My wife has been going to a gay club with her brother who is gay.She says she likes the music and no one bothers her.I would go with her but her brother and I do not get along.Should I worry?
2006-10-19 04:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a safe place to hang without idiots trying to pick up on woman and will even defend women who may get picked on by jerks. I have seen the difference between gay bars and regular ones. The women are considered fresh meat in regular bars while women are considered people in gay bars.
2006-10-19 04:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have no reason to worry. Why would you worry? She probably just goes there because it's not a meat market with her being the special of the day. She doesn't have to ward-off horny guys trying to pick her up. She can spend time with her brother, have drink, dance with a couple gay guys that aren't doing it to get in her pants. No pressure, no hype. That's why she goes there.
2006-10-19 11:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh no, maybe your wife is just trying to spend time with her brother. This is there way of bonding. And yeah just think of it this way, she is just going out to have a good time, dance, drink, and not have to worry about getting hit on. You need to start worrying when she starts going to straight clubs.
2006-10-19 11:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, the music is good and no one bothers her. Women don't always go out just to hook up. We actually like to socialize and dance without having to fight off the wolves.
2006-10-19 11:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mo the treehugger! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am confident of my sexuality and I went b/c my cousin is gay and that is where he wanted to hang out.
That is her brother let them have fun, where else is it to go, you and he don't get along.
I don't think you have anything to worry about because being gay is not contagious.
2006-10-19 11:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of gay guys are HOT! and they don't want to sleep with you! Yuo can have the best of both worlds.
Something good to look at and not bother you!
2006-10-19 11:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is right...no one will bother her...also, gay men are generally hotter and in better shape.....fun to look at!
2006-10-19 11:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Worry about what? She goes because there is no pressure on her. She can laugh and dance and goof around and not have to worry about anyone hitting on her...........
2006-10-19 11:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust her....... your relationship has to built on something and trust is a great foundation for that..... Don't worry if it really bugs you then go along....
2006-10-19 11:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by scotdic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naa, don't worry about it. That's why God made gays...so fat women could have someone to dance with.
2006-10-19 11:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by dwnaz1 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋