ok i am married he was my first but he has been with lots i mean he was a slut before we got together well sex has gotten boring and i keep getting the feeling i want to cheat because i want knew experiences ive never been with anyone else? is this a normal feeling? what should i do i love him but i dont want to cheat on him but i really want to experience someone else you know??? please help
2006-10-19 17:37:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know this is bad to say cuz hes my husband but he is really small like 4 inches
seriously
2006-10-19 17:49:02 · update #1
alot of the time i dont want sex but when i do want it i dont want it with him cuz its not good
2006-10-19 17:51:07 · update #2
If it is boredom then you need to add excitement with your husband. You chose to marry early, so now you should respect your husband. You will just be hurting yourself if you do decide to have an affair. The grass always seems greener on the other side but you never know what kind of snake is going to come up and bite you. You could also catch some std out there and spread it to your husband. You need to stay busy and find ways of adding excitement to your marriage.
2006-10-19 17:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really need to talk to him about having more excitement with your sexlife. You may be surpised with what his past experiance can offer you! also about KJI's comment....since when does thinking about sex become cheating????? I am pretty sure that 99% of people in relationships have thought about sex with someone other than the person they are with, it does not mean they have or will act on it. I think what you are going threw is very normal, and can be resolved with a lil imagination and communication.
2006-10-19 17:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat bad things can happen. But you can experiance new things. Just try using the computer for some adult shopping there are so many things you would faint. And if your like me you wouldn't be caught dead in a adult store. But some of the things are really fun.
2006-10-19 17:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not normal. Why don't you ask him to get slutty with you in the bedroom? Or just find a good hobby to put all your extra energy into. Heck have a kid.. that will wear you out so much you won't have any energy or time to think about sex.
2006-10-19 17:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much of a horn dog as I am, give the dude a chance.
Offer up the A-Train.
Work his nads till he is about to pop.
Slip him the greased finger.
Once he unloads, act like you are going to clean him up and feed him his first cream pie.
If YOU let it get dull, it is all over.
Men think with their *****, not their heads.
2006-10-19 18:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
going to a sex counsler is the first step along with you letting him know how you feel. you stated he has been with many and by your description, it would explain why. were you not aware before you got married that it was not going to satisfy you. if used right, any size can pleasure a woman along with knowing her 28 points to bring to orgasm.
2006-10-19 17:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal. get some toys for the bedroom differnt sz's and shapes it will liven up your sex life and give you a feeling of difference and still not break your marriage. if this isnt what your looking for maybe seperating for awhile.
2006-10-19 17:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r married DON'T DO IT if u want something different then just tell him i bet he would LOVE to hear that if u really love him then u can have sooo much more fun in the bedroom if u just open up and i just bet he willl too gl
2006-10-19 17:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by howcor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then go ahead and cheat... just don't get caught and don't have affairs. make sure its nothing but sex. it will also spice up yer sex life with yer husband... also maybe try swinging or sumtin...
2006-10-19 18:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by mrbubbachowpuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to f*** around, get a divorce and go sleep around. Just because he acted that way BEFORE you got married is no excuse for you to act that way while you are married.
2006-10-19 17:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋