4 months down the line and It still hurts so much He feels the same way but we are both doing the 'right thing' by staying away from each other.

2006-10-19 03:48:47 · 17 answers · asked by Ellie G 2

i cant belive it does- how can it be that u get out of something awful but u feel at least as miserable if not more albeit a difft kind of misery? why does it take over your whole life and stagnate everything so u cant move on no matter how hard u try?

i have a friend who recently said to me, 'somtimes i forget i was ever married' !!!!! - HOW?!!

2006-10-19 03:43:33 · 34 answers · asked by third space 4

building a strong foundation in marriage life with the husband being the true leader thus looked up to by the wife.

2006-10-19 03:43:27 · 6 answers · asked by silverstarloader 1

I've been married for almost 20 years, and our children are almost grown. I've been thinking alot about how life would be alone. I love my husband very much, and he is the best husband any woman could ask for, but I'm lacking desire---I don't know if I'm in love with him. So is life good after being married so long, or even a better ending, what can I do to fall back in love with him. Please give me some good advice.

2006-10-19 03:40:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my late 20's and I recently got out of a 4 year relationship. I really thought that I was going to marry him. The first 3 years were bliss and the last year was awful. He met another woman and almost instantly his feelings shifted from me to her. He said that he can't help it if his feelings changed and he had to be honest with me and follow his heart. I'm glad now that we never got married. But, I'm confused because I hear all the time about people getting married after knowing eachother for 2 or 3 years and their marriage lasts. So, when I meet someone new, how do I know that it'll last forever?

2006-10-19 03:34:57 · 30 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7

2006-10-19 03:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had filed divorce and there'll be a final meeting coming on November. I found a letter saying that he keeps sending money to her girlfriend in Europe. Would it be evidence for me to keep asking more money from him?

2006-10-19 03:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

on purpose so guys will notice, or inadvertently, and the looks from the guys embarrass you?

2006-10-19 03:24:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is love and marraige about or being inlove and married?
I feel like My husband and I dont really have any chemistry, or no passion, or romance, and I try to show him, telling him what I want, and just pointing out little scenes on tv, etc. but he just doesn't get it. He says I'm a follower and gullable, and I know I'm not.. We have known each other for 10yrs, and all he knows is how I was when I was younger, yes I was gullable and naive, we all were at some point in our younger age and so was he, but I came a long way, and i dont trust anybody, and i dont agree with everything people say. I have my own mind and thoughts, but he I feel he doesnt see me for the woman I am today. I think our age has alot to do with it. We're 10yrs apart, him being older. Could it be the age??? I just feel that if I can see his growth, why cant he see mine? and I'm so ready to give up on this marraige.of only 1 1/2 yrs.. b/c I cant go on this way. I know love comes in many forms, even the smallest.

2006-10-19 03:24:32 · 6 answers · asked by Sicilian Princess 2

2006-10-19 03:20:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our in laws watch our child while I am working They have been good to our child and always have went out of their way to help us, but I have tried to potty train our child and it seems like they just put diapers on her or if I try to wean our child off of a bottle they give her a bottle and she is over 2 and 1/2 years old!!!! Our pediatrician has even said it is bad for our child!!! I don't know why they would continue to do this!! I have tried to talk to my spouse about this and the response is this : I don't worry about things that are not "safety issues" if you have "control issues" then go see a counselor or maybe you should leave... my spouse told me that maybe I should leave as in move out/divorce... I can't believe it!!!!! I have tried in the past to talk to my spouses family about the issues at hand and the brush it off as my problem.. These shouldn't be that big of a deal but I do feel as though I should be respected - because what kind of example is this for my child??

2006-10-19 03:18:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I realized recently that I'm not in love with my partner of 4 and a half years and I don't think I've ever loved him. We are together basically because of the kids. From the beginning I always thought he was a horrible kisser. I try not to kiss him during sex and I don't, or try not to, make eye contact because it feels so uncomfortable and I don't feel anything for him. Is this normal for some couples or is my conscience trying to tell me something?

2006-10-19 03:15:08 · 32 answers · asked by october g 3

This isfor all of u that feed into(emotional affairs)
all u who ask for advice is having an emotional affairs, u r sharing thought that u should been sharing with your spouse not with strangers. u r emotionally troubled, and looking for help online. All I'm saying is that I think women like the idea of being cheated on, to the point they look for reason, and excuses to say they were cheating on. what do u think? ladies don't get upset just think about. You may say it all in fun, maybe he only talk for fun. Women also live be double standards. Just my thoughts.

2006-10-19 03:15:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what kind of underwear do you have on right now, and are you at work, home, etc?

2006-10-19 03:13:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

What happens at the bachelorette parties? What do you all do? My wife wants to go to one and I don't care if she goes or not. She says nothing happens and I say BULL!. I trust her and she can do whatever so long as she doesn't come home and tell me. I can hear it from you ladies, so what really goes on. I told her to go and have fun, just don't lie and say its nothing. No, I am not insecure. If I were I would not let her go. I believe in knowing the truth about the situation. There will be strippers. I am ok with that. But lets not pretend that things don't get out of hand sometimes. I can tell you what happens at bachelor parties and the same probably holds true to bachelorette parties......to a degree.

2006-10-19 03:09:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 03:07:18 · 20 answers · asked by kimi21 1