2006-10-16 05:39:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay this is something that we all know and we just don't realize. the forbiddon friut is always the sweetest. a guy who is taken seems more like a challenge and interesting. some guys are just too easy to get. everyone wants what they can't have.
also girls sometimes want a relationship and it just so happens that the guy they happen to be attracted to is with someone else.
2006-10-16 05:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are attracted to taken men, because it is safe. They can play and have their fun without having to worry about commitment and stuff. I don't know how they do it, without growing attached, but they do it. I think it is disgusting, but it is not my life. They get these men to spend money on them and time with them, then send them home and they can do whatever they want, without the man interfering. It is nuts!!!
2006-10-16 13:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, as soon as I find that a man is in a relationship, committed or not, I stay away. When with another woman, men don't look so attractive to me then, not that they aren't, just not as much as when they are single.
And don't generalize women, men do this just as much and sometimes more than women do.
2006-10-16 12:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because they are "unattainable". If they are in another relationship, you don't have a full commitment relationship with him. This makes things easy. You only want what you don't have, it is human nature. Once you get him, you probably won't want him anymore anyway. Plus there will be a loss of trust. If he cheated on her, you will always be paranoid of him cheating on you. I would also try some self-esteem building for your self.
2006-10-16 12:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Stasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because it always seems like the good ones are already taken... my problem is however, that the ones in committed relationships are always looking to cheat...so those are the ones who hit on me the most often!
Of course... I would never go there! lol!
2006-10-16 12:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by dena_lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true...I am not attracted to a man who is in a committed relationship. What is the use? He is taken and considered off limits.
2006-10-16 12:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it's the challenge to see if you can get the man from the other woman. But, usually, it's a safe way to be with someone and not have to commit yourself, which is selfish, at best.
2006-10-16 12:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Cupcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of these people answering this question are missing the point. Any man who will have an affair while married is NOT in a "committed" relationship. He is a cheat, a liar, a minipulater, and not worth a plug nickle. Any man who IS in a committed relationship stays true to that relationship and does not cheat on his spouse. THAT is committment!!
Any woman who likes the "thrill" of knowing she can "take" a man from another woman is also missing the point as well as having very low self esteem. A man can not be "taken" by anyone, he has to give himself to whomever he chooses to sleep with. A woman does not "take" him, if he sleeps with a woman not his wife then he is not worth having in the first place nor is he any gem for any other woman to have. If he cheats on one woman he will cheat on another.
Any woman who thinks she will get a "faithfull" man by "taking" him from another woman is in for a well deserved world of hurt. She knows from the onset that he cheated on his then current woman to be with her, so deep inside she knows he will cheat on her too, it is only a matter of time. So, he is not a "good" and "committed" man at all.
This goes both ways too, a man who wishes to be with a woman already in a relaitonship, who attempts to "steal" her, deserves what he winds up with: A cheater who will cheat on him just as she cheated to be with him.
There is no stability or feeling of true committment when a relationship is based on cheating behavior from the start. So, I do not agree that woman are more attracted to men in committted relationships. They may have esteem for those who are able to stay true and wish for a man who would stay true to them too, but if the man cheats and goes off with them then the esteem the woman held for him is gone, as he cheated to be with her, which essentually removes the "attractive" quality of the committment he had with the woman he was with first. There is not attraction for me of any man who is a cheater, and hopefully men are not attracted to cheaters either.
Regardless if a woman is so foolish as to think a man they "stole" is desirable, then they deserve exactly what they get: Cheated ON!!
2006-10-16 12:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Serenity 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
That has not been true for me at all... The great majority of men I've been attracted to were totally single (to my knowledge at least).
2006-10-16 12:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are always wanting something they can not have its the trill of trying to get someone that is unavailable and then usually once they get them they dont want them anymore cause the thrill is over and they move on to the next one and some men are the same way
2006-10-16 12:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋