So I was angry and I told my sweetheart what she did was childish and now she was really acting naive.
My baby hit the roof!! I mean she acted like I said she was a fu**king Sl*t !!*
What is the big deal? Did I say something really unacceptable or am I just having to live with a spoilt wife :(
2006-10-16 11:25:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, she is spoiled. Sounds like she's throwing a temper tantrum. When you coddle a child and 'oooo and awww' they will act that way.
Stick to your guns, if she leaves...she'll find out that no real man is gonna put up with that sh!t. Unless you want to let a spoilt brat walk all over you. Your silence will speak volumes and help her know her place. She will secretly get hot for your authority.
2006-10-17 09:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the truth can hurt sometimes. Women don't like to be wrong. Maybe if you try explaining to her why you think she was behaving childishly and naive you might get a better response. However if she isn't willing to listen to reason then yes you probably will be stuck with a spoilt wife. Despite what happens in a relationship you still have to make your man feel like he's "the man" in the relationship. Sounds like your wife is high maitenance!! Good Luck.
2006-10-16 11:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by gypsywife2b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many marriages go through this. Me and my husband tell each other stuff that is the "truth" all the time. It might hurt sometimes but it is good for the long run. She just couldnt take it. She needs to practice on not getting so mad and focus on the problem.
2006-10-17 04:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say anything wrong, you just may of said it at the wrong time or may be the wrong way ... if she's acting like a spoiled brat than you can say she's acting childish now ... just let it ride or talk to her but talk to her as adults
2006-10-16 11:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, in these uncertain times and shaky economy, ladies are looking for a stable man. We want a man who has his life together. This is not the time to take risks. I think the bad boys are losing out right now. Nice guys - this is your time. And it's about time!
2016-05-22 07:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
brother, you must know that women think that we men must change in that we must respect ,be obedient to them when are married. Unfortunately, men do not change. On the other hand, we did not expect them to change and then they do when are married !! This is confusing... We men like to tell them what is in our minds, but they do not like to take all... as long as what we say are acceptable to them... so if we lie , then they accept but on the long run, the relatioship will collapse... so I believe, it is best to say what you want to say but with tact and cunningness...be wise... it takes a real man to be humble and wait for your opportunity then tell your heart out... pray a lot... may God bless
2006-10-16 11:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by srjione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite obvious she took offense at that comment and probably felt that u were criticizing her harshly. Let her cool off and then try to discuss what happened in a calm manner without being too judgemental.
2006-10-16 11:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well um i would be angry to b/c she probley sees you do stupid things all the time but she dont say anything and then you all of a sudden say she is acting childish.......if i were you i would go get some flowers and fast!!lolz
2006-10-16 11:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by psychobunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her like you would talk to your boss - with respect. you will be surprised at the results
2006-10-16 11:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can't handle hearing the truth.
2006-10-16 11:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋