2006-10-19 03:07:18 · 20 answers · asked by kimi21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ummmm...no
2006-10-19 03:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be more clear about a "male friend" on the side. What does that mean? Does it mean:
1. you want to cheat on your husband?
2. you only want a friend to talk with to share you hardships?
3. you want romance and passion without the sex?
You have to be clear when you make statements like that and you have to let your husband know otherwise it is cheating which could lead to divorce if you are caught and other things that will send your soul to hell. Is having a friend worth buring in hell in the hereafter? Think about it. What is it that you husband isn't doing that makes you so unhappy maybe the 2 of you could seek help before you decide to do something that could ruin a happy marriage if that is the case. God bless you and i wouldn't have a freind on the side if I were you. I hope it all works out for you.
2006-10-19 10:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... that's a loaded question. Mainly because you don't give enough information. If you want a boyfriend.. then my personal opinion is no. However, if you're talking about a platonic male friend... then as long as your husband doesn't totally freak out (and in my opinion if he does he must have some issues with insecurity) it's fine. I've been married for almost 19 years, and do have some very nice platonic male friends. I usually wind up being friends with their wives or girlfriends as well.
2006-10-19 10:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel as though after you screw this 'male friend' and then crawl into the bed with your husband and then screw him, and you can live with yourself than go right on ahead. If the marriage is really that bad that you think you need a little action on th side than why dont you just divorce him? I surely hope no kids are involved cause this is nothing but drama.
2006-10-19 10:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by nefertiti186 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its about having a male friend(Non sexual) that's kool, but if you want a male friend to do what u think is missing from your marriage you ought never gotten married...
2006-10-19 10:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bxrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be specific. What do you mean by a friend on the side. explain.
2006-10-19 10:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you mean a boyfriend on the side ... no that is not okay i think that is absolutely wrong i consider that cheating on your spouse! and if he ever found about you "male friend" he would be so upset!!!!
2006-10-19 10:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by Breanna W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if its ok for him to have a "female friend" on the side
2006-10-19 10:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married too.i have been looking for female friend on the side too.why not ok?
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2006-10-19 10:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by sonruyaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not ok. If u really h8 ur husband that much than divorce him & THEN find a new bf.
2006-10-19 10:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by lakersfan_4life1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off ladies no single man unless hes gay wants to be your freind,there is a motive behind that,such as he wants your booty etc etc,they will play it cool and pretend but give him a opportunity and i guarantee they will take it and have sex with you,try it if you think im wrong,youll see they want the panties and thats it.
2006-10-19 10:11:20 · answer #11 · answered by milf man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋