Ive been dating this guy for a few weeks now. I really really care for him. He was separated from his wife of 8 yrs when we met she really did him wrong she cheated twice and just dogged him out now she wants him back. he says he cares for me as much as i do but he has to try again with his wife and see if shes changed. can you be friends with someone who broke your heart should i even try im just having a rough time figuring this out i dont want to let him go should i try to keep him
2006-10-16 03:20:14 · 14 answers · asked by Catie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing you can do to "keep" him. If he wants to be with you, he will. It's clear that he is not over his wife.. do you want to be with someone that in love with someone else?
2006-10-16 03:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by KMAB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I know that this is hard.
If he is willing to work it out with his wife after 8 years of separation then he really loves his wife and values marriage. In this case you should also value their marriage, if you really care about him. You don't want to be a problem in their marriage. You also don't need to feel like you are a second alternative. While staying close to him may be tempting it will only hurt more.
I hope this helps dear, mandy.
2006-10-16 10:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by cking_pOise... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's got some issues to work out with the ex, so drop this guy & go after someone who cares for YOU.... Good luck honey!!
2006-10-16 10:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never fall in love with someone elses man. You had it coming wheather they were split up or not in the end she still belonged to him and it is none of your business or concern
the guy above me is just trying to get with you.....honey lmfao
2006-10-16 10:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by kissesmemov 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have kids with the person you should try to remain friends, other than that I see no reason to remain friends. Unless he is still hopelessly in love with her and thinks that counseling can help their marriage I say they should go for it.
2006-10-16 10:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. YOu wouldn't want him unless he wanted to be with you, right? SOunds like he still has some things to work out with the ex.
2006-10-16 10:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but let him go and try with his wife.
2006-10-16 10:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let him go, if he loves you then he will return, but don't try to be friends because that will probably cause problems with his wife.
2006-10-16 10:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this Meredith Grey?
2006-10-16 18:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by buff831 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl walk away and never look back b/c no matter what she's going to be in his life and its going to be drama forever.
2006-10-16 10:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by phillygirl513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋