2006-10-19 03:57:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
MAY BE SOME PROBLEMS WITH YOU TRY TO SOLVE THESE PROBLEMS.
2006-10-22 06:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will not blame her at all!
She gave you enough hints for two years, by going to her parent`s place regularly. I am sure you followed her each time and came back with a lot of goodies each time. Possibly over a period of time you didnot miss her, but whenever you missed your goodies you rushed to your wife`s mother`s place.
What can you do? A lot. First decide whether you want your wife as much as your mother in law`s goodies. If the goodies are the first choice please take in your mother in law also along with you in your home. You can save travel expenses too.
If you love your mother in law for her goodies move in with them and your wife is already there.
If , by chance , you like your wife start loving her all over again> It may be slow process. You can send your parents in law for a 4 months tour of all the religious places in India . In that 4 moths you can work wonders.
By the way... Good Luck
2006-10-19 05:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't u been back to find out why she had left u.sooner instead of leaving it this long...?
Why have u left it this late? Man's pride?
U know women do have feelings and rights.....u have left it for two years? amazing.....
I suggest u try to find a way to get her back but it sounds it is too late for u now...u need to respect her wishes and give her a divorce...
Men can sometimes be very selfish and stubborn....u can sometimes really wreck ur own lives by being like this....
sorry to be like this but i have seen alot of men do this to women...then they expect the women to come running back when their man snaps their fingers...
Good luck!
2006-10-20 12:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try for some amicable settlement through a relative. Otherwise, you file a petition for divorce on the ground of desertion. In that case you should be prepared to pay her alimony.
2006-10-19 05:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be back.
You need to find out why.
Then see a lawyer, "Last two years" is a long,long long, time, it would be considered abandonment.
2006-10-19 03:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why she went away, any quarrel? then take initiative and sort out the quarrel.
Clarify, what is her intention & future planning?
Try to find out the main cause to look forward.
2006-10-19 04:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a grammer class, then divorce the nut.
2006-10-19 03:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all tell us why did she go there for long. there has to be a reason to it. something wrong between u guys or she is hypnotised by ure in-laws.
2006-10-19 07:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply apply for divorce.
But there will be some weakness of thine.
2006-10-19 23:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are whining???? Throw a party and celebrate.
2006-10-19 03:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
celebrate & invite me.
jokes apart.............2 year period is too long a period to wait.
you did it and gave her a chance.she doesn't deserve the treat....
to hell with her. you are not a tooth pick.
with best wishes for another innings.........................
2006-10-19 06:45:06 · answer #11 · answered by pvrkprasad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋