Marriage & Divorce - 16 October 2006

I live with my Bf, He works all day, then he home & plays video games all nite, do u think he is cheating on me. I'm kinda confused.

2006-10-16 04:03:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want it and well she never does.

2006-10-16 04:02:36 · 26 answers · asked by Stoney D 1

you didn't know what you wanted, and after time has passed you realized they are what you have been searching for but it is too late and can't get them off your mind and wish you could start it all over again? Talking about run-on sentences.

2006-10-16 04:00:42 · 16 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

im currently 5 months prego and i havnt been " in the mood latley" and i havent been " satisiying" my guy. Well he keeps saying that if i dont start that things may end up looking ugly ( meaning hes gona cheat) well for the past 2 weeks he has started a saturday " job" and during the week gets off even later now than he used to... and when i am in the mood he dosent want it. is he getting it else where? how do i find out with out being to nosey or accusing him of it? because i dont want to accuse and then have it be nothing but then i dont want to not do nothing because what if it is something... GET ME? hopefullly i havnt lost you yet......

i just dont understand why he making such a HUGE deal over nothing. he knew before i got prego the 2nd time that this is what happens to me..

what is a good way of sitting him down and taliking to him so that he can understand what is happening right now to me and why i cant seem to " get in the mood"

i dont want this to ruin our marriage

2006-10-16 03:57:57 · 17 answers · asked by danielle 1

I just ask the question about my husband and I of 12 years. You can read the paragraph caption " What should I do". Here is the problem. Before we seperated I ask many times about counseling.Absolutely NOT. He will not go. He doesn't feel that we need to tell others about our problems. I know idiot!!!! Anyways, I have over the past year had talks with him and he said that his feeeling haven't changed and the only reason for not filing that he doesn't want to lose my frienship. I have no doubt that he loves and cares for me as a close friend but he also knows that if we divorce that I can't be friends with him any longer. I would always feel their is hope and read something into things he says or does. I understand this might seem ridiculous to some but it is so hard to let some one go that you really love. Thanks for all the replies

2006-10-16 03:54:05 · 4 answers · asked by grits_fla 1

My husbands ex-wife says she had his child at 4 or 5 months long. She claimed it was born at her hometown hospital and it had a hole in its heart and its lungs werent fully developed, so it was brought to childrens hospital............next day my husband was to go to hospital to see if she had a baby and she call and said it was dead.. So my question is how would you find out if she even had a baby? because noone knows if she was even pregnant to begin with. I thought about asking the hospital but they wont give that information to anyone.

2006-10-16 03:52:42 · 9 answers · asked by jessy 1

my b-day is tommorow and my husband hasnt brought up or even asked what i wanted or what i wanted to do...i think he forgot. if he forgets what should i do? should i just go on and pretned like its just another day to make him not fel bad or should i ask him if he rembers my b-day is tommorow.its not like him to forget things but im just worried that he has forgotten.

2006-10-16 03:49:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 03:42:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband complains to his friends that I am not a good wife.I don't clean the house,cook, bring in enough money.I work 40hours a week in a hospital.I am on my feet all the time.I have 2 kids.I use to be militant about my cleaning but since my husband does both his jobs from home i.e.fixing cars I can't seem to be able to clean up enough.Now besides toys I have car parts to put away

2006-10-16 03:41:18 · 57 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

My BF and I have been together for over 2 years. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. We both talked about marriage before and I mentioned, jokingly but I think was taken serious, I didn't want to get married. (I was still bitter about men, and the failed relationship previous) He has however mentioned his desire to get married and have children. I also want more children. The thing is by saying I didnt want marriage I think I will never get asked. If we do decide to have children I want to have a ring on my finger first and we have been discussing family. Him my daughter and myself are a tight family nothing could be more perfect, except for me to share his last name. How can I be discreet with Hints? HELP :)

2006-10-16 03:40:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

to swing? She says she isn't into having sex with anyone else, but not only would I like that experience, It would also turn me on to watch her with someone else. Is there any way to convince her to do this, or am I nuts?

2006-10-16 03:37:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it true that in order to apply for divorce on the Isle of Man a couple should be married for one year?
Annulment would be the best in my situation, since I was married only 4 months. However, I've heard it is almost impossible.

2006-10-16 03:37:34 · 1 answers · asked by lina v 1

My husband told me back in Nov. that he wanted a divorce and that he "He wasn't in Love with me anymore". When have been together for 12 years and still to this day we are not divorce. I don't want to get a divorce but I feel it is unfair to me to continue waiting for someone that doesn't show any chance of change. I realize that I could go ahead and file but I just was hoping to repair this marriage. We talk and are friends but I can't understand if he wants or wanted a divorce why hasn't he filed. I am sure there isn't anyone else. I think he just likes things the way they are and doesn't want to be the bad guy. Please tell me you thoughts of what I should do . To file or wait ???? Thanks

2006-10-16 03:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by grits_fla 1

he says it's not my fault i know it's his but i feel like i didn't or i don't do enough for him but i still love him and both of us want to make it work please help i need advice it is all i think about.

2006-10-16 03:33:38 · 33 answers · asked by ♥♥ lou lou ♥♥ 6

I came from a traditional family and I used to think of marriage as being the biggest achievment of a girls life time. Anyway my husband has let me down in so many ways that I left him (he would look down on me, complain of my being dependent, and I actually had to face several problems, such as shortage of food, etc). I got very disappointed with him and with marriage itself, and since I have left him I have been seeing a therapist in order to learn more about myself etc. I know I have made mistakes. Now I own my own place, work hard to pay the bills, I have the best shape of my life time, have others interests, etc and guess what? that all has caught my husbands eyes and he is willing to try again, cause I guess that is what he likes: independent women. I still have good feelings for him and a LOT of sexual desire for him. Could that work now I am more of what he likes? Would you care about giving me a piece of your mind on this, like a light opinion you would give a friend?

2006-10-16 03:32:07 · 27 answers · asked by Graça 3

I want to know if the whole "once a cheater always a cheater" is true for every man out there. I never thought hed ever cheat in the 1st place..... People keep telling me they think he did it because he was stressed. But i had the same issues PLUS being pregnant and taking care of our 2 toddlers. He cheated when our 3rd was a week old, tell me i wasnt more stressed!!! His only excuse was he was working a 2nd part time job. but we BOTH lost our house to foreclosure and BOTH share the money problems.

I just want to know if its possible for him to stay faithful. he says it was only 1 time and he knows it was the biggest mistake of his life and hell never do it again.

2006-10-16 03:29:41 · 29 answers · asked by Momma_Of_3_Wife_Of_1 1

2006-10-16 03:23:13 · 35 answers · asked by Janey 3

Ive been dating this guy for a few weeks now. I really really care for him. He was separated from his wife of 8 yrs when we met she really did him wrong she cheated twice and just dogged him out now she wants him back. he says he cares for me as much as i do but he has to try again with his wife and see if shes changed. can you be friends with someone who broke your heart should i even try im just having a rough time figuring this out i dont want to let him go should i try to keep him

2006-10-16 03:20:14 · 14 answers · asked by Catie 5

2006-10-16 03:15:47 · 2 answers · asked by Chez 1

Would you find it demanding or controlling if your partner/wife ask you to call them if you are going to be late when coming home from work or going impromtu to the pub?I noticed that this was the time when my marriage had started going down the drain.All I did was ask?

2006-10-16 03:12:31 · 31 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

I am still single, and I have too many options, men are all over, some love me, some I like, I cant decide who to stay with or marry.
I need advice how do you make your mind up of who to stay with.
thanks

2006-10-16 03:07:57 · 29 answers · asked by Maria 2

2006-10-16 03:02:22 · 19 answers · asked by nattie_ua 1

what do you guys think about a temp seperation. me and my husband just had a baby and he isnt happy and thinks that he needs to go stay with his friend for a while.

2006-10-16 03:01:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My true love is currently unhappily married. Because of her religious beliefs, she won't leave her husband at this point. Our relationship is purely innocent at this point, as there has been absolutely no physical contact beyond a hug or two. It is very frustrating to me, as I am a single guy. Am I being stupid to wait, or should I cut my losses and just give up?

2006-10-16 03:00:59 · 23 answers · asked by waiting4ever 1

would u let ur GF or BF / huby or wife go through ur phone or would u argue that u have to have ur own privacy !

2006-10-16 03:00:52 · 23 answers · asked by sandras 2

my husband of 25 yrs. goes with a male friend he has known for many years to our remote cabin in the mts. every yr. They always go about the same time of yr. and stay a week. It's not that I am insecure and have to be with my hubby every min of every day, quite frankly the time away is nice, but why would a married man want to be with a guy for that long? Am I missing something, or do I just not understand guys?? I don't work, no children at home, but I am never invited. What is your gut feeling? Oh, and a couple of years ago upon his return 2 of his viagra pills were missing from his little black duffle bag. When I asked him about this he told me he had to pay his friend back from a couple of years ago when he had borrowed some from him. He tried so hard to convince me, but I still don't believe him and he insists on still taking these trips??? Ok, let me hear from you! Thanks!

2006-10-16 03:00:25 · 20 answers · asked by butterflylover 4

iv been with him for the last 5 yrs we have a pretty baby girl. for the last 2yrs we'v been havin probs. i have to ask him to hold me in bed of which he wil for a short while then say its too hot n turn the other side. he stopped kissin me even when we makin love n even when im sad or low he wont ask me whats wrong. i feel there's somethin wrong because even when i tell him im feelin sad or low he tells me to stop thinkin so much. iv told him severally that when i tel him my feelings im not expectin a " don think so much" but a hug, a cuddle or some attention but no.! this makes me feel lonely esp because he's always on the phone writtin messages if not watching a movie which he concentrates fully. what should i do iv brought the topic up several times n he says he's sorry n it wont happen again but it happens again n again. i feel so bad askin for affection from him yet he flurts so much with my friends n other woman. if he's so sweet to other people why is he not with me? help..

2006-10-16 02:54:30 · 16 answers · asked by liz 1

Is chatting sexually, cheating? I'm just interested on what other people think about this?

2006-10-16 02:53:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd rather not hear any til death do you part stuff...I already know that.
Here is the kicker - He doesn't hit me, or cheat, drink too much or anything like that. I am just very unhappy and he is a total workaholic and I don't feel like I am getting "my money's worth" so to speak. I love him, but we have a daughter that needs him too and he just is NOT available. Work takes priority over everything, then hobbies, then his personal time. We come last.
This has been going on for 3 years....we have little sex and it is always on his terms, i.e. very quick and unfulfilling and he gets up right away and runs back to his computer. NO romance, no real dialogue and he is always angry...not at me, just in general and he takes it out on me and our daughter. I'm at my wits end and have come to realise I am wasting my time, I can do better and he seems to need to be single so he isn't pressured to spend time with any family. I guess I wonder if I moved out for a while, if he would even notice

2006-10-16 02:47:22 · 19 answers · asked by Sticky 2

your friends and relatives??????.....when somebody come to visit he is always rude and barely talk with the people!!! that makes me feel embarrased and he dont get it!!!

2006-10-16 02:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by haki 5