I have been with this guy for 7 months; he is the sweetest, most lovable guy ever. He is undoubtfully willing to give me the moon if I want it; but I have found search pages on his pc where he has searched for escorts in his city. These searches were made early in the morning on his day off when I am at work. The only thing that this proofs is that he was looking at these pictures, but it doesn't really proof that he hired and escort. This is the 2nd time stuff like this on his computer.
2006-10-19 04:12:23 · 6 answers · asked by susan p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nine times out of ten when one person feels something is going on your sixth sense is usually right. You know that's going on, but what you really want to know is what else is going on that you don't know about? Well, a still tongue makes a wise head and give him some more rope. If he's a cowboy he'll hang himself. That away you want falsely accuse him. If it's true are not you can base your decision later. Just use protection in the bedroom until you are sure. Good Luck!
2006-10-19 05:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him you don't trust him. You don't sound all angry about it, you just want to know whats going on.
ASK HIM. If you guys have been together 7 months, you guys should be able to talk.... so just CASUALLY and CALMLY (if you get shrill or nag or show anger or suspicion for one second, he will clam up) ask "Hey, I was on the computer and ran across this..." and just let him explain. It could be he gets off looking at hot chick's pictures and he chooses to look at these escorts, he might even be into hiring escorts, but just ask him casually, don't accuse and see his explaination and you'll have to see if you 1 believe it and 2 if you will accept it (what if he admits hes into hiring escorts?)... thats it. Thing is if he's just looking at pictures or its innocent he doesn't have to tell you everything, do you need to know what he has for breakfast lunch and dinner and when he takes a dump? Does he need to know when you masturbate? .... ... ...
2006-10-19 11:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't speculate, don't wonder, just ask. If you saw these sites through just doing day to day stuff, you have no reason to not ask. Say that you happened to see these sites, and were wondering what they are all about. Do not accuse, do not belittle, just be honest. Guage his reaction. If he seems uncomfortable or embarassed, you may have caught him in something. He may have a good (or moderately good) reason, like for a friend's party, using the website for "stimulation", etc. Now if you found these sites by snooping, give him some privacy. There can be any number of explanations for any given scenerio.
2006-10-19 11:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by Craig B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is looking for escorts. Why do you need any more proof ?? If this is all he did, just looked, is that ok with you ? It wouldn't be for me. Dont get yourself stuck in a bad situation waiting for more proof. You already have all you need.
2006-10-19 11:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he hasnt done anything yet,, the fact remains that he was looking for someone to do things with.You need to let him know that if he hasnt done anything that it has to stop, and if he has you need to get rid of him, if he is hiring escorts he could bring home all kinds of diseases.
2006-10-19 11:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are those pages not proof enough?
2006-10-19 11:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋