I just found out that im preg. with. I really do still love my x but i think its time to move on. He is so mean. He wants me to "take care of it" so we can be together. I feel bad but im ok with moving on. I don't want to make a huge mistake.
2006-10-16 07:01:20 · 18 answers · asked by annieup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow that is a very long time to be in a relationship with someone and I dont think that it was fair of you to jump into another relationship if you werent completely over your ex. You have to think about the things that caused your break up and figure out if there is a way you work through them. In my opinion I feel that once its done its done there is no fixing it because that is what you had agreed upon when you decided to break up. If he wants to be with you then he needs to realize that you are having a baby with another man and he needs to accept that. If he wants to rekindle things then he needs to take you and all of you back even with whatever happened in the time you were apart. I think its a huge mistake and you should move on though, but I dont know your entire situation.
2006-10-16 07:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A. Your ex is "so mean" but
B. You "really do still love him" but
C. You're in a new relationship and
D. You're pregnant by this new man but
E. You "feel bad" but
F. You're okay with moving on
Time to GET A GRIP! The previous idiot is just looking for a place to live because it's the easiest way for him, and for some reason you aren't able to let go of him even though you've got a whole new life going.
THE BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU COULD EVER MAKE WOULD BE YOU TAKE THAT BUM BACK FOR ANY REASON!
2006-10-16 07:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your ex go. You've already started a new life and it sounds like its going really well. Tell your ex that he should have thought about all this before he left. He had his chance and he blew it then. Tell him you're happy with your new guy and you're starting a family with him. Tell him you'll always love him, he's your children's father, of course you'll always love him. But its time to move on.
2006-10-16 07:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on! His loss for leaving you. If you are okay with moving on then that is what you should do. And what an @$$ to tell you to "take care of it" so you guys can be together. Don't chose that loser over your baby.
2006-10-16 07:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by texas y'all! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes once a ex finds you have moved on such as in your case they want you back but it's not always for the right reasons. I'd just tell him you moved on and now it's his turn, but without you. ;o)
2006-10-16 07:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've said it all, this selfish **** wants to just waltz back into Your life and pick up where he left off? Oh and "take care of it"? Maybe you should have this baby and have that moronic sack of dog **** "taken care of". You know there are times I'm ashamed of being male, and this is one of them.
2006-10-16 07:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by ron k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must move on, any man that would want you to get rid of a child for his conveince isn't much of a man if you ask me. He is not worth the air God is letting him breathe.
2006-10-16 07:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give a proper closure to the relationship with ur ex,and remember he is ur past.Move on.
2006-10-16 07:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by aquarian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe you should move on cuz if he was not nice to you then, he will never be nice to you now but you should really think about your life and if its go now and if its going to be good in the future?
2006-10-16 07:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His loss move on on give yourself a good life it was his loss then and he will have to deal with it
2006-10-16 07:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by John D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋