I want it and well she never does.
2006-10-16 04:02:36 · 26 answers · asked by Stoney D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be that I am tired all the time, my hormones are out of wack and you don't work or help out around the house. All you do is sit on you a@@ and watch TV!
2006-10-16 08:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by mlkcow2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens in a lot of marriages. My wife quit wanting it but every other month 7 years ago. This created some resentment on my part as now that I am married I cant have sex with anyone but her besides. I slowly withdrew and became less of a husband as I did not feel I was loved only used. Now she has felt the same way and is leavingbme for another. I cant wait to get out and have sex but I am a bit concerned about dating. Your wife could have several problems.
1. Just doesnt like sex.
2. Believes sex is for procreation only
3. She is getting it somewhere else.
4. She is tired from working so hard and your not helping enough around the house.
5. She is punishing you for something you did she didnt like.
6. She is on a medication that kills her sex drive.
7. Her hormones are outta whack
2006-10-16 11:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took a Human Sexuality class in College last semester. Sometimes women will have a drop in hormones and will lose interest. Sometimes when women go on the "pill" the hormones in it will have a result in a drop of desire for women. Not all women.. but it is common. There are some disorders that women can have that are COMPLETELY TREATABLE. If she really is having trouble getting aroused, that may be a real problem... and it can be fixed. Sometimes the foods she is eating can affect it. Sometimes children can cause a drop in desire... not the excuse, the physical part. If she has recently had a child, there are medicines that she can take to help her hormones balance out. She may be upset with you for someone unknown reason... emotions are a funny thing with women. Have you actually sat down and talked to her about it... or is it an argument. If she is legitimetly not interested, it might be biological. Many many women are on medicine to regulate those hormones... have her check with her doctor. If you guys have talked about it... and if she misses sex at all... she would probably be happy to go to the doctor. If not, then you might have other problems. Best of Luck.
2006-10-16 11:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Myria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should talk to her. Talkin to other people about it doesn't really get you the real answers you need.
Try talking to her. Ask her what she wants, and why she doesn't seem interested. Whatever you do, don't let your talk become heated (in a bad way). Stay calm and respect each others opinions. You really need to talk things out with her and see where she's coming from.
I think there is a problem when a woman wouldn't want a ***** inside. Have you been married long?
2006-10-16 11:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to soften the ambience before asking for sex. Try doing things like dimming the light to create a mysterious feel, playing soft and classical music to perks up the feeling and light aromatic candles around the room, preferrably Lavendar aroma as it relaxes the body to give a night of wild sex!
Hope it helps!
2006-10-16 11:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be stress or depression. Sex is the only thing that keeps men and women active in a relationship. Your wife could be going through a mental stage.
2006-10-16 11:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by sportsgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stayed in bed all morning just to pass the time
There's something wrong here, there can be no denying
One of us is changing, or maybe we've stopped trying
And it's too late, baby, now it's too late
Though we really did try to make it
Something inside has died and I can't hide
And I just can't fake it
It used to be so easy living here with you
You were light and breezy and I knew just what to do
Now you look so unhappy, and I feel like a fool
And it's too late, baby, now it's too late
Though we really did try to make it
Something inside has died and I can't hide
And I just can't fake it
There'll be good times again for me and you
But we just can't stay together, don't you feel it too
Still I'm glad for what we had, and how I once loved you
But it's too late, baby, it's too late
Though we really did try to make it
Something inside has died and I can't hide
2006-10-16 11:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by Beechy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try something fancy and lots of foreplay before having sex. This may help to arose the interests.
2006-10-16 11:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by helping 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going through it right now man. My wife acts like she dont want me to touch her. Sh even had a relationship with someone else months ago but she claims they never did anything. I say find out whats goign on. You owe ti to yoruself
2006-10-16 11:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mister Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married the first time, I wasn't interested in sex much either. It was him. I didn't like his approach, or his techniques, if you want to call them that. Maybe it IS you. Think about how you approach her. Make her more comfortable. I think she doesn't need help, but your relationship might.
2006-10-16 11:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋