Marriage & Divorce - 16 October 2006

is when he has his kids on the weekends and i think thats just because he wants a babysitter.His work closes at 5 pm they never get out till 6 we live 10 mins from there and he doesn't make it home till after 7 in time to eat and then he falls asleep on the couch 3 or 4 nights a week im lucky if we have sex once a month i really do not think he is having an affair but im not happy living this way i have talked to him over and over and nothing changes maybe for a day then it goes back to the same..I asked him to move out last night when his house is finished but i do love him and he is a good person any ideas on how to get him to spend more time with me or should i go ahead and divorce him

2006-10-16 07:11:44 · 14 answers · asked by Amy M 5

I just found out that im preg. with. I really do still love my x but i think its time to move on. He is so mean. He wants me to "take care of it" so we can be together. I feel bad but im ok with moving on. I don't want to make a huge mistake.

2006-10-16 07:01:20 · 18 answers · asked by annieup 1

say the girl is virgin and never exprience sex before. and many girls are little bit afraid or nervous from this 1st time night. as this is the 1st time they will share their body with someone.

what a husband can do to over calm his wife during the first night of honey moon? should he just skip sex at that night and just kiss her and hug her alot?

2006-10-16 07:00:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 07:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by maxine553 2

1. How old were you when you got married?
2. How old was your significant other?
3. Do you regret getting married that old/young?

2006-10-16 06:58:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 06:56:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

people say that all what men think about is sex. how about women?
what are the most three important thing that a woman think about in their head (from a woman point of view)?

2006-10-16 06:55:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

which one bless the marriage more? having an expensive wedding, ring, a big house? or having a simple ceremony?

2006-10-16 06:52:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has told me he is seen in someone but always ends up telling me he only says that to get me 2 shut up in one or more occasions he has been spotted around this girl i have a big, big feeling he is been with he claims no but doesnt take the time 2 make me feel that what he is saying is true & that i shouldnt think like that, we have 2 girls 2gether but i left the house about 2 mon ago! out of that time i think he only called maybe 1 week straight and i feel he only called a week straight cuz i wouldnt give in on been intimate with him!!i dont want to begg him anymore but find my self calling him all the time he is not responsible with the girls and the few times he has seen them he cant think of a place to take them or what to do with them to have a good time. i know its over but how do i move on if still hurts this much, i keep just talking to him so he could hurt me more & more with his words 1day is yes things will get better the next is i dont want 2 have nothing 2 do w/u!

2006-10-16 06:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by why 1

2006-10-16 06:50:11 · 8 answers · asked by sfgfan 2

My wife and I have differing views on how to construct a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich. So we want to take a survey. When making the sandwhich, after you have put the peanut butter on one of the slices of bread, do you put the jelly on top of the peanut butter or do you put the jelly on the other slice?

Your input will be much appreciated!

2006-10-16 06:44:57 · 18 answers · asked by lightbringer1979 2

My wife and I have deffering views on how to construct a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich. So we want to take a survey. When making the sandwhich, after you have put the peanut butter on one of the slices of bread, do you put the jelly on top of the peanut butter or do you put the jelly on the other slice?

Your input will be much appreciated!

2006-10-16 06:43:57 · 14 answers · asked by lightbringer1979 2

Though their love is based on mutual affection compassion and love,how does a woman handle cultural differences with her future husband/lover?she from the east and the man is from the west.The differences are overemphasis(she thinks) about the sexual aspect of the relationship.She less demonstrative(shy).

2006-10-16 06:40:19 · 9 answers · asked by aquarian 4

I have been married now almost two years. I love my husband very much, but I feel as if things have changed now that he has "secured" me. When we first met and were dating, he would have done anything for me, and tried hard with his appearance. Now, he has gained a lot of weight and does nothing around the house. He does have a job, but I need help at home, too. I also work and its frustrating that he leaves messes knowing that I will be the one to clean them up. He has become of the laziest people I know. A big turn-off. Do I tell him I'm no longer attracted to him? I know that would be very hurtful to me if it came from him. I just don't think all of these feelings should be so prevalant this early in a marriage. Any advice?

2006-10-16 06:36:36 · 17 answers · asked by reblcwgrl 3

2006-10-16 06:19:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I wrong for not wanting all these girls to call my husband (soon to be ex)? We were going to try and work things out but I just don't trust him. Is it insecurities or instincts? What would you do if your husband always had girls calling him? He says that they are just friends. Some are 20 years old even. 12 year difference in age.

2006-10-16 06:18:50 · 31 answers · asked by Just Because 2

iv been married almost 2 years we have a baby together we always argue but we love each other. last year it was worse we argued alot i used to chuck him out cause i couldnt take the stress he was giving me he used 2 stay out and come the next day this went on and on he started making excusess to argue so he could storm out every weekend i started getting suspitious he changed alot towards me he was very aggressive each time he was out his phone was switched off. i got hold of his friends num. when i called i found out he went clubbing when he came home we argued bad he swore it was a 1off and that he would neva go again i nevabelieaved him so i called his friend and asked they went 4 times behind my back places where he went wen he was single where dirty cheap girls go i confronted him said u lied 2 me he said only so he wont lose me ever seens iv been suspitious if he cheated on me i spoke 2 his friend on msn said hav u told her bout the girls wot we been up he said imnot stupid 2 say

2006-10-16 06:13:46 · 16 answers · asked by erin 1

My husband stopped smoking over a year ago, but recently I found receipts for cigs and my son told me that he saw him smoking the other day. When I questioned him about the receipts he told me that he bought them for one of the guys he worked with and I let it go (this was before my son told me about the smoking).

My question is...why would he hide that he's smoking again? It's not like I would be mad (I smoke to and yes I know its a very bad habit so no lectures please). It is his personal choice whether or not he smokes and as I smoke to so it would be hypocritical of me to say anything about it. What irritates me is that he lied about the receipts and the fact that he's hiding it.

2006-10-16 06:12:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

cheaping out. I had my brother deliver my birthday present to my mother because he was going over there anyway. She says it's more fun to get it from a delivery guy? Is this true? Geez, I thought saving $40 was a good thing.

2006-10-16 06:07:37 · 27 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

my husband is talking with his ex girlfriend say he dont know if he want to stay in the marrage with me but that he love me i just need a frend to talk to

2006-10-16 06:03:22 · 25 answers · asked by mandyp66 1

Mohamad is justified by his folowers for marryin his favorite wife at 40 years old who was 9 years old! sico

yet if he found out she was an unbeliever according to the koran he would have a higher place in heaven killing her- the spirit spoke to mohamad and told him "Prophet! make war on the unblievers."

Jesus says to love your enemies-1 Peter 3 "If your mate is an unbeliever, dwell with them, and by your actions win them to me."

Jesus said, exept you repent to me and be born again, you can not see the kingdom of heaven."

who is right Mohamad or Jesus-or are they both wrong -they cant be both right!

2006-10-16 06:03:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 22, and my boyfriend of over one year is 27. We are planning on getting married very soon. I love him so much and honor him as a man. But he worries about money A LOT!! I am still in college, and since we want to have children before I hit thirty or so, we are determined that I finish soon. So I have to work part time, and that just covers my bills. So he gets stuck with rent and etc. He has a masters and a good job, but it still puts strain on him. Plus, we want to move to Tx (from CA) and buy a home that we can raise our children in (4+ bedrooms). I still have about two years of school left. I'll have my BA in Market & Advertising. And then I'll have only a few years to get estabilished before we have kids. Then go back for my masters and continue working. It seems like a long string of waiting and planning. Is this typical?? Will this eventually lead to arguments and stress?? Help!!

2006-10-16 06:02:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

The boyfriend lives in Tx and I live in Wis. We communicate via the internet and he phones me almost everyday. He has loved me for 40 yrs but is also married. His wife found out about us and thinks we are no longer communicating. My husband is the kind that would kill if he found out. I do not love him anymore and I want out and my love and I want to be together. I am 57, he is 59. The relationship with my boyfriend has gone on for 2 yrs and we haven't seen each other for a year. Please help me out here and let me know what you think.

2006-10-16 06:01:28 · 28 answers · asked by Cowgirl Q 1

My husband works as a correction officer from 10pm - 6am, his days off are Monday and Tuesday. I work in a doctors office from 730am - 4pm, my days off are Saturday and Sunday. For the first time this weekend, he was off. He spent both days on the computer all day long. I asked him why he didnt spend any time with me and he tells me on Sunday night at 10pm, that it was because I didnt get dressed. Yet, he gave no inclination that he even wanted to spend any time with me. If I dont look a certain way, he withholds affection and sex. He doesnt like to sleep in the same bed with me because he says I snore (funny, coming from a man that snores too) I just dont think that he really wants this marriage. If he loved me unconditionally, would all of these trivial things matter? Is this marriage over? Why does he even want me around?

2006-10-16 05:56:59 · 28 answers · asked by forever charmed 2

2006-10-16 05:56:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

5 10 20 years?

2006-10-16 05:53:19 · 32 answers · asked by Barrett G 6

2006-10-16 05:39:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my life long mate or wife has been having way to many self pity parties for and about herself, time for this to end, we have been going thru some ups and down for the last 3 years, now she wants everybody to, feel sorry for her, almost on a daily basis, gotten to point sometimes dont want to be around,same ole stuff all the time, maybe just worded different, any advice would be most helpfull

2006-10-16 05:33:49 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

I love my husband. We fuss and fight so much that I find myself not wanting to be with him anymore. I hate the thought of divorce, but I am so unhappy. He is so mean to me, disrepectful, and lies. All these things have caused me to find myself wanting out. We have 2 young children and he has just found out he's going to have to have surgery and will not be able to work for 6 months. He has never provided for our family and now I am going to have to fully support us. And I don't think he deserves my support. He does a lot of stuff that bothers me: ie our son has asthema and I cannot get my husband to stop smoking in the house; i hate how fast he drives with me and the kids in the cars and when i ask him to slow down he is very rude to me. He says I nag all the time and that I am a b*tch, but I am just trying to get him to grow up. I want something better in my life and my kids' lives. What do I do?

2006-10-16 05:29:16 · 33 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3

2006-10-16 05:28:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous