Marriage & Divorce - 19 October 2006

I'm scared, I've been with my husband for 13 years. The last 2 months he's been edgy, and snappy. He seems to be in a bad mood all the time anymore, and ALL he does is complain. I've tried talking to him but he just blows me off and says "what are you talking about, I'm not moody". I do everything for him, cook, clean, laundry, bills, have sex when ever he wants, i run all the errands, let him go out with his friends whenever he wants, I bath the three kids, take care of their needs, and but them to bed. I am not sure what is / can be going on for him? I know it's not money - he makes more then enough to cover bills and then some. Any ideas what could be wrong with him? Or what I should say or think??????? Does he not love me anymore, when I ask him he says "OMG of course i love you".

2006-10-19 19:00:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 13 years and now divorced. In the state of california. I was basically a stay-at-home mom and wife. Worked various part-times jobs here and there but relied solely on ex-husbands income since he worked as an officer for the state of california. I do not have representation cause I
simply cannot afford it. The-ex's attorney is pretty much trying to railroad me out of having my ex pay the insurance payment on my van, but we already had settled in court an order to pay the van payment plus the insurance and I was responsible for registration. If anyone has information please let me know thanks.

2006-10-19 18:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by cecimad 2

what is his problem i lost 50 pounds im 28 small fram n weigh 125 now. i have heard of him always cheating but he wont leave me and says he loves me and only me im fustrated and lonley i miss having a man take full control or at least make me feel wanted and sexy. i get lots of looks from othter men and people tell him he has a pretty wife what can i do?

2006-10-19 18:36:10 · 29 answers · asked by reda m 1

she is beautiful...kind...but shallow...i want someone i can talk to w/ serious topics...not showbiz...what should ido?

2006-10-19 18:32:33 · 20 answers · asked by Random Guy 2

2006-10-19 18:29:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are 12yrs apart, I am 27 and he is 39. I have had 2 kids,youngest is 9months and I am 5'4 119lbs with a booty and natural size 34D what the hell is up? I think I married a man to old for my sex drive! Only been married a year!

2006-10-19 18:28:38 · 15 answers · asked by butterfly 2

We have two boys, ages 12 and 10. The 12 year old is easy going and even though I know it will hurt him, he will take it much better than the younger one. The 10 year old has already had fits when his Dad and I had arguments, especially when we had one on his birthday! He got his baseball bat and told us to knock it off and then made us tell each other we were sorry. The marriage is over though, their Dad has cheated on me, lies, steals and is currently in AA but I don't even know for sure that he has really stopped drinking all together. I decided that before I know it these boys will be away at college and I will be left alone with this lying, cheating old man and I just can't handle it. Does anyone have tips on how to tell the kids?

2006-10-19 18:21:09 · 9 answers · asked by COLLEEN F 1

2006-10-19 18:16:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our divorce is almost final. We where together for seven years, and seperated for almost three.(not legally seperated) She may possibly be pregnant from the guy she left me for.

What a friend of a friend told me this evening is that I could have to pay her child support for this baby, even though it is not mine.

My question is, can this be true?

It would be Colorado state law's that I would be governed by.

2006-10-19 18:03:11 · 12 answers · asked by APACHE 7 4

Based on questions and answers I have read from other women, I know I am not alone in feeling like its insulting. If a woman gives you great sex, and loves you, and doenst deprive you or regect your needs, why do many men still engage in watching porn and/or "self-pleasuring"? Do you know that it hurts most women and makes us feel inadequate? Personally, I have learned to cope with it, by watching movies WITH my husband, etc. But if your wife/girlfriend is getting her feelings hurt by it, why do you still do it? I can understand if your woman is cutting you off sexually, or whatever, but if shes willing, why would you choose your hand over her?

2006-10-19 18:00:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my mother hurt my feeling every time i go to her house but then the next day she want me to come back i just cannot take it no more she put me down all the time and tell me she hate me when her sugar is high i don;t think she knows what she is doing would you stay away are keep getting your feeling hurt

2006-10-19 17:55:07 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1

are you still IN LOVE, and why?

2006-10-19 17:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by *SexXyLuV* 3

my question from before do they have adultry in florida reson i ask edthe question is she took my daughter to another state and i havent seen my daughter in three months.

2006-10-19 17:42:50 · 6 answers · asked by Paul G 1

I have not seen my daughter for 2yrs now.She is only five.When he and I divorced we both got joint custody.I moved and got remarried and he just keeps moving and i dont know where he is and he lets me see her when he says i can.I f I go and just get her cant he just get me for kiddnapping or what it is just a total nightmare what I have gone through and alot more to the story to tell.I desperately need some help on the matter.It should be against some kinda of law what he is doing.Pls help

2006-10-19 17:42:24 · 9 answers · asked by m.lewis8900@sbcglobal.net 1

ok i am married he was my first but he has been with lots i mean he was a slut before we got together well sex has gotten boring and i keep getting the feeling i want to cheat because i want knew experiences ive never been with anyone else? is this a normal feeling? what should i do i love him but i dont want to cheat on him but i really want to experience someone else you know??? please help

2006-10-19 17:37:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 28 yrs married guy and i lift daily to a 35-40 yrs woman for her office. she is widow. should i sex with her if she want it also.

2006-10-19 17:36:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The husband works in an all female organization. The wife knows all the females. She has confronted one female questioning her intentions with the husband. All in the organization are completely professional. Should the female talk the husband about his wife's actions?

2006-10-19 17:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by Emilia 2

2006-10-19 17:26:49 · 25 answers · asked by Paul G 1

2006-10-19 17:17:37 · 10 answers · asked by super girl 3

What is a standard bra size. Are there more A B C or D cups out there? Doing a research paper and easier to ask online then ask a lady in public.

2006-10-19 17:17:14 · 10 answers · asked by chefyooper3 1

My husband has a girl he's been talking to, she's supposedly his cousin. I've never met her in the 6 years my husband and I have been together, never even talked to the girl for that matter, she never comes to family functions, and I've never heard of any other family members talking about her. Well, she and my husband have been talking a lot lately. She's been calling him telling him how bad her marriage is and how her husband mistreats her and their child. I absolutely hate to jump to conclusions, but she never calls the house- they always talk to each other on his cell phone, and their conversations are always held when I'm not around (he always tells me about their conversations- they usually talk while he's at work or in his vehicle). I'm finding it hard not to be suspicious..... and finding it hard to have sympathy for her (if her situation is that bad...why is she just calling my husband acting like he's the only one who can help her?? Why not just leave??)

2006-10-19 17:17:10 · 17 answers · asked by JustMyOpinion 5

He is in the military and we are in HI. I don't want to stay here because it is very expensive and it will be very difficult to start from zero on my own. I really want to remain in the US, my Green Card is permanent and I should be able to get a decent job, maybe in sales or an office job but nothing that pay extraordinary. So I am looking for a nice city, with plenty of job opportunities and maybe a temperate climate and also with lower rental prices.
Any suggestions?

2006-10-19 17:17:05 · 3 answers · asked by raluca 1

We have been together for 81/2 years and it has all been tumultous. We are almost obsessed with each other, well at least we were. I have just come out of a major depression and my husband and I fight all the time, I know it was hard but it is over. The other day it got so bad he insulted my body, telling me nobody else would want it. Well tonight i was feeling sick (I have a cold) and we were supposed to go out. He almost killed us in a car accident and as it was happening I screamed at him. I told him I screamed because I was scared but he was angry. He told me he is sick of being married to me and I should file divorce papers. He then continued on our destination and I asked to go home. He wondered why and I explained it was because he just told me he didn't want to be married to me anymore (DUH) but he freaked out, drove home like a maniac and left. He says he wants a divorce and now I feel lost. Anything would help........

2006-10-19 17:14:43 · 22 answers · asked by aouija 3

After being in a very long term relationship( almost 15 years,married 10) how do you go about going out with women without the "maybe" long term thing. I'd really just like to go out and have fun,do some things together but don't want anything serious at this time.I really want "free" time to do things and not be committed to anyone else(3 kids).I'd also like to avoid anyone who is remotely like my ex.ADVICE PLEASE!
P.S. Im self employed so there aren't any work friends or any females I have regular contact with.

2006-10-19 17:14:32 · 2 answers · asked by bob a 2

He wants me to stop talking to all my male friends (most of them are ex's). He especially wants me to stop talking to my most recent ex(whom I was also engaged). I feel nothing for them and I'm sure about that. He says he believe and trust me but it is them he do not trust. What do you think??

2006-10-19 17:14:16 · 18 answers · asked by sincere vol 1

2006-10-19 16:54:42 · 12 answers · asked by tiger kid 2

I'm looking for a web site where i can print them out.

2006-10-19 16:54:36 · 10 answers · asked by febjunemar 1

Me and my wife not in good terms.. we always quarrel.. i wanna divorce but she always ignore it. today she said yes tomorrow she forget it. we do not have any kids. been married for 5 years. accumulatively not staying together for 4 years. how to encounter this problems. thanks

2006-10-19 16:52:30 · 3 answers · asked by Bored 1

Like every thing that ive ever told my husband has been thrown in my face several times!!!! its like hes taken what ive told him turned it around to belittle me?? do any of you feel like that???

2006-10-19 16:46:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I was going to get married next year.. well he said that we should wait a year to get married b/c he is tired of the fighting between us. How-ever it is the same old thing every day we never spend time with each other.. so I get frustrated and ask him when are we going to spend time with each other? He gets upset and tells me I don't have nor money. I have even said we could do somthing around the house but he a loways finds some thing better to do. So he thinks we should wait another year. Do you think that if we can't resovle our problem now we probably couldn't resovle it later on? Does waiting to get married sound.. better then going ahead?

2006-10-19 16:46:00 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah 2