Marriage & Divorce - 16 October 2006

i am totally in love with a hibitual liar... i can't help it ... i wouldn't know how to stop loving him or wanting him... what's wrong with this picture?

2006-10-16 12:23:28 · 10 answers · asked by Jill c 1

I am madly in love with my fiance and there is no doubt about that
Is love enough?
We have a lot of general things in common..(we like the same food, tv shows, our personalities are different but in a way where we click really well and have a lot of the same beliefs)
There are some things we dont have in common (things that are very important to me) for example-I like to have my mate go places with me like a date, shopping, to dinner, to work out, just anywhere.
that is very important to me because that is what I like to do most days.My mate stays home 24/7 doesnt even go out with friends. He wont go anywhere and I dont know how to get him out of the house. Any advice on how to give him a kick in the butt and get out of the house from time to time? thank you

2006-10-16 12:15:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 12:14:22 · 2 answers · asked by angel_00_uk 2

2006-10-16 12:13:26 · 16 answers · asked by Allie 2

i love my husband to death. now i would never sleep with someone else. the fantasy is there but i love my husband i the sex is wonderful. especially when i get really horny. so is it okay to look at other guys. sometimes i get excited looking. but all i'm doing is looking. its like that exspencive piece of cake that i can't have but really would love to have. but never able to taste.

2006-10-16 12:08:20 · 33 answers · asked by mrsmonkey829 2

I believe there are multiple reasons (in no particular order) why there are less "traditional" marriages in households than there have been:

1.) Homosexuals living together that are not in a traditional marriage - domestic partners. They cannot get married (except for Massachusetts).

2.) It is getting more expensive to live. People that graduate high school and college have less money (when adjusted for inflation) than in the past. They need to take on roommates and are quicker to rush into living with their "significant other" prior to marriage.

3.) Sexual/societal changes with regards to sex. People are more willing to try a sexual partner and make sure that they are compatible before marriage.

4.) People will live together for a time before getting married in order to make sure that they are socially compatible with regards to family values (taking out trash, throwing clothes on the couch, dishes, laundry, finances). It has its pluses and minuses.

5.) Women are now getting closer to men in economic equity (although I believe this will never be achieved in my lifetime). I believe it is up to $0.80 per every dollar that a man makes in the same position on average. This has allowed owmen to more freely live "independent" from men and have more choices about their own lives. This also follows in the previous point that people can try out a partner and still be able to be on their own in case it doesn't work out. Women are basically becoming more impowered (before I get backlash, I like the fact that there is more gender equality for money. I like my girlfriend when she buys the movie tickets and I buy the dinner. I make more money so I spend more on what I can - I'm an engineer, she's a teacher; just a fact of life I will make more).

6.) Teen pregnancy is down across the country (thank god), but pregnancy by individuals between 20-30 who are not married has not declined. This has caused people to move in together so that they can support a child. The other option is abortion (I won't go there) or adoption.

Lastly, the sentiment of "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free," is losing its credibility because I have noticed multiple women who are on the prowl for a partner just like a "traditional" man. I think we are in a more sexual environment (for better or worse). People want friends and loved ones to be close so they live together. With the country getting more crowded, people are getting more roommates and living with people they like (or love).

Thank you.

2006-10-16 11:59:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married and me and my husband have talked about it and he has kinda okayed for me to sleep with other men as long as they know who the "man" is. so yeah i get excited for my husband but latley i have been getting excited over other men. is that okay? should i tell him?

2006-10-16 11:49:26 · 30 answers · asked by mrsmonkey829 2

It's hard to get all the facts straight on here, but essentially my husband has been having phone sex for about a year. I found out by finding the prepaid phone he used. I read text messages from 1 girl, which were very painful to read. She said she loved him and he said it back. He said though that he had to say it because that's one of ways she got off. I also made him tell me which was his favorite and it was her. But he said that it was because she the most accessible and always available. They met in a chat room. I read a text from her where she knew he was married. I blew up and called the little ***** that night and told her off. To make things even better she graduated recently with a degree in psychology. That makes me lose confidence in people. I slammed the phone against the wall and broke it. He said he got caught in something he couldn't get out of. I just don't know if believe him. I believe he loves me and I love him and we have 3 kids. What do I do? Please help.

2006-10-16 11:43:34 · 20 answers · asked by Christine F 1

2006-10-16 11:39:40 · 12 answers · asked by GalaxyGirl 2

Im only 24, im successful, educated, attractive...moving to one of the greatest cities in the world...yet i feel so depressed...i dont even feel like taking care of myself and i attract the sorriest men ever...how can i remedy this? How can i feel happy again and full of hope? I was married 4 years and he left me to go back to his country and then i was raped and in a series of bad relationships where they either left and stopped talking to me or were too clingy...sorry for all the personal details but im really upset.

2006-10-16 11:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a good guy but the last six months he refuses to work always make up some lame excuse why he cant go down and work. This is really tearing me up inside, im about to lose my apt, car our bills are not being paid. Iv always supported him but I think Its time to cal it quits can anyone help me out. Im broke my six year old is suffering more then anyone no money to ever spend on him. Please help me, tyvm..

2006-10-16 11:32:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This morning was my first day back to work in 3 months and I put on a nice outfit, my husband said I looked so sexy, and was trying to hang all over me, but as I was getting ready he started to hang up my bathroom towels and he was going around empting the trash. My husband hates to clean up and pick up....what made him do this at 6am? I loved it and want him to do this again and he did it without me asking, is looking sexy and hot all it takes? Does this turn guys on to want to clean or something?

2006-10-16 11:32:23 · 10 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

50% of US Households are now unmarried, according to recent census, so do you want to get married and to whom ?

2006-10-16 11:28:53 · 17 answers · asked by Latin Techie 7

I posted a question earlier. But, it has gotten much worse. I am sick of the lies and sneaking around that my husband does. I purchased decorative towels to dress up our bathroom. I specifically told him not to use them. He did anyway. And when I asked him about he showed a casual disregard for my wants and needs and said that there were no clean towels. Well, not only that but I bought some banana bread mini loafs for me to have during the day. When I went to get one I noticed that there was one missing. I asked him if he ate it and he said no. I know this is a lie, because the kids were at school! HELLO! I've taken my kids and left him. I can't live with the deception and sneaking around anymore. I left in such a hurry that I forgot my towels. I just called and told him that I need to come and get them and he said that he is keeping them! Can he do this? I'm so upset over this. They were brand new! How can I get them back?

2006-10-16 11:28:30 · 38 answers · asked by reowrrrr 2

So I was angry and I told my sweetheart what she did was childish and now she was really acting naive.
My baby hit the roof!! I mean she acted like I said she was a fu**king Sl*t !!*
What is the big deal? Did I say something really unacceptable or am I just having to live with a spoilt wife :(

2006-10-16 11:25:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-10-16 11:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by juju 3

How do you see this...what if she says that its my habit to talk to anybody for hours...not just my opposite sex friends. i feel bad when she continues to talk to her male friends for hours? whats wrong? whats the solution?
(we are committed to marry soon)

2006-10-16 11:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by ram 1

we both realize we both still love each other and less than a week later we are still dating each other. Can we still have the divorce annulled and be legally married? I am sorry for this strange question.

2006-10-16 11:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by nwafanusa1 2

Should each family get one third, or should it be divided into halves (the wife's family gets half and the husband's family gets half...the mother/stepfather 1/4th and the father/stepmother 1/4)?

2006-10-16 10:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by ralomi 2

Why do spouses take advantage of their spouse and think it ok when their drunk?

2006-10-16 10:32:51 · 7 answers · asked by Lily 2

How can you forgive someone for taking only for themself, accusing when it is them performing infedelities, and wasn't happy until they got what they wanted?

2006-10-16 10:30:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I were together for a while before I got pregnant, then he moved in with me, he left 3 days after the baby was born because he wanted me to move into a manufactured home with him. After seeing how much he drank and how violent he was I decided that wasnt the best thing to do. It has been six months and even with a job I am unable to pay my bills and I feel like I am about to be homeless. The baby had surgery last month so I was without a job while she was recovering. He isnt helping me. I have filed for child support, that is going to take some time to get rolling. He has moved his new girlfriend and her 2 kids in with him, bought a new car and all of that while I am struggling to make ends meet. I dont know what to do. Has anyone been in a simillar situation or have any advice for me? I am having a really hard time right now.Please help me!

2006-10-16 10:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 10:26:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

he calls me cheat.He also has been without a job becoz of his own doing.In the mean time i got a job and that becoz he asked me to take it up as he felt it would stop my fights with his mom.After i took up the job he would fite with me all the time.I met a coomon friend of ours who also happened to witness our previous fightes and had bailed me out from the problems.We got around talking and today we are in love with each other.He also is married and says he has problems in his marriage but not like mine.In the eman time 3 months bak my husband asked me to leave the house all of a sudden.He has done this 2 yrs bak also.At that time also i went rejoined with him on my own,though my parents were against it.He has this habit of disconnecting with me during fites.I have been away from my husband and my child whose custody my husband has taken by playing dirty tricks ,for 3 months.I have been talking to this friend of mine for last 6 months.We just share everything between us on phones.

2006-10-16 10:19:03 · 3 answers · asked by jennifer r 1

He hasn't hit me, but is harrasing me and threatining to commit suicide.

2006-10-16 10:15:57 · 18 answers · asked by nyob1234 1

Had 2 guys at once? What did you like/dislike about it? Were you in a relationship with one of them, and if so, how did the relationship turn out?

Serious answers only please, no haters or moralists please!

2006-10-16 10:14:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had married my husband when i was young.It was love marriage.His was third and mine first.He was just recovering from his prev Divorce and i appeared to be a fresh thing in his life.First 2 yrs were very good.We had a baby also.After that we moved in with his parents and things started going bad.He started being physical.In the mean time my teenage affair got opened up to him.In our initial courting days i never told him as i was scared of losing him,thogh i had tried telling him but at that time he told me it doesnt matter to him.After he got to know,i told him everything in detail and left the decision for him to decide upon the marriage.He decided to continue with the marriage but gradually his behaviour got bad.He became very physical.At the same time took me on costly vaccations.He also had difficult times at his work.I had been faithful to him in our 8 yrs of marriage.Other than his inbetween temparamental behaviour he sounds good to me.During his bad behaviour he calls me ch

2006-10-16 10:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by jennifer r 1

As all movies and stories go your party is wild and the special someone is always "suppose to soil their oats" before getting "hitched", Does the public really agree with this or just fantasizes about it and scorns those who celebrate in this fashion? Ladies do you get down and dirty like the Men? Just how far is ok?

2006-10-16 09:55:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my husband pulls out of me it's all over his penis. He says its not his ***. I never had this happen to me before. Is it normal?

2006-10-16 09:52:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

and had the relationship work out?
My man has hit me a few times in the past, and he down plays it and said he was sorry, and he wants this to work out (we have a kid togetheraswell) the last incident was in febuary 06.
I have alot of anger for him, and I dont want to have sex wth him or be intimate with him these days and it is because of that.
He says I have certain obligations to perform as wife (get it) but I dont care to be with him like that right now.
I have been a stay home mom for 3 years and due to him NOT wanting me to work (very controlling) I have stayed home and been a wife and mom.
He says if I leave I will not get our son becuase I dont have a job and that I should sign him over to him.
He works out of town so I said I would get him, I dont know what to do.
Can this be worked out?
We did councelling and it didnt work.
Can a relation survive a few incidents of domestic battery?

2006-10-16 09:50:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous