My BF and I have been together for over 2 years. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. We both talked about marriage before and I mentioned, jokingly but I think was taken serious, I didn't want to get married. (I was still bitter about men, and the failed relationship previous) He has however mentioned his desire to get married and have children. I also want more children. The thing is by saying I didnt want marriage I think I will never get asked. If we do decide to have children I want to have a ring on my finger first and we have been discussing family. Him my daughter and myself are a tight family nothing could be more perfect, except for me to share his last name. How can I be discreet with Hints? HELP :)
2006-10-16 03:40:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I thinkif you have a open and honest relationship you need to tell him how secure and happy he makes you and how only now you have your faith restored in men. That you now could consider marriage if you are to spend the rest of your life together.
There is no fancy way of being honest... You should not be afraid to say how you feel.
If he is cool towards you and skirts around it, then you have your answer.... but if he jumps up and down and says, set the date. wow... there you have it , so simple and effective.....
2006-10-16 03:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think discreet is not the way to go with something this big! I agree with previous advice that you should make it clear to him what your desires and priorities are, then when you've both been honest and put all your cards on the table you just wait for the day he whips out that ring...
God bless the three of you and your future together
2006-10-16 04:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by inimitable_heidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're joking accurate? Hun, you gotta sit down decrease back a sec and seem at this entire difficulty. How lengthy have you ever well-known the guy? How did this ensue? certainly you're literally not planning on dealing with with it, no longer declaring it received't paintings yet probability is it would want to steer on to disaster. i might want to signify you tell him you imagine you ought to get to carry close eachother extra constructive. To be thoroughly difficulty-free, the variety of guy who proposes after 3 days is one in each and every of two sorts. A hopeless romantic or a creepy slimeball. shall we desire on your sake this is the former!
2016-12-04 21:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by dricketts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and your bf need to sit down and have a serious talk. Just cause you told him once that you didn't want to get married doesn't mean that it is written in stone. After being together for two years, i feel that there should be another step taken. There must be a reason that you two are still together??
2006-10-16 03:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by kittymeow63 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say to him every now and then, "Ohhhhh babe, I love you soooooo much. Wouldn't it be nice to have a child made by just you and me?"...or something in that line. Even straight out like you would love to be his wife and start having another child with him will be a big enough hint to let him know you are finally open to marriage. Good luck second time around. I hope you have chosen carefully.
2006-10-16 03:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him exactly ow you feel. If you really want to spend the rest of your life with this person talking about your feelings - no matter what - shouldn't be an issue
2006-10-16 04:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he's ready he'll ask what is your rush? you want to be divorced just as quick. what is that ring going to do for you? sounds like you wana get married to be married not for love.
2006-10-16 03:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by crank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try finding the ring you want, & simplying saying babe when you propose to me I would like a ring that this.
2006-10-16 03:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Propose to him, there is nothing wrong with that - but be prepared to be rejected, if he hasn't asked you it may be because he isn't ready yet.
2006-10-16 03:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about being discreet, when he comes ask him.
2006-10-16 03:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by gbcouv71 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋