Marriage & Divorce - 16 October 2006

If he feels like he needs to punish her, and spanking is the way he wants to do it, then is it okay too? I hear a lot of husbands punish their wives like that.

2006-10-16 20:43:28 · 18 answers · asked by Heather616 3

he is willing to divorce me. but I am not. All her family members tried to convince him but failed. I am worried about my future. I am just 12th pass. what to do ? what is easiest way / solution ? guide me.

2006-10-16 20:34:45 · 17 answers · asked by suresh9928 1

My husband and I have been together for a very long time ,10 years, but we have only been married three years and things are going to hell. He is in the military and we hardly ever see eachother anymore. We don't seem to enjoy sex anymore. We hardly talk, (we don't have anything to talk about). The only interest we have together is our three year old daughter. I feel like we are headed for the big D!!!!! We have even started couseling. He says my heart isn't in it and that I just want to leave him but I swear it is not like that. It just feel like we are just together just to be together. No excitement, no communication, just me and my daughter and occasionally my husband. He says he doesn't see the problem. How can we save this marriage

2006-10-16 18:39:39 · 12 answers · asked by tamaralester78 1

The only valid response would be STD's but everyone cheats, so you could still get them?
-Companionship? Sure, until you get hurt... just read the answers and questions on here... one question a few days ago from a woman wanting to leave her husband because he had cancer and other stuff and she was tired of him complaining.
-Children? No one cares about the children anymore(the other person won't care) and many believe divorce won't harm the children(sure).

2006-10-16 18:38:25 · 14 answers · asked by Nep 6

2006-10-16 18:17:48 · 21 answers · asked by Scorp 2

If my friend get annulment done with his wife in Singapore (as this is a fraud marriage). The marriage is being carried out in India. Is it possible to make the annulment valid in India. What are the procedures to make the annulment valid in India?? Is it possible to just submit the annulment documents to India govt after annulment is being done in Singapore?? I need professional advices or resources, please!!

2006-10-16 18:07:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted a question regarding parenting time and got total smack from somebody (a guy, I am presuming) for not wanting to be questioned where I go and what I do when it's not my parenting time!

Now, I will give you a little background info.... I have two daughters (aged almost 9 and almost 11) of which I have received roughly $1200 for in the last 18 months.

I don't really ***** about the child support unless they need money for dance, school activities, and clothing. I am currently not employed to the status that we used to be. In other words, I am not even making half of what I used to due to a downturn in Michigan's economy... but whatever.

What I don't get, is that somebody on here, called me a "leech" when I only asked about parental time and my disgust at having to feel like I need to explain my every move... Even on the ex's parenting time!!

Do you think it's unreasonable to have to pay child support when you don't buy the kids a thing besides toothbrushes/food?

2006-10-16 17:57:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

email or IM 20 times a day in hopes that you will receive a message from the ex you let go years ago in hopes they will message you to work things out, and get almost heart broken every time it tells you that you have 0 messages?

2006-10-16 17:53:08 · 29 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

I had heard about it. Now I experience the same. I do it with my wife. I love her a lot. Make love and satisfy her and then turn away from her and sleep. She wants me to sleep facing her at least but I unconsciously turn away and sleep. She feels bad. But is it with others too. Do men do it intentionally or carelessly? or it happens unconsciously / subconsciously? Views of men and women invited.

2006-10-16 17:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why aren't men speaking out about this? Do men not want to get married anymore? Do they just plan on 'banging' as many women as they can instead of committing to one good one? Help me out here.

What do you think will be left once the nuclear family is finally destroyed? ... Just a bunch of trash shacking up ... they'll be the only ones reproducing ... cranking out their dumb, mean, trash kids. Just a bunch of bastard kids with deadbeat dads and baby mama mothers The future looks rather grim.

2006-10-16 17:45:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

there are milians of people in this world and only a few a person could mary


so how do so many people find thair soul mate? its a 1 in 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,
000,000,000,000,000,000

chance of finding that person

2006-10-16 17:32:48 · 10 answers · asked by blah 2

this friend of mine did arrange marriage and its been 4 years, she has 3 year old daughter too, though the situations were never good for her, but now things have detoriated..... her husband says that he married her so that she can take care of her family an does not like her at all, he abuses her and her parents everyday almost round the clock, it becomes reaaly untolerable for her, he has hit her too, but cuz she hit him bak, now the problem is that she can not even leave him(indian readers cud relate to it better), as she is not earning and not that educated that that she cud earn so much to sustain herself and her daughter, and her husband is going worse to worst evryday, as she abuses all day with the worst of abuuses one can think of and then have sex in the night and no she doesnt refuse, cus she thinks that will just worson the scenerio, she wants to improve on her marriage or wants to come out, if she leave him, then there r additional social burdens( wat will pple say )

2006-10-16 17:20:27 · 4 answers · asked by hmmm 3

2006-10-16 17:15:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 17:13:28 · 22 answers · asked by funkycat_us 2

2006-10-16 17:11:17 · 9 answers · asked by Candi H 1

2006-10-16 17:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this normal thinking? This week I almost called up an ex boyfriend of mine after having a dream that he loved me more than my husband. I have no idea why I want to call this guy and haven't even seen him since I was 18. When I think about our old relationship I sometimes think he loved me more than my husband. Is that insane for me to be thinking this way? My husband expresses his love in words to me and trys to show me love and I feel NOTHING and can't feel his love for me. Also, even though he tells me he loves me I don't know if he is meeting my needs and I am stuck in my house all day with no car when he is at work. What do I do to stop thinking about calling this other dude just for the attention I like and want. Thank you so much in advance for your ideas.

2006-10-16 17:01:24 · 21 answers · asked by tina*21 2

2006-10-16 17:00:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The marriage lasted only five months. Was a huge mistake. But I still feel sad and like a failure. I totally didn't expect to feel this way.

2006-10-16 16:53:48 · 19 answers · asked by queenblafalot 3

over heard him reminicing about going to a club where he walked up to a girl and how she came down on him and wrapped her legs around him. I asked him if he ever went to a club since we got married and he said no. But this had to be recent because his friend only came back around since we got married.

2006-10-16 16:43:29 · 9 answers · asked by butterfly13 1

ive been living with my guy for almost a year. weve talked about marriage and both know its gunna happen. he says he wants to wait till the exact rite moment... but in my oppinion if you wait for that it will never come. is there something i can do to help him get to that "exact moment" faster?

2006-10-16 16:43:14 · 25 answers · asked by wp_ashro7 1

I already confronted him about it. And of course he's in denial. I am there for him mentaly, sexualy, emotionaly. I am very affectionate and I sometimes smother him with love at times. So why is he going online chat lines talking to women? I just found out that he has another email address that I didnt know about.

2006-10-16 16:32:17 · 23 answers · asked by vgns360 1

I've been happily married for 2 1/2 years now and may be getting closer to not having my own natural children. How do I approach my husband with my desire to conceive? I've stressed it before how much time we have left, he doesn't seem concerned. I'm worried that if I never have a child I will regret it and resent my husband also. Thank you for taking time to read my question.

2006-10-16 16:24:10 · 10 answers · asked by odessa2469 2

I have finally decided to let go of my lover and go back to my husband. Although i am trying very hard to keep myself busy but i still am unhappy and unable to get my lover out of my head! It hurts and even telling myself that my lover is not worth it to risk losing a good family doesn't seem to work. The more i try to forget him, the more he gets into my head and my heart! What should i do? My husband is very loving while my lover has given me the cold shoulder. I thought that would make it easier but doesn't seem to be. Any advice? Have i done the right thing in giving my lover up and staying in a marriage for the kids' sakes?

2006-10-16 16:17:52 · 19 answers · asked by angelheart 2

I got engaged some time ago and it felt amazing!! just wondering what it feels like to be their wife for the first time on that special day??

2006-10-16 16:16:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted another question about an issue that my fiancee and I are having w/ his ex-wife, but I also wanted to ask this as well. My fiancee isn't 100% sure that their two kids are his. His ex-wife absolutely refuses to allow the children to have a Paternity test done. She won't say why, but uses the children instead, she told my fiancee that if he wants to have the tests done, then he will have to tell the children 10 & 11, why he wants the test. I believe that if there's nothing to hide, then she shouldn't care if they are tested or not, considering that we're the ones who are paying for the tests. And in fact, the kids never have to know any differently if something bad does come out of the tests. He would still pay child support and buy them anything they needed, but it would allow him to get her under a little more control. He's had problems w/ her ever since they got a divorce, which was more than 8 years ago.

2006-10-16 16:12:56 · 12 answers · asked by hope578 2

I dont have a job nor do I have a license, I plan on getting these before we split up, we have agreed to wait until taxes so he can get another car and give me the other one we have, and Im going to get my permit this week. Im over 21 so I only have to wait thirty days before I get my license, but I dont know how I am going to do this by myself. It seems so hard. I supported us for four years but havent worked since I got pregnant with my first son, I feel really helpless. I need help on how I can move on, can you help me to figure out what I need to do because we both agreed that I will have custody of the children. I am afraid Im not going to make it or atleast I dont know how to make it alone, can you help me in figuring out what I need to do? So that I wont be so helpless, aside from the above mentioned

2006-10-16 16:11:12 · 19 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2

My wife and I have been married almost 4 years, I took a job after letting her make the decision, I am 5 hrs away from by car. I go home every other weekend for 3 days and every other Wednesday and Thursday. Since I have been up here things havent been good, She is a Mexican who lives in Tijuana and does not have her papers yet, shes mad cause she doesnt get to see me when she wants, I keep giving her a certain amount of moneytwice a month she is happy for a while but after a while she needs more, and it never quits. I am faithfull clean and look good and treat her good, but it seems as though she is never happy, almost as if she is digging for gold, and when I do go home she treats me like **** an constantly tells me she loves me less everyday, what should I do about this, I mean I love her and if I can make it work I will, I have even tried to get her to go to counseling with me and she refuses, anyone have any suggestions and dont be afraid to email please.

2006-10-16 16:05:36 · 15 answers · asked by Joshua Y 1

My brother in law is wealthy. He has been divorced for 6 years and he just met this girl that he has just flipped over. He says she is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. They have known each other one week and he has already bought her a diamond necklace and a red corvette. He has a large house and a pool and a money making business of his own. She is in the middle of divorcing her husband that makes "normal" money and could have never given her any of the things that my brother in law is giving her in just one week. I'm afraid he will just freak and marry her too soon. Can a relationship like this really last? She is 15 years younger than him. Do you think it would be possible that this could last? If they wind up not having anything in common or if she gets bored, do you think she would stay with him just for the money? I forsee disaster and I hate to warn him but I think he needs to slow down and find out who she really is.

2006-10-16 15:51:40 · 13 answers · asked by sugarbud 3

When I use to go out I could'nt get a girl to dance or go to the movie or Rockcrawling in my jeep and now that I met that special love of my life, I am getting hit on all the time. What is up?

2006-10-16 15:50:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous