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i love my husband to death. now i would never sleep with someone else. the fantasy is there but i love my husband i the sex is wonderful. especially when i get really horny. so is it okay to look at other guys. sometimes i get excited looking. but all i'm doing is looking. its like that exspencive piece of cake that i can't have but really would love to have. but never able to taste.

2006-10-16 12:08:20 · 33 answers · asked by mrsmonkey829 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

33 answers

If you speny your life trying to avoid seeing another man, you may as well become a nun.
Of course looking is good for you. If you don't look, how can you remember what a good deal you've got with your husband.
Anything that gets you excited is good for you.

2006-10-16 12:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

of direction it is not any longer ok! Is he insane? To lamely say that 'its nature' and take no account of your emotions on the subject is the very lowest subject he could desire to do. I strongly merchandise to the singles sites as that's in basic terms a pre-cursor to an affair too. The porn is objectionable besides the certainty that some couples locate it ok. i individually have self assurance that if a individual seems at it far too lots, it reflects on their strategies-set in direction of intercourse and humanity regularly. He has de-customized it to the quantity the place he gets his kicks from gazing nameless persons flapping approximately on the demonstrate screen! healthful human beings see porn as a stupid little bit of nonsense for unhappy youngsters who've a reliable wrist. maximum persons could somewhat be doing it than gazing others doing it! I could desire to declare that your husband desires to take a reliable look at what is going on - this guy needless to say has themes and that i worry you are the single that is going to be emotionally battered in the tip. Take inventory. This guy would not admire you or the different lady - you and those porn stars are basically gadgets. What you do with all of this relies upon on regardless of if he's a sturdy husband in another admire. stable luck.

2016-10-19 12:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I guess that would depend on how your husband feels about it, as well as how you feel about him looking at other women. The key here would be open and honest communication of expectations between the two of you. If it offends you when he looks, it is probably not a good idea for you to do so and visa versa. The real issue is matching your expectations about what is acceptable within the boundries of your relationship....don't assume ask... its much more conductive to a long term relationship.

2006-10-16 12:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by tomboy92064 1 · 0 0

Well, unless your wedding vows pledged you to never feel any attraction to another human being other than your husband for the rest of your life, I think you are on safe ground here. Of course, if you are thinking about it, chances are that he probably has as well. If you are fine with that, then you are doing nothing wrong.

2006-10-16 12:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by derkaiser93 4 · 0 0

I believe it is fine to look, but as long as you don't lust after them, gawk at them for long periods, or touch. You are NOT dead just because you are married, so it is only human nature/natural to look at good looking people of the opposite sex. Men do this too, so why shouoldn't we. But, the question is, how do you feel about your husband doing this? If you are ok with him doing this, then it should be fine for you too.

2006-10-16 12:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by honey 6 · 1 0

You can look, but you can't touch! There's nothing wrong in looking, it's human nature! As long as you don't make any plans to hook up with them, then it's okay. You know you love your husband and that's what matters.

2006-10-16 12:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

no, i think it is unethical n unsocial too. either u wrongly claim of loving ur husband or u don't know what love is. Anyway, if she desires to have sex relations with someoneelse, she must divorce first her husband , whether mutually or legally it may be, and then she should start to find her true/real love. In my opinion without controling sensual desires/fantasies one can't find true love. she is unfair to claim her love with her husband. it is simply a childish n she has lack of maturity in life. fantasies and love cannot live together with the same person. Love is taken in very light terms by most people. in my opinion love is worship and love is life. To love means to surrender,dedicate her all, body and soul to one's lover/beloved. To love means one finds no lackings in one's lover/beloved one and one is fully satisfied with the person one claims to love.

2006-10-16 14:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Mrs Monkey...I am sorry but it looks like you are feeling temptations and thoughts of infidelity.
Look elsewhere if you wish to find reinforcement for what you already know is wrong..
All I can say is that cheating starts in the heart and mind well before you hop on that new c0ck.

2006-10-16 12:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Men have looked and acted since the beginning of time, so I think it ok to look at a nice handsome, well groom man.

2006-10-16 12:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 2 0

Flirting in general is a part of human nature. Anyone who suddenly finds every other member of the species unnattractive when they're married is not human. So I say look all you want!

2006-10-16 12:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by WizPip 3 · 1 0

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