I posted a question earlier. But, it has gotten much worse. I am sick of the lies and sneaking around that my husband does. I purchased decorative towels to dress up our bathroom. I specifically told him not to use them. He did anyway. And when I asked him about he showed a casual disregard for my wants and needs and said that there were no clean towels. Well, not only that but I bought some banana bread mini loafs for me to have during the day. When I went to get one I noticed that there was one missing. I asked him if he ate it and he said no. I know this is a lie, because the kids were at school! HELLO! I've taken my kids and left him. I can't live with the deception and sneaking around anymore. I left in such a hurry that I forgot my towels. I just called and told him that I need to come and get them and he said that he is keeping them! Can he do this? I'm so upset over this. They were brand new! How can I get them back?
2006-10-16 11:28:30 · 38 answers · asked by reowrrrr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to show him who's boss,
I like when girls do that.
2006-10-16 11:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmm I think you can get your towel back but it will involve cunning. You should return with the kids and apologize. Then the next day go to the super market bakery and buy some mini bannana loafs. Then that night go to a rave and pick up some hardcore party drugs and lace the bread with them. The next day leave the bread in the fridge with stern commands not to eat them. That evening while he is tripping balls take the towels and never return.
2006-10-16 12:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me a break it's only towels! I thought that the point of having towels in the bathroom is to use them? And what's with the mini loaf thing? U couldn't share with him? I thought he was your husband? The reason he's having to sneak around is because u are so selfish and greedy that u think everything in the house is yours.
LOL...these issues are so petty.
2006-10-16 11:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!So he used a "decorative" towel. So he ate one of your mini loaves, and you left him and all you're worried about are the towels?If these are the only little faults this guy has...Has he ever lied to you about cheating or spending money or stealing from you or the family? You need to look at the deeper reasons you left him, not because of towels that are put out to be pretty and not used, and mini loaves that he ate cuz he was hungry...
2006-10-16 11:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please say that this post is a joke. If not, you are the most immature married person I have seen on here lately. Maybe your husband would rather have a grownup for a wife or at least someone who would place clean towels in the bathroom for use and make him some banana bread. Really!
2006-10-16 12:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, the towels & and the banana bread were the last straw for you huh. Not going to point any fingers, but one of the the two of you needs some cousling. I mean damn all that's going on all you can think about going back for the towels?
2006-10-16 11:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he playing you? If these are your biggest worries, you do need to take a step back and see what's really important in your life. Towels and bananna bread are not the real issues here. You need to get to the root of the problem
2006-10-16 12:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? If towels and banana bread are things that you are questioning your marriage about YOU are the one with the problem. You need to think about the important things in life. Thank god your marital problems are as small as these.
2006-10-16 11:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by ~jenjen~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You left over a $1 mini muffin loaf and a dirty towel?
If this were real, I'd say you need to increase your Xanax dose right quick!
As this has the marks of a fairytale, I'll suspend my indignation for now.
2006-10-16 11:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by George Curious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is this a joke ^-^;;;? you shouldn't leave people just because of towels and banana bread you count humans as much to low like a dog if your dog somehow ate all your meat which it would if it could would you put it to sleep or give it away ?if he ripped up these seemingly precious towels would you get rid of him ?try to get past these issues instead of leaving over a towel and bread
2006-10-16 11:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by BlueCherubi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all..forget about the towels. It's not worth the effort.
Secondly; when you mean sneaking around, do you mean cheating on you? If he is cheating divorce him.
If it's just stuff like the towels, then I suggest marriage therapy.
2006-10-16 11:33:36 · answer #11 · answered by phoenix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋